Most women notice the huge gap between where they are (single) and where they want to be (in an amazing relationship with their equal).
And they think about how much TIME it’s going to take to meet him.
Plus the fact that they haven’t (yet) met him in the last 35, 40 or 45 years… so IF they even meet him is it going to take decades?
And so what do they do?
They give up.
They let PERCEIVED TIME get in the way.
They think the gap is too large so they don’t take action at all.
But this is where the compound effect comes into play.
If you ate a candy bar ever afternoon with your lunch, it might not seem like a lot. But let’s say that candy bar has 200 calories. Within 18 days, you’ve eaten enough extra calories to add a pound of weight. Within a year, you’ve gained 20 pounds!
Let’s say you decide to do the opposite.
To remove ONLY 200 calories from your diet every day and change nothing else.
For awhile it seems like NOTHING is happening… but after a year you’ve potentially LOST 20 pounds!
Small daily actions might not seem like much because it takes TIME to see the results of those actions.
In the case of love, what are small daily actions that you could take that would add up over time?
For example: Every weekend I commit to going to a new location (BY MYSELF) and talking to at least one new person and smiling to at least 3 new people (because maybe one I will eventually talk to or he/she will come up to me)
… that’s at least 52 new men you are meeting a year!
For example: Rather than order my groceries online, I’m going to GO to the grocery store. And, once a week when I’m grocery shopping I’m going to complement one person (ideally a cute guy)
… imagine if you did this once a week every week – that’s another 52 new men you’re exposed to over the course of a year!
Can you think of any other small daily actions that will add up over time? Not only for your love life but for all areas of your life?
THIS IS THE POWER OF THE COMPOUND EFFECT!!
SMALL DAILY ACTIONS/HABITS ADD UP OVER TIME TO CREATE MASSIVE CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE!
Now that you’re changing your habits to meet new men… how do you ensure that they are attracted to you?
Within The Irresistible Woman, you’ll learn:
– The Most Attractive Trait(s) That High Quality Men Are Searching For That Make Them Want To Pursue A Woman & Commit
– The Top 3 Communication Mistakes That Repel High Quality Men & Has Them Running Away From You
– The Invisible Elements That Magnetically Attract Men To You Consistently
– How To Let Go Of the Obsessive Need to Pursue Men, Plan the Dates and Take Control
– How to Become the Woman That Men Want to Commit To