#truthtuesdays – Page 6 – Emyrald Sinclaire

#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 7 – Top 3 Tips to get the guy to ask YOU out (plus one bonus tip)

How would you like the exact guy who has caught your eye to come up to you and start the conversation?

And then to ask you out?

In this weekends episode of Truth Tuesdays, I give you the exact tools to do just that!

For a guy who has feelings (which, um, hello, is pretty much every man), it is HARD to go up to an attractive woman and ask her out.

So, ladies, you HAVE to help them out, here!

If you’re interested in a man, you have to SHOW him that you’ve interested and give him the PERMISSION to come up to you and chat you up!

If you don’t…..

Well you are missing out on a lot of opportunities to start conversations with decent men.

In the video, I give you the top 3 ways to show a guy that you’re interested….so that he’ll come up to you, chat you up and ask you out!

One. Smile

Everyone looks so much more beautiful when they smile! And when you smile at a guy, you boost his confidence.

He thinks “hey, she’s cute. And waaaaaiiiiiit, she’s smiling at ME!”

Two. Make extended eye contact

This one is HUGE. And scary.

Make eye contact with a guy you’re interested in for at least 5 seconds.

And smile!

That gives him the green-light to come up to you and start a conversation….even if it’s “Do I know you?”

Three. Ask for help

Every man likes to feel needed.

So allow him to help you in some type of way!

“Do you know the fastest way to get to….?”

“Do you know what is good here?”

“What do you suggest I order?”

“Can you reach that for me?”

You get the idea.

Allow him to feel like he is needed and necessary and he’ll instantly be much more attracted to a woman that “needs” him than an independent woman who does not.

Four. Create a little mystery

Don’t give it all up!

Don’t tell him all about you and your entire life’s story in your 5 minute meeting.

Instead, create an air of mystery and allow him to want more….to ask for more….and ultimately…

To ask you for a date!

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 6 – Your parents are the reason you’re still single

Yes, it’s your parents fault that you’re single.

Don’t you just love some blunt truth?

Here’s why it’s your parents fault if you’re single (most likely)

We form our beliefs about the world when we are children.

We are looking around us and taking it all in.

We’re like little sponges.

And so….depending how daddy treated mommy and what mommy said to daddy, we believe it to be normal.

WE ASSUME THAT ‘THIS’ IS HOW A MAN TREATS A WOMAN AND ‘THIS’ IS WHAT ‘I’ BELIEVE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND LOVE.

So, yes, it is your parents fault if you’re single if, for example, your Mom was telling you:

there are no good men out there
good men are hard to find
he’ll always leave you in the end
don’t ever get married; it’s so difficult

And on and on and on….

You see where I’m going here?

IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT HOW YOU WERE RAISED OR WHAT YOUR PARENTS SAID OR THE CORRESPONDING BELIEF SYSTEMS YOU FORMED AS A RESULT.

It IS your responsibility, however, now that you are aware of your amazing power of your belief systems, to create the life that you DO want.

OUR BELIEF SYSTEMS ARE STRONG.

So strong in fact that we have created an entire reality based around our beliefs.

Our beliefs as to whether we are:

good enough
lovable
worthy of a good man
worthy of a good job
worthy of happiness

You get the idea.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’VE GOT TO DO:

Take out a sheet of paper
Write down everything you can remember in regards to how your parents treated each other. What they said. How they acted. Body language.
Then write down everything you can remember in regards to other pertinent relationships – aunts, uncles, friends’ parents, grandparents, etc
Now take out a second sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle.
On the left side, write down all your limiting beliefs about relationships (for example: Men are hard to find. I’m not good enough for a good man. Strong women always stay single.)
On the right side, now write a NEW belief that is going to empower you and get you one step closer to the love of your life (for example: Great men are all around me! I’m so amazing and lovely and the prize! It’s easy for a strong woman to find a strong man)
And then, whenever any of the old beliefs try to make their way into your field of consciousness….PUSH THEM ASIDE.

Now it’s up to you to do the work.

YOU HAVE TO BE STRONGER THAN THE LIMITING BELIEFS OF YESTERDAY.

You can choose to have the love life of your dreams! You just have to want is MORE than the pain and hurt you’ve already experienced!

#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 5 – The #1 tool to manifest the love of your life

Are you a single lady who is tired and frustrated with being alone?

Are you ready to learn the #1 tool that I used on a daily basis in order to attract in my own personal prince charming?

It can be confusing with all the dating books out there filled with:

how-to land the guy of your dreams
what not-to-d0 on the first date
how to get any guy to ask you out!

You know, stuff like that.

Instead, allow me to show you the stuff that actually works.

The exact tool I used every single day for four weeks…

Until I attracted in the one!

Now, I’m using the SAME tool for my business, career and finances.

And so far…..so great!

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 4 – How to get a guy to COMMIT

How to Get a Guy To Commit!

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 2 – Releasing Pain, Shame and Guilt

Ready to release guilt, pain and shame?

Here’s the dealio.

We’ve all done stuff we ain’t proud of.

