5 Traits Men Are Looking For That Inspire Them to Commit To A Woman QUICKLY (in as little as 6 months)

What are men looking for that inspire them to pursue a woman and claim her as his own? 

After SEVEN years coaching COUNTLESS (and I do mean COUNTLESS) women into the relationship of their dreams, I’m able to share with you what works + what men are actually looking for in a partner and what inspires them to commit… usually within 6 months of dating! 

What are men looking for that inspire them to pursue a woman and claim her as his own? 

After SEVEN years coaching COUNTLESS (and I do mean COUNTLESS) women into the relationship of their dreams, I’m able to share with you what works + what men are actually looking for in a partner and what inspires them to commit… usually within 6 months of dating! 


Here are just a couple of recent examples: 

  • Lauren’s husband bought them a home + invited her to move in within 6 months of their first date. They are now married with a baby girl.  
  • Sarah + her fiancé moved in together within a month + got engaged within 9 months. 
  • Patricia’s fiancé proposed within 6 months. They are getting married this summer, less than a year after their first date.

You see, when you do the work in advance to BECOME the version of yourself that high caliber men are EXCITED to commit to, it doesn’t have to take long from meeting him to becoming engaged to be married.  

Because as Sarah said, 

“When you know, you know. It just felt right from the beginning.”

Patricia said the same thing. 

So did Lauren. 

So what ARE men looking for that inspire them to pursue a woman and claim her as his own?? 

1 – Vulnerability, Openness + Softness 

​In other words, a woman in her feminine energy.  Men are in their masculine energy – in their heads – all day long. They partner up with a woman in order to be close to feminine energy. It’s incredibly nurturing to men. They are NOT looking for a masculine woman to butt heads with and compete for attention and respect. They compete in a friendly manner with their male friends in that way. 

In partnership, a healthy masculine male is looking for direct access to the feminine energy of love, radiance, openness and softness. A woman who is in her heart + has her guard down. 

When a man finds a woman who is in her healthy feminine essence, it’s an incredible turn-on for him. He knows he’ll be safe with her. That he can let HIS GUARD down because it’s not a competition. It’s a partnership of two equals with complementary energies. 

2 – Honesty (aka no games) 

You are no longer in high school.  There are no ‘rules’ to dating or ways to ‘win him over.’ A man in his healthy masculine energy doesn’t want to guess if you are into him. He doesn’t want to guess what you want. And he certainly does NOT want to play games. 

Yes, he wants to win you over. (So, make him EARN your affection, please!) But he doesn’t want the juvenile woman who plays hot/cold. The woman who is not honest about dating other men or the calls/texts on her phone from other men. 

Be clear and direct about who you are and what you want. When a woman is honest, the man knows he can trust her. That she’ll always be upfront about what pleases her (so he can do more of that) and what does not (so he can learn and do less of that.) 

But this all stems from YOU trusting yourself + knowing that who you are and what you want is enough. That you’ve mastered clear, open + direct communication…

3 – Clear, Open + Direct Communication 

The secret to long term happiness in any relationship is healthy communication. And unhealthy communication, passive aggressive tendencies and assuming ‘he should just know’ are the reasons relationships fail. 

A man wants to win you over. He wants to please you. And the only way he can do that is if you are clear and direct (and loving) in your communication. 

When a man meets a no BS woman who is honest, open + expressive, it’s like a breath of fresh air! He knows that while they might have some challenges in their partnership, they’ll be able to move through it because they know how to be clear, open and direct in communication. This ensures they will be able to wether any storm together! 

4 – A Woman Who Knows Her Worth + Value 

When a woman is NOT looking to a man to validate her and isn’t jealous of other women, a man knows he has a high value woman standing in front of him. He knows they’ll never have stupid and petty fights. He knows that she knows how to treat herself like a Queen and doesn’t NEED him to pump up her self esteem. 

Yes, she desires it. No, she will not put up with shit (more on that in the next point) and yes, she will inspire him to be HIS best self. And he loves knowing that he’ll be challenged to be his best while together in partnership. 

