7 STEPS TO MEET MEN (OR WOMEN) NATURALLY IN REAL LIFE!

 

Many of my clients HATE online dating…

Because they haven’t had any success with it.

Can you relate?

And so they want to meet their person in real life.

If YOU also don’t want to use online dating as a powerful tool to meet more men, have more dates and get even clearer in what you want…

Then that means you need to get good at meeting men/people IRL!

How do you do that?

 

First of all, I need you to answer a question:

Who are you BEING when you go out into the world?

Do you go to new locations often?

Do you fill your free time with activities that you enjoy doing?

Do you maximize the locations you currently go to and look to meet new people?

Are you open, receptive and available to meet new friends?

(Or do you go to the same places with the same people and have your head down on your phone the entire time?)

>>> Too often women approach dating and potential new candidates as either:

1 – You’re my soulmate

or

2 – You’re nobody. Get out of my life.

BUT….

If you look to meet new people everywhere you go…

You open yourself up to THEIR social circles!

That kind barista with a great personality might not be the one… but his best friend sure could be!

The toned yogini from your Saturday class isn’t your person… but her brother sure could be!

 

You have to shift from the lack mentality to the abundant mentality …

Expand your social circle…

And change your frame of mind beyond:

> Men are either husband material or no one.

> Women are either competition, best friends or no one.

Trust me. There are incredible human beings in every corner of every city… but are your eyes (and expectations) open to see them?

Now with that being said….

 

7 Steps to Meet More Men IRL 👇👇

1- Get dressed up in something that helps you to feel your best

Notice I said something that helps you to FEEL your best. It really doesn’t matter what you wear or what your hair or makeup looks like … confidence is attractive + magnetic. Period. So wear something you feel super confident in!

2- Take yourself out to a nicer restaurant and sit at the bar (or a restaurant that reflects the type of woman you are and the type of men you would like to meet)

I personally like nice food, nice views, nice drinks + a nice ambiance. These are the types of places I take myself + expect a man to take me as well.

(Which isn’t to say I don’t go to dive bars or burger joints! But for this discussion pick somewhere nice with a bar so you have the ability to meet people with ease.)

3- Order a drink (and/or dinner)

This one is pretty obvious.

4- Make sure your energy is open and approachable

After you order your drink/food, do NOT go on your phone. Do NOT read a book. Do NOT distract yourself. Be open + available to meet people.

5- Smile and make eye contact with those around you

6- Make convo with the people at the bar (even a simple HELLO can work wonders to get conversation flowing)

7 – Continue being open & friendly & approachable

It’s that simple. It’s how I meet men EVERY TIME I go out alone … when I WANT to meet men.

And you can apply this to ANY location + ANY situation!

The gym. The park. The grocery store. The yoga studio.

These are ALL places my clients have met men IRL and gotten asked out! All because they allowed their energy to be open and flirtatious!

Attraction is not a numbers game. Attraction is not a strategy game.

It’s an ENERGY game. 🔥

You can “flip on the switch” & become magnetic.

Would YOU like to learn how to become MAGNETIC to the types of men who are ready and willing to commit that YOU are excited to meet and date?

>> Click here to become the Magnetic Femme!

 

What MAKES or BREAKS a Relationship Over The Long Term

I’ve been studying relationships for over 20 years. 

And I can tell ya I’ve learned a thing or two about what makes a relationship work… and what causes a relationship to deteriorate over time. 

And I KNOW you want a relationship that stands the test of TIME

I KNOW you want a partnership that is loving, deep and connected. 

And I KNOW you desire to feel chosen, safe and supported within your relationship. 

And I also know many relationships START with a lot of love and good intentions… 

(Why else would you get married?) 

But eventually FIZZLE out… 

(50% of marriages end in divorce)

>>> So what are the components that MAKE a relationship work? And what are the components that BREAK a relationship? 

In no particular order, these are some of the aspects that will eventually, most likely lead to the BREAK of a relationship:

  • the need to always be right 
  • holding onto resentment or blame 
  • not expressing your feelings 
  • not understanding your feelings 
  • suppressing your feelings 
  • making your partner responsible for your feelings 
  • not speaking what is on your mind 
  • fixed mindset 
  • not listening to yourself (or your partner) 
  • not making the relationship THE priority in your life 
  • not treating your partner like an equal teammate 
  • unhealed trauma, pain + trust issues 

^ That last one right there is the LEADING cause of relationship break-ups. 

Too many people are looking for someone else to fix/save/heal/complete them. And so they give their power away and make their partner responsible for their happiness. But a partner was never meant to complete you. 

