We are human magnets in any given moment attracting
to us whatever our dominant energy or vibration happens
to be over the course of our lives.
Understanding, or discovering, the Law of Attraction really should be a cause for celebration in your life because you have the power to affect every single thing in your life!
If you desire it, and take action towards having it, ultimately the Law of Attraction decrees that it shall be yours!
So, let’s dig into how you can properly use the Law of Attraction in your life to manifest the man, the dream job, the money in your bank account and so much more!
In a nutshell, all you need to do is imagine what you want to manifest in your life and visualize it coming to pass.
And on the flip side, the more you ponder how impossible something is, the less likely it is that it shall come to pass. So the more you think about what you don’t want, the more you attract that in!
Whereas, if you focus on what you DO want, you DO attract that in, instead!
Good, let’s move on.
IMPORTANT THING TO NOTE WHEN MANIFESTING AND USING THE LAW OF ATTRACTION: YOU HAVE TO FEEL LIKE YOU ALREADY HAVE IT
If you WANT something, it puts the energy/vibration of LACK out into the Universe. And as like attracts like, you’ll simply get more lack. Or in this case, a LACK of a soulmate.
So, I WANT MY SOULMATE translates to the Universe NOT giving you your soulmate because you’re vibrating at the frequency of “I want it because I don’t have it. Which means I don’t have it.”
Whereas, I’M GRATEFUL FOR MY SOULMATE and feeling like you already HAVE HIM by your side allows the Universe to give you more of that energy. Which equals soulmate eventually by your side.
NEEDINESS = LACK = LESS LIKELY TO GET WHAT YOU WANT
GRATITUDE = HAVING = MORE LIKELY TO GET WHAT YOU WANT
So the important question is this:
HOW DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ALREADY HAVE WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU WANT? (Especially if you’ve never had it before and don’t really know what it feels like?)
Let’s dig into this, shall we?
Step 1: Define what you want.
Easy. You want your soulmate.
Step 2: Attract what you want.
Not so easy. Because you have to FEEL like you already have what you want…even though you haven’t had it yet.
There are THREE ways that I know that are the best ways to work on FEELING what you want even if you’ve never had it. And by now they shouldn’t come as any big surprise to you. 🙂
1. Visualization – See yourself having whatever it is that you want. The end result has come to pass. How do you FEEL in this moment? We’ve talked about this a lot. Why? Because it works and it’s typically the easiest way for someone to imagine what it would feel like by putting themselves into the picture of having what they want. Or in your case, having your soulmate by your side. His arms around you. He’s walking you down the aisle. Close your eyes. C’mon. You could imagine how that must feel, couldn’t you? 🙂 It’s really important to SEE IT AS IF IT’S HAPPENING NOW. Because, once again, if you WANT something, it implies lack. Whereas if you are FEELING as if you HAVE it already, you’re putting out the energy of attracting what you want.
*Science Side Note: The subconscious mind pretty much runs your life through habits and patterns. And it doesn’t know the difference between real experiences and what you make up in your mind to be true. So if you change your subconscious mind to believe that you already have whatever it is that you want, you’ve pretty much done most of the work.
2) Affirmations – You write out what you want in as much detail, passion, feeling and emotion as you can. It’s important to write them down AS IF you already have it in this present moment. Such as: I am a millionaire. I am married to the man of my dreams. I am so happy and grateful now that I have my soulmate by my side.
*Note: Affirmations will not work if you don’t put emotion into them and say them with the feeling as if they have already come to pass. If you’re just reading words on a page, it’s not much more helpful than reading a fictional novel.
It’s important to repeat your affirmations every day and several times a day.
3) Vision Board – Make a collage of the things you truly desire and put it somewhere where you can see it every day.
There’s a part of your brain called the Reticular Activating System (RAS) which chooses what to focus upon in your reality. If your attention is on the ‘bad,’ you’ll notice the bad…such as ‘no good men in my town.’
Whereas if you focus on the good, you’ll notice/attract more good in your life and find endless opportunity wherever you go!
Watch this video about Vision Boarding, por favor. In only 7 minutes I tell your beautiful bum why the vision board is oh-so-important!
What type of FEELINGS does it give to you when you look at the images? That’s the point! Make sure your vision board gives EMOTION to you!
So, go out there and make your vision board!
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