5 – Boundaries + High Standards 

As a continuation of the point above, men secretly (and not so secretly) want to be challenged. If you make it too easy on him, if you let him slide with less then stellar behaviors (like showing up late or forgetting to follow through on a promise), he won’t value himself or the relationship. 

But when  you have high standards and expect him to maintain them, it forces him to be the best man he can be for you, for him, and for the relationship. 

The right man loves to be challenged to step up to the plate. 

The wrong man will walk away calling  you ‘high maintenance.’ 

A man doesn’t want an ‘easy to please’ woman who settles for breadcrumbs. 

A man wants an EMPRESS who knows her worth, has incredible standards and doesn’t settle for anything less than how she treats herself (which is like a Queen, of course.) 

There are many other things that inspire a man to commit quickly to a woman when he sees these qualities in a woman. 

Do you possess them? 

Do you want some support in nurturing them and becoming the woman that men are longing to commit to?

Learn more about the Magnetic Femme process here!

#2 Block to Love


Has it ever felt like all the good ones are taken?

The successful, attractive, spiritual, emotionally intelligent ones are all snatched up, right?

I mean, it MUST be that way because you are NOT meeting then online or in person, amIright?

I understand that it can FEEL that way.

But the challenge with this line of thinking is that it reinforces the block and only makes it stronger and even more challenging for you to meet the types of men you are looking for.


Let me give you an example: I want you to spend 60 seconds looking around the room you are in and intensely looking for everything green.

Pay careful attention and make note in your mind of everything green that you see.
Notice the different shades and colors of green that are around your room.
The plants. The pillows. The small details. 
Green is such a common color. 

FIND. ALL. THE GREEN. 


Did you do it?


For the next part, you are going to close your eyes and recall everything RED! 

Did you do it?

What this exercise illustrates is that it’s incredibly challenging to recall everything RED when you were so singularly focused on finding everything GREEN.


That’s how your mind works.

It filters out reality based on:

1 – What you are looking for.

AND 

2 – What you expect to find.

What are you looking for in a partner? And do you actually EXPECT to find it?

Whatever you are experiencing in your dating life is what you are actually looking for.

As A Course in Miracles says, “Whatever you seek, you shall find.”


Pillar One of The Magnetic Femme helps you to shift your belief system, raise your expectations and find a completely different caliber of men.

Rather than looking for the green (men who ghost you, are emotionally unavailable, not successful, driven, passionate or sexy) you’ll train your brain to look for the red (the intelligent, successful, well-traveled, attractive) … And find them!

​My client Jennifer was previously dating men who were ‘way beneath her.’ Men who were ‘safe.’ Men she knew would never leave her. ​ ​ 

In short: she was settling because she was looking for the ‘green.’

She didn’t believe the ‘red’  existed.

But very quickly – within two months of applying the principles I teach within the Magnetic Femme, she met John. Her equal in every single way. The man she is proud to call her partner. The man all of her friends love. The man she trusts, respects and adores.


“I’ve never been with a man who treats me as well as John does!” she told me once.


And this gorgeous woman is almost 50. Took her 40+ years (and only 2 months of working together) to figure out that she was worthy of a HIGH CALIBER MAN…


because SHE is a HIGH CALIBER WOMAN!!!



He’s smart. Successful. Intelligent. Emotionally aware and communicative. He supports her. He’s a shoulder to lean on. A friend she can laugh endlessly with on game night. The man she trusts to plan all their trips and vacations. The man who spoils her and whisks her away fro New Years last minute… just because he can… and wants to. 😉

A true partner in every way. 

I promise you, once you stop looking for what you don’t want in partnership, you’ll find what you do.

Ready to have my expert support to magnetize YOUR exceptional partner to you? 

Click the link below to become The Magnetic Femme.

Magnetic to the types of men you desire and deserve.

#1 Block to Love

“I don’t need a man.”

Ever said that to yourself?

Guess what…

It’s blocking you from the relationship that you DESIRE.

Sure you don’t NEED anyone to take care of you in the traditional sense. You’re completely capable of taking care of yourself. You make your own money. You own your own place. You successfully run your own life.

You don’t NEED a relationship to survive, but the RIGHT relationship will ADD so much to your life.