> You are meant to become WHOLE (again) on your own… And attract in a partner who is a match for the complete, loving human being that you are. 

And the only way you can become complete again is by really taking an honest look at yourself. 

> What parts of you are NOT aligned with unconditional love? 

And if you think you’re perfect, that’s the perfect time to enter a relationship. Because you will quickly see all the ways you are LESS than perfect. (I’ve been working on myself for over 20 years and still my relationships mirror back to me my shadow, my fears, my insecurities, my pain and my trauma… all so that I can see it reflected back to me externally what still needs to be healed.) 

A relationship is the BIGGEST vehicle for personal growth + transformation (if you allow it to be). or…. A relationship can be the BIGGEST pain in your ass and cause you to swear off dating and stay single for the rest of your life. It all depends in how you look at partnership and WHY you enter into a relationship. 

WHAT’S YOUR WHY?

What’s your why for entering into partnership? 

I’ll share with you mine: 

“I desire to enter into a partnership only if it supports me in being the best version of myself. I desire a partner who reflects back to me my sh*t in a loving way so that I can see it and do the necessary work to heal it, thereby becoming a better version of myself as a result. I desire to enter into a partnership that is alignment with my soul’s purpose and life’s mission: to guide as many souls back into their hearts of unconditional love and to then have that reflected back to them in an unconditionally, loving partnership. I desire to enter into a partnership because it adds so much more to the incredible life that I’m already living.” 

Personally, I will not enter a relationship that does not support me in being the best version of myself. And you when you continuously look for the lessons to learn and the opportunities for growth within any partnership, then you will continuously become a better version of yourself and continuously up-level the type of relationships you are in. 

So with this being said, what are the aspects that MAKE a relationship work? 

What tools do you need to carry in your toolkit or skills must you master in order to continuously be the best version of yourself inside + outside of a relationship?  

  • HEALTHY COMMUNICATION SKILLS (this one is the MOST important so I put it top of the list and I bolded it!!! If you do not have healthy communication skills, you will NOT make it. But if you can learn how to master just one thing in your life to practically ensure healthy, happy relationships… it would be COMMUNICATION!) 
  • Emotional Intelligence + Mastery(this means you take the time to explore your feelings + emotions as they arise. You are not controlled by your emotions and reacting blindly on autopilot or expecting someone else to make you feel a certain way. Instead, you realize that your emotions are messengers. You slow down to get the message. And then you can approach the situation from an emotionally neutral – not charged – place. This is you controlling your emotions + not the other way around.) 
  • Growth Mindset (a growth mindset is not run by the ego. It doesn’t claim to always be right. Instead, you’re always looking to grow, learn and expand what you believe to be true. You’re open to growing with your partner. You understand there will be changes throughout the tenure of your partnership and you are ready to move through them together!) 
  • Compassion + Understanding (you’re acting from your heart as often as possible. You understand that no one is perfect and that we all make mistakes – including YOU! You’re compassionate with both yourself + your partner.) 
  • Ability to Apologize (we all make mistakes and you will unknowingly hurt your partner from time to time. Rather than allowing your ego to flair up and make the other person out to be wrong, you take responsibility for how your actions affected your partner and express that to them in a loving way… even if you see things differently than how your partner does.)
  • Active Listening (you listen to your partner in order to understand them and what they are saying – rather than just waiting for your turn to speak.) 
  • Understanding of the opposite sex (men and women are biologically and hormonally different. When you truly understand yourself and what you need and have the ability to communicate it in a way your partner can hear AND your partner is able and willing to meet your needs (and vice versa with your partner to you), I promise you this: THAT is a happy partnership!) 
  • Connection to Self (you know who you are at your core. You know your triggers and wounds. You hear yourself and listen to yourself and follow your own intuition and guidance system. You trust yourself. And as a result of that trust and connection, you are able to completely trust your partner and their connection to themselves.) 

And yes, there are other things that are important like sexual chemistry and compatibility and friendship. But those are the most obvious factors that you already know to look for. And this list is certainly not all inclusive. (I just didn’t think you wanted to read a short novel 😉

Instead, this list above gives you an idea of some of the other skillsets you can work on developing within yourself now, whether single or partnered up… To create more (and lasting) happiness within your life + relationships. 

And that really is the only work you ever need to do. 

Look at that list above of the qualities of a healthy, lifelong partnership and begin to nurture and develop those qualities within yourself. 

PREPARE yourself today but learning the skills that are NECESSARY in order to be happy within a relationship with another healthy, mentally stable human being. 

And if you want my support in that… Just reach out. 😉 

5 Relationship Habits to Break

I teach a completely radical way of doing relationships:

It’s called taking 100% responsibility for yourself, your feelings, your past experiences, your triggers… and ultimately your entire life.