Myself included.

(yep, that beauty up there)

But here’s the good news!

You can let that shit go. With ease. And no longer allow it to plague you with guilt, shame and anxiety!

So – I suggest you watch the not quite 5 minute video up there to learn EXACTLY what it is you can do whenever the hell you want to let go of yucky feelings.

You know what happens then?

You make space for LOVE, BABY!

And if this is up your alley of what you’d like to create in your life, then I HIGHLY suggest you check out my 8 Week Radical Self Love Group Coaching Program!

To help you learn how to LOVE the real you.
TO help you let go of CRAP that no longer serves you – i.e. feelings of guilt, shame, pain.
To help you appreciate the beauty that is within.
To help you learn to love and appreciate yourself for exactly who you are so that you live the life of your dreams and attract in an amazing and loving partner to share it with!
To help you raise your confidence and self-love levels so that you fall deeply in love with yourself.
To help you break through your excuses and pain and barriers to love so that you finally learn to love yourself and attract in the love of your life to do the same (if you’re single) or drastically improve your current relationship if you’re in one!

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 1 – Be yourself already!

WATCH THE VIDEO FIRST. THEN READ ON!

AS YOU’VE LEARNED BY NOW, I CUSS LIKE A SAILOR.

But I wasn’t always that way.

I used to be quite the lady and change my attitude and persona and words based on who I was talking to.

If I met a woman who owned a health clinic, for example, I would play up my nutrition degree, I would talk about how I didn’t eat gluten, I would invite her to my yoga class, I would even change the cantor of my speech and the words I would use.

WHICH IS KINDA LAME IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT.

HERE’S THE THING.

Yes – we probably shouldn’t talk to our grandma the same way we would talk to our best friend. And if I met the president of the U.S., I wouldn’t say “sup, dawg?”

But there’s something to be said about being unapologetically true to myself and my beliefs and my way of going about in the world.

Prior to my coaching business, I owned a little cafe.

And it pretty much owned my life.

I didn’t have many friends, because I was working 60 to 80 hour weeks, and just didn’t have the time or energy to nurture relationships.

It was a total drag.

AS YOU CAN GUESS, I GOT LONELY.

If I didn’t have my partner, well I’m not really sure how I would have gotten through that period in my life.

All work and no play.

When that phase ended, I decided I needed some serious female connections in my life.

Strong powerful women that were kicking ass in life (and in their careers) and fiercely proud of who they were.

So I started to go to various networking events where I assumed these amazing women hung out!

And you know what happened?I started meeting some cool babes!

BUT…AND THERE’S ALWAYS A BUT…

I wasn’t being genuine.

I didn’t act fully like me – which meant being funny and silly, cursing when appropriate and having a drink now and then.

Instead, I acted how I assumed that person would act or expect in a friend.

So all those connections with these powerful women remained superficial.

No deep and powerful connections happened as a result.But then!

AND THANK GODDESS THERE IS A TURNAROUND.

I decided to let loose. (because what the fuck did I have to lose?)
I talked with passion about what it was that interested me.
I had a drink when I felt like it when everyone else was sipping their bubble water.
I cursed whenever the fuck I felt like it (with some discretion…I’m not a complete asshole).

YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENED?

These powerful women that I was so desperately trying to make friends with…

ALL OF A SUDDEN THEY WANTED TO BE FRIENDS WITH ME!

And you wanna know why?

I WAS FINALLY BEING ME!

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PEOPLE AREN’T DUMB. THEY CAN TELL WHEN YOU’RE NOT BEING SINCERE.

So since I wasn’t being genuine, they picked up on it and kept their distance.

Acquaintances, YES. Friends, NO.

And once I let the magic and beauty and uniqueness of ME shine through 100% of the time….

Deep and powerful connections happened!

So where am I going with this?

You have to be 100% unapologetically YOU in order to attract in those that will FULLY appreciate who you are.

If you are putting on aires and trying to be someone else that you think a guy will like….well then sooner or later he’s going to find the ‘real you’ and might not like what he sees.

So the sooner you go about being 100% confident in who you are and allowing that person to be present 100% of the time…

The only people you actually attract to you are the ones that really matter because they LOVE the true you.

And when you attract in a match that SEES you for who you are and LOVES you for who you are, good times and bad, with or without makeup, with a massive zit on your face or just after a massage….

You get the idea…

THAT’S SOULMATE LEVEL LOVE RIGHT THERE.

That’s why I created my 8 Week Radical Self Love Group Coaching Program!

To help you learn how to LOVE the real you.
To help you appreciate the beauty that is within.
To help you learn to love and appreciate yourself for exactly who you are so that you live the life of your dreams and attract in an amazing and loving partner to share it with!
To help you raise your confidence and self-love levels so that you fall deeply in love with yourself and attract in a man who does the same.
To help you break through your excuses and pain and barriers to love so that you finally learn to love yourself and attract in the love of your life to do the same!

Sound good?

Hop over to the group coaching page right this instant sister, and get ready to experience Radical Self Love!

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