It’s the loving and supportive partner to come home to after a long day at the office. It’s the man who helps plan the trips and travel (so you don’t have to). The one to rub your feet after you take off your heels. The one that believes in you and your dreams. The snuggles on the couch in front of the tv or fireplace.

The knowing that you don’t have to do life alone. You have your person. Your match. Your equal. The man you feel safe and comfortable being yourself with. The one you can let your guard down with. And share your fears and insecurities with. Knowing he won’t judge you or think less of you. But instead he’s cheering you on and offering you emotional support. Same but different. You’re equals.

With complementary energy.


And I know that you’ve settled in the past because you haven’t been meeting men that inspire you. Impress you. Turn you on. You haven’t met the men that you actually would consider spending the rest of your life with.


Why is that?


Because you’ve been settling.

As you lower the bar you meet lower quality men. Which then reinforces the belief system that no good men exist. So you settle and lower the bar even further. Or you stop dating completely. It’s a negative cycle that keeps you blocked from meeting the caliber of men you desire (and deserve.)


You’ve been telling yourself all the reasons why you don’t need a man… and as a result, you’ve been starting to believe those stories… which is why you’re only meeting the men you don’t really ‘need.’

But I also know that emotionally you do NEED a man. You’re tired of meeting all of your own needs. And you truly do desire (and I’ll even use the word NEED here) a partnership with the right man.

Every human being has needs and desires.

And while you are capable of meeting most (if not all) of your needs/desires on your own… I also know your heart craves for a partner that you can rely on. A partner that you trust to HELP you meet your needs.

You don’t need to do it all on your own.

You can allow yourself to have support in partnership.
I call this interdependence.

It’s not independence (where you do it all on your own).
It’s not codependency (where you cannot do anything without him).
But the beauty of interdependence in partnership.

Where you are two sovereign individuals. Both aware of your individual needs and desires. Both capable of meeting his/her own needs and desires.

But both desire to support each other in partnership to meet each others’ needs and make each others’ lives more enjoyable and easier.

No, you don’t NEED a man.

But I’ll be honest with you – there are many beautiful aspects to partnership that you are missing out on by doing it all yourself:


Laughter. Love. Friendship. Snuggles. Memories. Trips. s3x and intimacy. Personal growth and development.


And all the FEELINGS that come along with partnership: safety, security, stability, love, adoration, connectedness, desire and more.


I want you to imagine…

  • Imagine waking up and FEELING loved, adored, cherished, supported.
  • Imagine having the man you love greet you with a smile, an ‘I love you” and your cup of coffee in the morning.
  • Imagine your partner having dinner warm and ready and waiting for you when you get home after a long day at the office.
  • Imagine your man planning the entire New Years Eve getaway… and you completely trusting him to plan something incredible.
  • Imagine being such a strong, sexy, funny, intelligent, successful man… that you get butterflies every time you see him… and he’s yours. And he’s completely dedicated to you.
  • Imagine you finally have the relationship you’ve always dreamed of but were scared actually existed.
  • Imagine if you got everything you desired and so much more! 

You could have MORE… so much MORE in your life. The love, trust, connection, bond, friendship, stability, and support that only partnership with the right man provides.

Are you ready to stop telling yourself that you can ‘do it all on your own’ and that you ‘don’t need a man’?

The Magnetic Femme is how you quickly move beyond the old stories and fears and blocks you’ve built up around love and the right type of high-caliber relationship entering your life. (Click here to find out more.)


Rather than think about all the ways a man could interfere with your successful life that you’ve built all on your own…

I want you focusing on all the ways the RIGHT MAN ADDS to your life.

  • Intimacy + s3x is a lot more incredible with two…
  • Dinners are more intimate and special with two…
  • Trips around the world to magical far off locations are more memorable with two…
  • Holidays are merrier with two…
  • Storms are easier to weather with two…
  • Love is multiplied by so much more when shared between two…

You don’t need a man like you need food, water, shelter and oxygen. I agree.

But you deeply desire a partner who is your equal on every level that fulfills the emotional needs of your heart.