Rather than project onto your partner and make the common mistakes listed below, it’s time to take ownership for who you are and create a heathy foundation for lifelong happiness within partnership.

5 Habits to BREAK within Relationships

#1 – Not speaking up what’s on your mind (especially when you’ve been hurt or triggered) and building up resentment instead.

It’s important that you speak up when you are upset… even about the little things so that they don’t turn into BIG issues later.

#2 – Expecting your partner to be just like you and see the world the same way you do rather than celebrating your differences & learning from one another  (especially as it pertains to masculine & feminine energy)

Diversity is beautiful within partnership. You can learn from one another and grow as a result. And when it comes to masculine and feminine energy, please do NOT expect your partner to think like you or act like you. The differences between men and women is what makes us such great partners!

#3 – Expecting the relationship to be like the fairy tale portrayed in rom-coms and Disney movies.

Relationships are work. You have to work on yourself first… and then work on the relationship every single day for it to work. I’m not saying it has to be hard or uncomfortable but you will have to learn how to compromise, talk about the hard things and get entirely vulnerable with your person.

#4 – Putting all of your energy into the relationship and forgetting yourself, your friends, your hobbies, your interests and your dreams.

This is called codependency and it never ends well. Instead, focus on creating a life you love today and allow a partner to ADD into your beautiful life that you’ve crafted.

#5 – Expecting your partner to be a mind reader and know exactly what you are thinking and how you are feeling.

I once had a client who thought that TRUE LOVE meant he could read her mind. (You can blame Disney movies for that, I’m sure.) Your partner does not know what you are thinking or feeling unless you tell them. So work on being an exceptional communicator if you want to experience lasting happiness in your partnership.

Remember: your partner is NOT responsible for your happiness… your partner ADDS to your happiness.

Your partner is not responsible for saving you or fixing you… but they can love and support you while you do the work to save and fix yourself.

Your partner isn’t a mind reader… you have to speak up and let them know when you’re triggered or upset.

And so if you want to experience lasting happiness in your relationship, here is what I suggest you work on:

(These are all topics I teach my clients within my private coaching program, The Magnetic Femme and within the EMBODIED membership.)

1- Connecting to your feelings + emotions and understanding the underlying messages

Too many people make their partner (or anyone else for that matter) responsible for their happiness. YOU are the only person responsible for how you feel. It’s important that you learn how to feel your emotions and discern the underlying message, (There’s always one there) rather than reacting to your emotions or allowing them to control you.

2- Understanding and healing your past traumas

No one is free from a past. And only YOU can heal the past so as to not lug past luggage with you forward into the next relationship. The more work you can do on freeing yourself from the past today, the less likely it will be to show up in your current relationship.

3- Connecting to your intuition & learning how to trust yourself

Self trust is a huge component of a healthy relationship. This will also help you sift and sort through candidates while you’re dating and put you in the position to confidently move forward with the right person for you.

4- Communicating when you’re upset without making the other person defensive nor responsible for your happiness

Healthy communication is the MOST IMPORTANT skill for you to master if you want to be happy in a relationship. The other person is never responsible for your happiness but it is up to you to communicate how the other person’s actions or words affect you. And when done in a way where they aren’t prone to becoming defensive or reactive.

5- Letting down the wall around your heart and staying open to love (even when you’re hurting… especially when you’re hurting)

Too many women move from relationship to relationship without healing their past pain and as a result, they remain jaded and guarded. You will only attract in love at the level you are willing to give and receive it. If there is a wall around your, you will never be available to fully experience the depths of love available to you!

6- Creating a life you are wild about while single and maintaining a life you love while in partnership

The sexiest and most magnetic woman is the woman who is in love with her life! That radiance oozes out of every pore and men cannot help but be attracted to that!

But then the important thing is to maintain a life you love (with the addition of your partner, of course)!

7- Acceptance, non-judgement + compassion with yourself and others

No one is perfect. Including you. It’s time to start loving and accepting yourself for who you are today… flaws and all. This will make partnership so much more easier when you don’t expect perfection from anyone but can accept and laugh at your mistakes along the way!

And so much more!

These are some of the traits to embody that ENSURE you will be happy and satisfied in your partnership.

And these are the traits I help my clients in mastering so that they are ready for their person.

Ready to get started and manifest YOUR person?! Check out The Magnetic Femme if you’re ready for private coaching or the EMBODIED membership if you prefer to go at your own pace!

