Men: Let’s be real. I bet at one time or another you wished you looked like this because then ALL the pretty ladies would be into you, right?
Turns out, when polled, most ladies don't actually notice the 'looks of a man' when he walks up to her.
Instead, these are the things that women notice first thing when a man walks up to her (to ask her for her number because she's just so darn cute.)
Danelle: His facial expression and his height
Anna: Height, does he have kind eyes and is he smiling?
Michele: His eyes and then his voice.
Nicole: height, eyes, smile (or lack of)
Kimberly: If he has a weapon or not.
Maggie: Probably how tall he is
Betty: His energy
Clair: The way he walks. And his energy
Kari: Eyes and smile.
Kelly: His face
Bethany: His walk and how he carries himself (is he looking at the ground, phone, people around him) then I notice height of course and chest/shoulders ?
Donna: Scent, expression on face
Debra: Way he walks..and yes, Looks!!
Joia: His posture
Molly: His eyes and his smile
Megan: Where his eyes are looking and the curvature/expression on his lips.
Sara: Eyes, smile
Rena: How close he gets.
Dorothy: What he's wearing, height, the way his face is put together.
Megan: How he carries himself
Jenny: If he's aware of himself. If he's paying attention to his surroundings.
Melissa: All depends. Posture, dress or "style" he has, smile, movements, eye contact. Over all "vibe" he carries, it isn't about the brand of clothes for example.. instead it is the whole energy, presence then once he has arrived- it is the quality of the conversation, how his mind works, his humor etc
Kathleen: His eyes and energy vibration
Beth: Confidence, eye contact, sense of warmth or not, presence or not
Lacey: His confidence (or lack there of) then probably height/smile
Alyssa: How he carries himself. Its in the walk and his eyes that get me. If he gives me that look and I’m into him...damn watch out.
Beth: his heart
Gentlemen, as you can see, the grand majority of women do not even notice your physique when you're walking up to her. Instead, it's your eye contact, it's the smile on your face, and it's the overall energy and presence that you present that a woman is going to notice.
Here's my suggestion for walking up to a woman and catching her attention and (hopefully) landing her number:
- Make eye contact
- Stand tall and act confident
- Be open and honest. Women can notice a man's vibes from a mile away so be genuine with her. If you noticed her amazing gorgeous hair, tell her that. If you can't help but notice that she has a beautiful smile, let her know. We women are crafty creatures and we will notice if you are not really present, if you are marking shit up and using 'a line' or low in the self confidence department.
And at the end of the day, if she's not interested, at least you got the courage to talk to a pretty woman that caught your eye and you most likely made her day by being genuine and offering a real compliment!
Ladies: anything else to add? Please comment below!