Click the link to become The Magnetic Femme: Magnetic to the types of men you desire and deserve.

Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?

Can you be friends with your ex?

It depends on a variety of factors.

But we can sum it up into something simple:

♥️ If you feel better when you’re around them, If they lift your energy, If they believe in empowering you to be your best self … then most likely YES! You can easily be friends with your ex.

💔 If however, the relationship was based on co-dependency + searching eternally for validation … then it’s going to be challenging to have a healthy relationship with your ex.

Find out more in the video!

How To: Success In Love & Career

👵🏼 Spending the rest of your life alone… or worse, wasting your potential with a man that can’t meet you at your level, just isn’t what you deserve.

Neither is being unhappy in a relationship, secretly desiring to have a more fulfilling partnership 💔

🧲✨Thankfully, dating a high-quality man can be easy… if you understand how to call him in… And it’s what my clients are doing…

Every.👏 Single.👏 Day.

⛔ But let me be clear, this is NOT for women who are looking for a quick fix or superficial “magazine dating tips”.

This is ONLY for the woman who wants lasting change and is willing to put in the work it takes to have a thriving career and a fulfilling romantic partnership with her equal.

✅ This method works, it has been verified by over 10,000 of my clients. 

It’s what my private client Lisa N., a successful author and entrepreneur, used to meet her high-caliber fiancé in under 4 months, after years of searching.

👰🏼🤵🏻And what Fortune 500 CEO Christina S., used to find her current husband, who she claims is “her Prince Charming & the perfect fit for me”.

If you’re reading this you probably want the same, and that’s why I created my most recent Masterclass so that you can have success BOTH in Love & Career.

… There is no catch!

💖 This masterclass is completely FREE because I want to reach as many women as possible and teach them the secrets of having a fulfilling career and love life.

I want you to watch it to understand how you can call in your high-quality partner, that fits in perfectly with your driven career life.

✨ At the end of the masterclass I also offer you the opportunity to book a Free 30 min 1-1 call with me (at a value of $500)…

AND… the chance to receive my top training on Unlocking Your Feminine Magnetism, for free. 

Why?

Because I’m committed to finding my next success stories and I’m deeply committed to my mission of helping 1,000,000 women improve their love lives! 💘

⏳This opportunity will not be up forever, as soon as the coaching spaces are filled, I’m closing the doors to this masterclass for another six months.

I want you to have it all, babe. Both in your career and in love!

💕 You no longer need to pick & choose one or the other.

Watch my masterclass here:

>>> https://emyraldsinclaire.com/truelove/

The Secrets to Manifesting the Love of Your Life

Sign Up For My Upcoming Masterclass And Learn How to Magnetize Your Dream Man to You! 

by Emyrald Sinclaire, Love & Relationship Coach

In order to manifest a man who is completely and entirely devoted to you, you need to change your vibration and stop using all the wrong ways (that most women use) to get love. What you’re doing is actually attracting the WRONG men to you: men who are scared of commitment, men who are emotionally unavailable, or men who simply bore you to tears.

If you’ve ever been with the man who ‘wants one thing,’ or the man who won’t introduce you to his friends/mom, or the man just using you for a while for attention, then you need to learn the secrets to manifest the love of your life that I share with my private clients in my upcoming Masterclass! (If you can’t make it live, I will send out a replay, so please sign up as this information is invaluable if you’re looking for a real, devoted soulmate relationship!)

I want to give you a taste of what I’ll share in my HOUR LONG masterclass so that you can start putting to practice the tools IMMEDIATELY. However, please join us LIVE because you’ll get so much more information plus the chance to ask a Love Coach (that’s me) all your burning questions surrounding your love life! 

1. ClarityThis is the first thing I teach anyone. You absolutely need to understand exactly what you want in a partner… and not only that… exactly what you want in life in order to get it!

If not – you’re doing what I lovingly refer to as “Sloppy Manifesting.” The problem with most women is that they are dating and looking for the WRONG qualities in men. They think that they need to find a man who is rich or handsome or owns his own business. But these things are ALL WRONG!