5 Traits Men Are Looking For That Inspire Them to Commit To A Woman QUICKLY (in as little as 6 months)

What are men looking for that inspire them to pursue a woman and claim her as his own? 

After SEVEN years coaching COUNTLESS (and I do mean COUNTLESS) women into the relationship of their dreams, I’m able to share with you what works + what men are actually looking for in a partner and what inspires them to commit… usually within 6 months of dating! 

What are men looking for that inspire them to pursue a woman and claim her as his own? 

After SEVEN years coaching COUNTLESS (and I do mean COUNTLESS) women into the relationship of their dreams, I’m able to share with you what works + what men are actually looking for in a partner and what inspires them to commit… usually within 6 months of dating! 


Here are just a couple of recent examples: 

  • Lauren’s husband bought them a home + invited her to move in within 6 months of their first date. They are now married with a baby girl.  
  • Sarah + her fiancé moved in together within a month + got engaged within 9 months. 
  • Patricia’s fiancé proposed within 6 months. They are getting married this summer, less than a year after their first date.

You see, when you do the work in advance to BECOME the version of yourself that high caliber men are EXCITED to commit to, it doesn’t have to take long from meeting him to becoming engaged to be married.  

Because as Sarah said, 

“When you know, you know. It just felt right from the beginning.”

Patricia said the same thing. 

So did Lauren. 

So what ARE men looking for that inspire them to pursue a woman and claim her as his own?? 

1 – Vulnerability, Openness + Softness 

​In other words, a woman in her feminine energy.  Men are in their masculine energy – in their heads – all day long. They partner up with a woman in order to be close to feminine energy. It’s incredibly nurturing to men. They are NOT looking for a masculine woman to butt heads with and compete for attention and respect. They compete in a friendly manner with their male friends in that way. 

In partnership, a healthy masculine male is looking for direct access to the feminine energy of love, radiance, openness and softness. A woman who is in her heart + has her guard down. 

When a man finds a woman who is in her healthy feminine essence, it’s an incredible turn-on for him. He knows he’ll be safe with her. That he can let HIS GUARD down because it’s not a competition. It’s a partnership of two equals with complementary energies. 

2 – Honesty (aka no games) 

You are no longer in high school.  There are no ‘rules’ to dating or ways to ‘win him over.’ A man in his healthy masculine energy doesn’t want to guess if you are into him. He doesn’t want to guess what you want. And he certainly does NOT want to play games. 

Yes, he wants to win you over. (So, make him EARN your affection, please!) But he doesn’t want the juvenile woman who plays hot/cold. The woman who is not honest about dating other men or the calls/texts on her phone from other men. 

Be clear and direct about who you are and what you want. When a woman is honest, the man knows he can trust her. That she’ll always be upfront about what pleases her (so he can do more of that) and what does not (so he can learn and do less of that.) 

But this all stems from YOU trusting yourself + knowing that who you are and what you want is enough. That you’ve mastered clear, open + direct communication…

3 – Clear, Open + Direct Communication 

The secret to long term happiness in any relationship is healthy communication. And unhealthy communication, passive aggressive tendencies and assuming ‘he should just know’ are the reasons relationships fail. 

A man wants to win you over. He wants to please you. And the only way he can do that is if you are clear and direct (and loving) in your communication. 

When a man meets a no BS woman who is honest, open + expressive, it’s like a breath of fresh air! He knows that while they might have some challenges in their partnership, they’ll be able to move through it because they know how to be clear, open and direct in communication. This ensures they will be able to wether any storm together! 

4 – A Woman Who Knows Her Worth + Value 

When a woman is NOT looking to a man to validate her and isn’t jealous of other women, a man knows he has a high value woman standing in front of him. He knows they’ll never have stupid and petty fights. He knows that she knows how to treat herself like a Queen and doesn’t NEED him to pump up her self esteem. 

Yes, she desires it. No, she will not put up with shit (more on that in the next point) and yes, she will inspire him to be HIS best self. And he loves knowing that he’ll be challenged to be his best while together in partnership. 

5 – Boundaries + High Standards 

As a continuation of the point above, men secretly (and not so secretly) want to be challenged. If you make it too easy on him, if you let him slide with less then stellar behaviors (like showing up late or forgetting to follow through on a promise), he won’t value himself or the relationship. 

But when  you have high standards and expect him to maintain them, it forces him to be the best man he can be for you, for him, and for the relationship. 

The right man loves to be challenged to step up to the plate. 

The wrong man will walk away calling  you ‘high maintenance.’ 

A man doesn’t want an ‘easy to please’ woman who settles for breadcrumbs. 

A man wants an EMPRESS who knows her worth, has incredible standards and doesn’t settle for anything less than how she treats herself (which is like a Queen, of course.) 

