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The 5 Relationship Blockers

Single and wondering why?

After YEARS of coaching single women to attract in love with their soulmates, I’ve learned that there are FIVE RELATIONSHIP BLOCKERS holding back amazing, successful women from love.

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 7 – Top 3 Tips to get the guy to ask YOU out (plus one bonus tip)

How would you like the exact guy who has caught your eye to come up to you and start the conversation?

And then to ask you out? 

In this weekends episode of Truth Tuesdays, I give you the exact tools to do just that!

For a guy who has feelings (which, um, hello, is pretty much every man), it is HARD to go up to an attractive woman and ask her out.

So, ladies, you HAVE to help them out, here!

If you’re interested in a man, you have to SHOW him that you’ve interested and give him the PERMISSION to come up to you and chat you up!

If you don’t…..

Well you are missing out on a lot of opportunities to start conversations with decent men.

In the video, I give you the top 3 ways to show a guy that you’re interested….so that he’ll come up to you, chat you up and ask you out!

One. Smile

Everyone looks so much more beautiful when they smile! And when you smile at a guy, you boost his confidence.

He thinks “hey, she’s cute. And waaaaaiiiiiit, she’s smiling at ME!”

 

Two. Make extended eye contact

This one is HUGE. And scary.

Make eye contact with a guy you’re interested in for at least 5 seconds. 

And smile!

That gives him the green-light to come up to you and start a conversation….even if it’s “Do I know you?”

 

Three. Ask for help

Every man likes to feel needed.

So allow him to help you in some type of way!

“Do you know the fastest way to get to….?”

“Do you know what is good here?”

“What do you suggest I order?”

“Can you reach that for me?”

You get the idea.

Allow him to feel like he is needed and necessary and he’ll instantly be much more attracted to a woman that “needs” him than  an independent woman who does not. 

 

Four. Create a little mystery

Don’t give it all up!

Don’t tell him all about you and your entire life’s story in your 5 minute meeting.

Instead, create an air of mystery and allow him to want more….to ask for more….and ultimately…

To ask you for a date!

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 6 – Your parents are the reason you’re still single

Yes, it’s your parents fault that you’re single. 

Don’t you just love some blunt truth?

Here’s why it’s your parents fault if you’re single (most likely)

We form our beliefs about the world when we are children.

We are looking around us and taking it all in.

We’re like little sponges.

And so….depending how daddy treated mommy and what mommy said to daddy, we believe it to be normal.

WE ASSUME THAT ‘THIS’ IS HOW A MAN TREATS A WOMAN AND ‘THIS’ IS WHAT ‘I’ BELIEVE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND LOVE.

So, yes, it is your parents fault if you’re single if, for example, your Mom was telling you:

  • there are no good men out there
  • good men are hard to find
  • he’ll always leave you in the end
  • don’t ever get married; it’s so difficult

And on and on and on….

You see where I’m going here?

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IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT HOW YOU WERE RAISED OR WHAT YOUR PARENTS SAID OR THE CORRESPONDING BELIEF SYSTEMS YOU FORMED AS A RESULT. 

It IS your responsibility, however, now that you are aware of your amazing power of your belief systems, to create the life that you DO want.

OUR BELIEF SYSTEMS ARE STRONG. 

So strong in fact that we have created an entire reality based around our beliefs.

Our beliefs as to whether we are:

  • good enough
  • lovable 
  • worthy of a good man
  • worthy of a good job
  • worthy of happiness

You get the idea.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’VE GOT TO DO: 

  1. Take out a sheet of paper
  2. Write down everything you can remember in regards to how your parents treated each other. What they said. How they acted. Body language.
  3. Then write down everything you can remember in regards to other pertinent relationships – aunts, uncles, friends’ parents, grandparents, etc
  4. Now take out a second sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle.
  5. On the left side, write down all your limiting beliefs about relationships (for example: Men are hard to find. I’m not good enough for a good man. Strong women always stay single.)
  6. On the right side, now write a NEW belief that is going to empower you and get you one step closer to the love of your life (for example: Great men are all around me! I’m so amazing and lovely and the prize! It’s easy for a strong woman to find a strong man)
  7. And then, whenever any of the old beliefs try to make their way into your field of consciousness….PUSH THEM ASIDE.

Now it’s up to you to do the work.

YOU HAVE TO BE STRONGER THAN THE LIMITING BELIEFS OF YESTERDAY.

You can choose to have the love life of your dreams! You just have to want is MORE than the pain and hurt you’ve already experienced!