I have a list called the Prince Charming list and those items above are just the Icing on the Cake. They are not the ‘Non-Negotiables’ or the ‘Hearts Desire.’  When you’re looking for the wrong qualities in a man when you’re dating, you’ll end up with the emotionally unavailable men, instead of the men who actually want to commit to you!  (We’ll go much deeper into this step in the workshop as it’s the BIGGEST PROBLEM I see with so many single women today!) 

And so step one to getting anything in life is getting crystal clear in what you want!

You CAN have it all but the first step is knowing what it is!

2. Confidence

Is this hard for you to imagine raising your confidence levels? 

Believing that you can HAVE anything you want is a tricky concept because we are constantly being bombarded with PROOF of why we can’t have that thing (or person). You live in the fear that you’ll never really have what you want and so you don’t allow yourself to believe you can have it because you don’t want to be let down when it doesn’t happen.

But that type of thinking is what sets you you up for failure.

The process of building up your self-love and self-confidence can be a slow process but I promise you it’s worth it! When you BELIEVE it, you shall HAVE it. And so building up your confidence is the next step to manifesting the life you desire!

The woman who is in alignment with her dreams and desires WILL attract them in!

How do you do that? We’ll cover just that in the Masterclass… but for now I want you to write down 10 things you love about yourself. Pretend you were talking about your best friend or sister. Write them down on a sheet of paper right now.

And then, turn on some music you love…. get dancing.. and read it back to yourself.

YOU. ARE. THE. PRIZE.

You need to remember that in order to manifest an amazing love!

3. Communication

Unfortunately, 100% of my clients have an issue speaking their minds. Why? Because they are scared of getting rejected for who they really are and what they really want

But that’s why this step is so important…. if you don’t speak up with what you want, you’ll never get it.

Being able to clearly articulate your feelings, needs, and desires without freaking out, being ‘too much’ or simply getting scared and pulling away is 100% necessary in order to be in a high-quality relationship.

Are you ready to blossom into a powerful woman who speaks her mind in the most loving and powerful way without seeming to be needy or demanding?

Great!

Sign up for the Masterclass and we’ll cover just that!

But for now, I want you to do just one little thing for me… today you MUST speak up about something that you normally would not. Say NO when you normally say YES because you don’t want to be the odd-person out or seem demanding. Let someone know when they’ve hurt your feelings. Call up and ex or friend who has hurt you in the past and let them know how you feel.

It’s never easy to speak up for ourselves but you must make YOUR comfort a priority if you expect to be in a deep and powerful relationship with a man who loves and cherishes the real you.

4. Courage 

The second to last part of the process is developing the courage to take daily action steps towards becoming the new version of yourself, regardless of how many bad dates you’ve had or if you’re still in love with your ex.

A woman who finds (no, MANIFESTS) her soulmate and creates the life of her dreams is not a special woman. (Say what!?)

Instead, she is simply the woman with clarity in what she wants, the confidence to believe she deserves it, the communication skills to speak it and finally, she possesses the courage to go after it… no matter what… and never stop… until she achieves it!

THAT is the woman who manifest the love of her life and the life of her dreams!

I want you to write a promise to yourself and have it go something like this:

“Dear Emyrald,

I promise to be brave. Every day starting today, I will take a small steps towards achieving all the dreams in my heart because I know that I am worthy. I promise to put myself first, even though I might be afraid. I promise to focus only on what I want instead of getting caught up in the past. I promise to never let you down because I believe in you.

Love,

Me”

Okay ??? Go in your journal and write down a promise to yourself today! And also make sure to sign up for the Masterclass as I’ll give you more ways to be courageous and believe you deserve what you desire, my love!

5. Commitment

And now the final step to pull it all together… having the commitment to follow through each and every day until your goal is fulfilled!

Says A Course in Miracles: “Those who are certain of the outcome can afford to wait and wait without anxiety.”

Are you committed to yourself until the end?

Are you committed in all areas of your life?

Are you committed to manifesting the love of your life so matter what hardships might bring you down?

THIS is the level of commitment you need if you really want to manifest your soulmate.

And HOW do you do this?

Well – how you do ONE thing is how you do everything.