There are many other things that inspire a man to commit quickly to a woman when he sees these qualities in a woman. 

Do you possess them? 

Do you want some support in nurturing them and becoming the woman that men are longing to commit to?

Learn more about the Magnetic Femme process here!

#2 Block to Love


Has it ever felt like all the good ones are taken?

The successful, attractive, spiritual, emotionally intelligent ones are all snatched up, right?

I mean, it MUST be that way because you are NOT meeting then online or in person, amIright?

I understand that it can FEEL that way.

But the challenge with this line of thinking is that it reinforces the block and only makes it stronger and even more challenging for you to meet the types of men you are looking for.


Let me give you an example: I want you to spend 60 seconds looking around the room you are in and intensely looking for everything green.

Pay careful attention and make note in your mind of everything green that you see.
Notice the different shades and colors of green that are around your room.
The plants. The pillows. The small details. 
Green is such a common color. 

FIND. ALL. THE GREEN. 


Did you do it?


For the next part, you are going to close your eyes and recall everything RED! 

Did you do it?

What this exercise illustrates is that it’s incredibly challenging to recall everything RED when you were so singularly focused on finding everything GREEN.


That’s how your mind works.

It filters out reality based on:

1 – What you are looking for.

AND 

2 – What you expect to find.

What are you looking for in a partner? And do you actually EXPECT to find it?

Whatever you are experiencing in your dating life is what you are actually looking for.

As A Course in Miracles says, “Whatever you seek, you shall find.”


Pillar One of The Magnetic Femme helps you to shift your belief system, raise your expectations and find a completely different caliber of men.

Rather than looking for the green (men who ghost you, are emotionally unavailable, not successful, driven, passionate or sexy) you’ll train your brain to look for the red (the intelligent, successful, well-traveled, attractive) … And find them!

​My client Jennifer was previously dating men who were ‘way beneath her.’ Men who were ‘safe.’ Men she knew would never leave her. ​ ​ 

In short: she was settling because she was looking for the ‘green.’

She didn’t believe the ‘red’  existed.

But very quickly – within two months of applying the principles I teach within the Magnetic Femme, she met John. Her equal in every single way. The man she is proud to call her partner. The man all of her friends love. The man she trusts, respects and adores.


“I’ve never been with a man who treats me as well as John does!” she told me once.


And this gorgeous woman is almost 50. Took her 40+ years (and only 2 months of working together) to figure out that she was worthy of a HIGH CALIBER MAN…


because SHE is a HIGH CALIBER WOMAN!!!



He’s smart. Successful. Intelligent. Emotionally aware and communicative. He supports her. He’s a shoulder to lean on. A friend she can laugh endlessly with on game night. The man she trusts to plan all their trips and vacations. The man who spoils her and whisks her away fro New Years last minute… just because he can… and wants to. 😉

A true partner in every way. 

I promise you, once you stop looking for what you don’t want in partnership, you’ll find what you do.

Ready to have my expert support to magnetize YOUR exceptional partner to you? 

Click the link below to become The Magnetic Femme.

Magnetic to the types of men you desire and deserve.

#1 Block to Love

“I don’t need a man.”

Ever said that to yourself?

Guess what…

It’s blocking you from the relationship that you DESIRE.

Sure you don’t NEED anyone to take care of you in the traditional sense. You’re completely capable of taking care of yourself. You make your own money. You own your own place. You successfully run your own life.

You don’t NEED a relationship to survive, but the RIGHT relationship will ADD so much to your life.

It’s the loving and supportive partner to come home to after a long day at the office. It’s the man who helps plan the trips and travel (so you don’t have to). The one to rub your feet after you take off your heels. The one that believes in you and your dreams. The snuggles on the couch in front of the tv or fireplace.

The knowing that you don’t have to do life alone. You have your person. Your match. Your equal. The man you feel safe and comfortable being yourself with. The one you can let your guard down with. And share your fears and insecurities with. Knowing he won’t judge you or think less of you. But instead he’s cheering you on and offering you emotional support. Same but different. You’re equals.

With complementary energy.


And I know that you’ve settled in the past because you haven’t been meeting men that inspire you. Impress you. Turn you on. You haven’t met the men that you actually would consider spending the rest of your life with.


Why is that?


Because you’ve been settling.

As you lower the bar you meet lower quality men. Which then reinforces the belief system that no good men exist. So you settle and lower the bar even further. Or you stop dating completely. It’s a negative cycle that keeps you blocked from meeting the caliber of men you desire (and deserve.)


