13 Men (and 1 bi woman) Tell All: What’s REALLY beautiful about a woman

What do men REALLY want in a woman? 

What makes a woman’s beauty noticeable to a man? 

I bet it’s not what you think…

 

Let’s be real here, there are some crazy scary statistics out there focused around body images.  Crazy shit like: 

 

  • Approximately 91% of women are unhappy with their bodies and resort to dieting to achieve their ‘ideal body shape.’ Why? Because only 5% of women naturally possess the body type often portrayed by models, superstars and actresses in the media. 5%!!! And I would wager that some of those 5% live in underdeveloped countries and actually suffer from malnutrition! 
  • 53% of 13 year-old American girls are unhappy with their bodies! (Um, WTF?) This number grows to 78% by the time girls reach 17. But here’s the real shocker: 95% of people with eating disorders are between the ages of 12 and 25.
  • 80% of 10-year-old girls have dieted. 90% of high school junior and senior women diet regularly. And finally, young girls are more afraid of becoming fat than they are of nuclear war, cancer, or losing their parents!

 

Woah? Did anybody else just stand up and exclaim, “What the fuck media portrayal of beauty,” or is that just me? 

 

Regardless, as a self love activist, I have made it my personal mission to help women see their REAL beauty no matter their shape or size. 

 

And I’ve polled 13 men and 1 bi-woman to bring you the following results of what is REAL BEAUTY in a woman. 

(Also, if you haven’t read it…find out what women first notice in a man by clicking here…)

 

David: Her ability to effortlessly intuit and fulfill all of my needs.

James: Her heart. PERIOD. 

Hans: Outside and Inner Beauty  

Derek:Their taming qualities us filthy animals require to be better individuals, lol

Karlos: Passion for living and sense of adventure for me

Shane: Sanity. Aactually, just enough sanity.
Jay: Her desire and ability to take complete responsibility for her emotions and actions…(this also tends to contribute to the beautiful smile upon her face)
Tyler: Face.
Jeff: Commitment. I say this because i feel if you are truly commited to something, husband, wife, life partner, career, or positive energy you are the girl for me
Tex: Her intelligence. But, sadly, that won’t overcome an unfortunate body or face. We guys aren’t wired that way
Matthew: Intuitive wisdom 
Shivaya: the curves around the belly
Sophia: I’m going to answer this bc I’m bi. Women who aren’t afraid of being themselves. Also, women who have a sense of humor and communication skills. 
Phillip: Confidence 

 

As you can see, there are so many attributes that men (and women) find beautiful about you ladies. And it doesn’t have to do with your physical looks. Instead, it’s the energy you are putting off. It’s your passion. It’s your wisdom. It’s your confidence.

 

So the next time you aren’t feeling good enough or sexy enough, read the words above and remember that it’s so much more that makes a real woman beautiful! 

 

And finally, if you haven’t watched this video before, it’s time: 

 

 

“No wonder our perception of Beauty is distorted.” 

 

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