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3 Dating Secrets for 2018
“Online dating sucks!”
“I can’t meet anyone decent online.”
“There are no good men in my town.”
Do any of these sound familiar?
Maybe you’ve heard yourself say these things outloud lately?
Not to fear – dating in 2018 is really not that hard.
Allow me to break it down with three little secrets that I share with all of my clients.
(I also share how men are like dogs…but in a good way…in that they are easy to please and can be trained….sorry dudes.)
Looking to Find a GREAT man yourself? Snag a copy of my wildly popular e-book “Manifest Your Soulmate in 21 Days” and start down the path towards Happily Ever After!
xo
Emyrald
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13 Men (and 1 bi woman) Tell All: What’s REALLY beautiful about a woman
What do men REALLY want in a woman?
What makes a woman’s beauty noticeable to a man?
I bet it’s not what you think…
Let’s be real here, there are some crazy scary statistics out there focused around body images. Crazy shit like:
- Approximately 91% of women are unhappy with their bodies and resort to dieting to achieve their ‘ideal body shape.’ Why? Because only 5% of women naturally possess the body type often portrayed by models, superstars and actresses in the media. 5%!!! And I would wager that some of those 5% live in underdeveloped countries and actually suffer from malnutrition!
- 53% of 13 year-old American girls are unhappy with their bodies! (Um, WTF?) This number grows to 78% by the time girls reach 17. But here’s the real shocker: 95% of people with eating disorders are between the ages of 12 and 25.
- 80% of 10-year-old girls have dieted. 90% of high school junior and senior women diet regularly. And finally, young girls are more afraid of becoming fat than they are of nuclear war, cancer, or losing their parents!
Woah? Did anybody else just stand up and exclaim, “What the fuck media portrayal of beauty,” or is that just me?
Regardless, as a self love activist, I have made it my personal mission to help women see their REAL beauty no matter their shape or size.
And I’ve polled 13 men and 1 bi-woman to bring you the following results of what is REAL BEAUTY in a woman.
(Also, if you haven’t read it…find out what women first notice in a man by clicking here…)
David: Her ability to effortlessly intuit and fulfill all of my needs.
James: Her heart. PERIOD.
Hans: Outside and Inner Beauty 
Derek:Their taming qualities us filthy animals require to be better individuals, lol
Karlos: Passion for living and sense of adventure for me
Shane: Sanity. Aactually, just enough sanity.
Jay: Her desire and ability to take complete responsibility for her emotions and actions…(this also tends to contribute to the beautiful smile upon her face)
Tyler: Face.
Jeff: Commitment. I say this because i feel if you are truly commited to something, husband, wife, life partner, career, or positive energy you are the girl for me
Tex: Her intelligence. But, sadly, that won’t overcome an unfortunate body or face. We guys aren’t wired that way 
Matthew: Intuitive wisdom
Shivaya: the curves around the belly 
Sophia: I’m going to answer this bc I’m bi. Women who aren’t afraid of being themselves. Also, women who have a sense of humor and communication skills.
Phillip: Confidence
As you can see, there are so many attributes that men (and women) find beautiful about you ladies. And it doesn’t have to do with your physical looks. Instead, it’s the energy you are putting off. It’s your passion. It’s your wisdom. It’s your confidence.
So the next time you aren’t feeling good enough or sexy enough, read the words above and remember that it’s so much more that makes a real woman beautiful!
And finally, if you haven’t watched this video before, it’s time:
“No wonder our perception of Beauty is distorted.”
Men: Here’s what women REALLY notice about you…
Men: Let’s be real. I bet at one time or another you wished you looked like this because then ALL the pretty ladies would be into you, right?
Turns out, when polled, most ladies don't actually notice the 'looks of a man' when he walks up to her.
Instead, these are the things that women notice first thing when a man walks up to her (to ask her for her number because she's just so darn cute.)
(And find out what men think makes a woman REALLY BEAUTIFUL by clicking here to read!)
Danelle: His facial expression and his height
Anna: Height, does he have kind eyes and is he smiling?
Michele: His eyes and then his voice.
Nicole: height, eyes, smile (or lack of)
Kimberly: If he has a weapon or not.
Maggie: Probably how tall he is
Betty: His energy
Clair: The way he walks. And his energy
Kari: Eyes and smile.
Kelly: His face
Bethany: His walk and how he carries himself (is he looking at the ground, phone, people around him) then I notice height of course and chest/shoulders 
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Stacey: Eyes
Donna: Scent, expression on face
Debra: Way he walks..and yes, Looks!!
Joia: His posture
Molly: His eyes and his smile
Megan: Where his eyes are looking and the curvature/expression on his lips.
Sara: Eyes, smile
Rena: How close he gets.
Dorothy: What he's wearing, height, the way his face is put together.
Megan: How he carries himself
Jenny: If he's aware of himself. If he's paying attention to his surroundings.
Ashley: posture
Melissa: All depends. Posture, dress or "style" he has, smile, movements, eye contact. Over all "vibe" he carries, it isn't about the brand of clothes for example.. instead it is the whole energy, presence then once he has arrived- it is the quality of the conversation, how his mind works, his humor etc
Wahkeena: vibes
Kathleen: His eyes and energy vibration
Peggy:His eyes
Beth: Confidence, eye contact, sense of warmth or not, presence or not
Lacey: His confidence (or lack there of) then probably height/smile
Alyssa: How he carries himself. Its in the walk and his eyes that get me. If he gives me that look and I’m into him...damn watch out.
Beth: his heart
Gentlemen, as you can see, the grand majority of women do not even notice your physique when you're walking up to her. Instead, it's your eye contact, it's the smile on your face, and it's the overall energy and presence that you present that a woman is going to notice.
Here's my suggestion for walking up to a woman and catching her attention and (hopefully) landing her number:
- Make eye contact
- Smile
- Stand tall and act confident
- Be open and honest. Women can notice a man's vibes from a mile away so be genuine with her. If you noticed her amazing gorgeous hair, tell her that. If you can't help but notice that she has a beautiful smile, let her know. We women are crafty creatures and we will notice if you are not really present, if you are marking shit up and using 'a line' or low in the self confidence department.
And at the end of the day, if she's not interested, at least you got the courage to talk to a pretty woman that caught your eye and you most likely made her day by being genuine and offering a real compliment!
Ladies: anything else to add? Please comment below!
How to get an ’emotionally unavailable’ man to commit (#truthtuesdays Ep 41)
I recently had a woman ask me:
How do you deeply connect with a man who is emotionally unavailable, depressed, over-anxious and over-thinking who shuns connection?
Woah! Great question.
Watch below if you’re wondering how exactly you do that…
If you’re curious to know more about Conflict to Conscious Communication that I talked about in the video, click here.