You’ve been telling yourself all the reasons why you don’t need a man… and as a result, you’ve been starting to believe those stories… which is why you’re only meeting the men you don’t really ‘need.’

But I also know that emotionally you do NEED a man. You’re tired of meeting all of your own needs. And you truly do desire (and I’ll even use the word NEED here) a partnership with the right man.

Every human being has needs and desires.

And while you are capable of meeting most (if not all) of your needs/desires on your own… I also know your heart craves for a partner that you can rely on. A partner that you trust to HELP you meet your needs.

You don’t need to do it all on your own.

You can allow yourself to have support in partnership.
I call this interdependence.

It’s not independence (where you do it all on your own).
It’s not codependency (where you cannot do anything without him).
But the beauty of interdependence in partnership.

Where you are two sovereign individuals. Both aware of your individual needs and desires. Both capable of meeting his/her own needs and desires.

But both desire to support each other in partnership to meet each others’ needs and make each others’ lives more enjoyable and easier.

No, you don’t NEED a man.

But I’ll be honest with you – there are many beautiful aspects to partnership that you are missing out on by doing it all yourself:


Laughter. Love. Friendship. Snuggles. Memories. Trips. s3x and intimacy. Personal growth and development.


And all the FEELINGS that come along with partnership: safety, security, stability, love, adoration, connectedness, desire and more.


I want you to imagine…

  • Imagine waking up and FEELING loved, adored, cherished, supported.
  • Imagine having the man you love greet you with a smile, an ‘I love you” and your cup of coffee in the morning.
  • Imagine your partner having dinner warm and ready and waiting for you when you get home after a long day at the office.
  • Imagine your man planning the entire New Years Eve getaway… and you completely trusting him to plan something incredible.
  • Imagine being such a strong, sexy, funny, intelligent, successful man… that you get butterflies every time you see him… and he’s yours. And he’s completely dedicated to you.
  • Imagine you finally have the relationship you’ve always dreamed of but were scared actually existed.
  • Imagine if you got everything you desired and so much more! 

You could have MORE… so much MORE in your life. The love, trust, connection, bond, friendship, stability, and support that only partnership with the right man provides.

Are you ready to stop telling yourself that you can ‘do it all on your own’ and that you ‘don’t need a man’?

The Magnetic Femme is how you quickly move beyond the old stories and fears and blocks you’ve built up around love and the right type of high-caliber relationship entering your life. (Click here to find out more.)


Rather than think about all the ways a man could interfere with your successful life that you’ve built all on your own…

I want you focusing on all the ways the RIGHT MAN ADDS to your life.

  • Intimacy + s3x is a lot more incredible with two…
  • Dinners are more intimate and special with two…
  • Trips around the world to magical far off locations are more memorable with two…
  • Holidays are merrier with two…
  • Storms are easier to weather with two…
  • Love is multiplied by so much more when shared between two…

You don’t need a man like you need food, water, shelter and oxygen. I agree.

But you deeply desire a partner who is your equal on every level that fulfills the emotional needs of your heart.

Click the link to become The Magnetic Femme: Magnetic to the types of men you desire and deserve.

Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?

Can you be friends with your ex?

It depends on a variety of factors.

But we can sum it up into something simple:

♥️ If you feel better when you’re around them, If they lift your energy, If they believe in empowering you to be your best self … then most likely YES! You can easily be friends with your ex.

💔 If however, the relationship was based on co-dependency + searching eternally for validation … then it’s going to be challenging to have a healthy relationship with your ex.

Find out more in the video!

How To: Success In Love & Career

👵🏼 Spending the rest of your life alone… or worse, wasting your potential with a man that can’t meet you at your level, just isn’t what you deserve.

Neither is being unhappy in a relationship, secretly desiring to have a more fulfilling partnership 💔

🧲✨Thankfully, dating a high-quality man can be easy… if you understand how to call him in… And it’s what my clients are doing…

Every.👏 Single.👏 Day.

⛔ But let me be clear, this is NOT for women who are looking for a quick fix or superficial “magazine dating tips”.

This is ONLY for the woman who wants lasting change and is willing to put in the work it takes to have a thriving career and a fulfilling romantic partnership with her equal.

✅ This method works, it has been verified by over 10,000 of my clients. 

It’s what my private client Lisa N., a successful author and entrepreneur, used to meet her high-caliber fiancé in under 4 months, after years of searching.

👰🏼🤵🏻And what Fortune 500 CEO Christina S., used to find her current husband, who she claims is “her Prince Charming & the perfect fit for me”.

If you’re reading this you probably want the same, and that’s why I created my most recent Masterclass so that you can have success BOTH in Love & Career.

… There is no catch!

💖 This masterclass is completely FREE because I want to reach as many women as possible and teach them the secrets of having a fulfilling career and love life.

I want you to watch it to understand how you can call in your high-quality partner, that fits in perfectly with your driven career life.

✨ At the end of the masterclass I also offer you the opportunity to book a Free 30 min 1-1 call with me (at a value of $500)…

AND… the chance to receive my top training on Unlocking Your Feminine Magnetism, for free. 

Why?

Because I’m committed to finding my next success stories and I’m deeply committed to my mission of helping 1,000,000 women improve their love lives! 💘

⏳This opportunity will not be up forever, as soon as the coaching spaces are filled, I’m closing the doors to this masterclass for another six months.

I want you to have it all, babe. Both in your career and in love!

💕 You no longer need to pick & choose one or the other.

Watch my masterclass here:

>>> https://emyraldsinclaire.com/truelove/

The Secrets to Manifesting the Love of Your Life

Sign Up For My Upcoming Masterclass And Learn How to Magnetize Your Dream Man to You! 

by Emyrald Sinclaire, Love & Relationship Coach

In order to manifest a man who is completely and entirely devoted to you, you need to change your vibration and stop using all the wrong ways (that most women use) to get love. What you’re doing is actually attracting the WRONG men to you: men who are scared of commitment, men who are emotionally unavailable, or men who simply bore you to tears.

If you’ve ever been with the man who ‘wants one thing,’ or the man who won’t introduce you to his friends/mom, or the man just using you for a while for attention, then you need to learn the secrets to manifest the love of your life that I share with my private clients in my upcoming Masterclass! (If you can’t make it live, I will send out a replay, so please sign up as this information is invaluable if you’re looking for a real, devoted soulmate relationship!)

I want to give you a taste of what I’ll share in my HOUR LONG masterclass so that you can start putting to practice the tools IMMEDIATELY. However, please join us LIVE because you’ll get so much more information plus the chance to ask a Love Coach (that’s me) all your burning questions surrounding your love life! 

1. ClarityThis is the first thing I teach anyone. You absolutely need to understand exactly what you want in a partner… and not only that… exactly what you want in life in order to get it!

If not – you’re doing what I lovingly refer to as “Sloppy Manifesting.” The problem with most women is that they are dating and looking for the WRONG qualities in men. They think that they need to find a man who is rich or handsome or owns his own business. But these things are ALL WRONG!

I have a list called the Prince Charming list and those items above are just the Icing on the Cake. They are not the ‘Non-Negotiables’ or the ‘Hearts Desire.’  When you’re looking for the wrong qualities in a man when you’re dating, you’ll end up with the emotionally unavailable men, instead of the men who actually want to commit to you!  (We’ll go much deeper into this step in the workshop as it’s the BIGGEST PROBLEM I see with so many single women today!) 

And so step one to getting anything in life is getting crystal clear in what you want!

You CAN have it all but the first step is knowing what it is!

2. Confidence

Is this hard for you to imagine raising your confidence levels? 

Believing that you can HAVE anything you want is a tricky concept because we are constantly being bombarded with PROOF of why we can’t have that thing (or person). You live in the fear that you’ll never really have what you want and so you don’t allow yourself to believe you can have it because you don’t want to be let down when it doesn’t happen.

But that type of thinking is what sets you you up for failure.

The process of building up your self-love and self-confidence can be a slow process but I promise you it’s worth it! When you BELIEVE it, you shall HAVE it. And so building up your confidence is the next step to manifesting the life you desire!

The woman who is in alignment with her dreams and desires WILL attract them in!

How do you do that? We’ll cover just that in the Masterclass… but for now I want you to write down 10 things you love about yourself. Pretend you were talking about your best friend or sister. Write them down on a sheet of paper right now.

And then, turn on some music you love…. get dancing.. and read it back to yourself.

YOU. ARE. THE. PRIZE.

You need to remember that in order to manifest an amazing love!

3. Communication

Unfortunately, 100% of my clients have an issue speaking their minds. Why? Because they are scared of getting rejected for who they really are and what they really want

But that’s why this step is so important…. if you don’t speak up with what you want, you’ll never get it.

Being able to clearly articulate your feelings, needs, and desires without freaking out, being ‘too much’ or simply getting scared and pulling away is 100% necessary in order to be in a high-quality relationship.

Are you ready to blossom into a powerful woman who speaks her mind in the most loving and powerful way without seeming to be needy or demanding?

Great!

Sign up for the Masterclass and we’ll cover just that!

But for now, I want you to do just one little thing for me… today you MUST speak up about something that you normally would not. Say NO when you normally say YES because you don’t want to be the odd-person out or seem demanding. Let someone know when they’ve hurt your feelings. Call up and ex or friend who has hurt you in the past and let them know how you feel.

It’s never easy to speak up for ourselves but you must make YOUR comfort a priority if you expect to be in a deep and powerful relationship with a man who loves and cherishes the real you.

4. Courage 

The second to last part of the process is developing the courage to take daily action steps towards becoming the new version of yourself, regardless of how many bad dates you’ve had or if you’re still in love with your ex.

A woman who finds (no, MANIFESTS) her soulmate and creates the life of her dreams is not a special woman. (Say what!?)

Instead, she is simply the woman with clarity in what she wants, the confidence to believe she deserves it, the communication skills to speak it and finally, she possesses the courage to go after it… no matter what… and never stop… until she achieves it!

THAT is the woman who manifest the love of her life and the life of her dreams!

I want you to write a promise to yourself and have it go something like this:

“Dear Emyrald,

I promise to be brave. Every day starting today, I will take a small steps towards achieving all the dreams in my heart because I know that I am worthy. I promise to put myself first, even though I might be afraid. I promise to focus only on what I want instead of getting caught up in the past. I promise to never let you down because I believe in you.

Love,

Me”

Okay ??? Go in your journal and write down a promise to yourself today! And also make sure to sign up for the Masterclass as I’ll give you more ways to be courageous and believe you deserve what you desire, my love!

5. Commitment

And now the final step to pull it all together… having the commitment to follow through each and every day until your goal is fulfilled!

Says A Course in Miracles: “Those who are certain of the outcome can afford to wait and wait without anxiety.”

Are you committed to yourself until the end?

Are you committed in all areas of your life?

Are you committed to manifesting the love of your life so matter what hardships might bring you down?

THIS is the level of commitment you need if you really want to manifest your soulmate.

And HOW do you do this?

Well – how you do ONE thing is how you do everything.

Take stock of things that you’ve left undone in your life…

….promises you made that you never kept.

… projects you started that you never finished.

…. courses you signed up for that you never did.

The list goes on and on.

Are you committed in your life in every way….. or are there areas you could clean it up?

BE COMMITTED to yourself. That is the final step in the process to manifesting your love.

Want to know how to show EVEN MORE commitment to yourself? By signing up for the  Magnetize Your Dream Man Workshop! 

ABOUT EMYRALD SINCLAIRE

Emyrald Sinclaire is The World’s Leading Love & Relationship Coach, Master Manifester & Love Guru. 

After personally struggling with relationships for years, being left on her birthday by the man she thought she was going to marry, she decided ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH and developed a quick and easy way to manifest a high-quality partner! 

Emyrald now has students around the world who have successfully manifest partners who meet EVERYTHING on their Prince Charming list; she’s taught them how to craft their dream guy out of thin air! 

She usually charges over $10,000 to work with clients one on one, but reveals the exact same secret methods in this webinar. This FREE training class is a nothing-held-back look at exactly how Emyrald had taught her clients to manifest their dream man in as little as 4 months! 

Emyrald will show you exactly how to remove your limiting beliefs around love and to instead step into your true manifesting capabilities and feminine power within this workshop. 

In order to reserve your spot, simply click the link below, and attend the webinar.

Click here to reserve your spot!

Magnetize Your Dream Man Workshop!

The Challenges Of Manifesting

Do your manifestations work some of the time but you’d like them to work all of the time?!

Do the paradoxes of manifestation confuse the heck out of you and you’re looking for the clarity around ways to ‘let go and trust’ that your manifestation is happening even though you’re super attached to it happening because you really want it? 

I feel you!
Watch the three videos below and work through the three most common issues when it comes to conscious manifestation! 

Part 1:

  • Hold the vision of what you want, but forget about it at the same time 

  • Questions on today? Make sure to post them in the Facebook group and tag me!

    Check out the Manifesting Magic Masterclass to learn how to consistently manifest everything your heart desires and more!

    Part 2: 

  • Take action but surrender the HOW

  • Questions on today? Make sure to post them in the Facebook group and tag me!

    Check out the Manifesting Magic Masterclass to learn how to consistently manifest everything your heart desires and more! 

    Part 3: 

  • Be okay with it not happening for it to happen (the HARDEST one to master in my personal experience)

  • Questions on today? Make sure to post them in the Facebook group and tag me!

    Ready for the next step? Looking to Manifest Everything you Desire every single time? 

    Check out the Manifesting Magic Masterclass to learn how to consistently manifest everything your heart desires and more!

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