Take stock of things that you’ve left undone in your life…

….promises you made that you never kept.

… projects you started that you never finished.

…. courses you signed up for that you never did.

The list goes on and on.

Are you committed in your life in every way….. or are there areas you could clean it up?

BE COMMITTED to yourself. That is the final step in the process to manifesting your love.

Want to know how to show EVEN MORE commitment to yourself? By signing up for the  Magnetize Your Dream Man Workshop! 

ABOUT EMYRALD SINCLAIRE

Emyrald Sinclaire is The World’s Leading Love & Relationship Coach, Master Manifester & Love Guru. 

After personally struggling with relationships for years, being left on her birthday by the man she thought she was going to marry, she decided ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH and developed a quick and easy way to manifest a high-quality partner! 

Emyrald now has students around the world who have successfully manifest partners who meet EVERYTHING on their Prince Charming list; she’s taught them how to craft their dream guy out of thin air! 

She usually charges over $10,000 to work with clients one on one, but reveals the exact same secret methods in this webinar. This FREE training class is a nothing-held-back look at exactly how Emyrald had taught her clients to manifest their dream man in as little as 4 months! 

Emyrald will show you exactly how to remove your limiting beliefs around love and to instead step into your true manifesting capabilities and feminine power within this workshop. 

In order to reserve your spot, simply click the link below, and attend the webinar.

Click here to reserve your spot!

Magnetize Your Dream Man Workshop!

The Challenges Of Manifesting

Do your manifestations work some of the time but you’d like them to work all of the time?!

Do the paradoxes of manifestation confuse the heck out of you and you’re looking for the clarity around ways to ‘let go and trust’ that your manifestation is happening even though you’re super attached to it happening because you really want it? 

I feel you!
Watch the three videos below and work through the three most common issues when it comes to conscious manifestation! 

Part 1:

  • Hold the vision of what you want, but forget about it at the same time 

  • Questions on today? Make sure to post them in the Facebook group and tag me!

    Check out the Manifesting Magic Masterclass to learn how to consistently manifest everything your heart desires and more!

    Part 2: 

  • Take action but surrender the HOW

  • Questions on today? Make sure to post them in the Facebook group and tag me!

    Check out the Manifesting Magic Masterclass to learn how to consistently manifest everything your heart desires and more! 

    Part 3: 

  • Be okay with it not happening for it to happen (the HARDEST one to master in my personal experience)

  • Questions on today? Make sure to post them in the Facebook group and tag me!

    Ready for the next step? Looking to Manifest Everything you Desire every single time? 

    Check out the Manifesting Magic Masterclass to learn how to consistently manifest everything your heart desires and more!

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    Activate Your Intuition

    Activate Your Intuition

    For the woman who is looking to deepen her connection with her intuition…

    If you want to learn how to actually know  if your intuition is speaking to you (instead of your ego or monkey mind)…

    And if you want to learn how to trust your feminine instincts and step into your natural power... 

    Then this is the workshop for you! 

    Never doubt yourself again! 

    Know if someone is lying to you. 

    Understand your path and trust your body’s wisdom.

    Click below to watch and learn! 

    Looking for More Ways to Activate Your Intuition? 

    Check out this entire day of exercises designed to help you

    • drop into your heart space 
    • listen and trust your intuition 
    • connect with your higher self for guidance 
    • and so much more!

    >>> 5 Hour Workshop and Life changing Experience <<<

    How I Manifested $11,911 in 10 hours using the Law of Attraction

    I kid you not. 

    I sat down and journaled about the actual amount of money I needed to manifest that month to pay off a credit card, pay for my Costa Rica trip, put money into savings and my 401k and decided I needed $12,000 more as I had $4,000 in my PayPal account at the time. 

    I opened the mail that night… 

    And I had a check for $11,911.60!!!

    Watch the video below to grab the entire story! 

    And if you’re interested in the Abundance Tracker, it’s FREE and available right here. What does it do?

     It helps you track your abundance because where you put your energy and focus is where you put your point of attraction, baby!

    Click here to download the Abundance Tracker!  

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    Get on the waiting list for the Manifest Massive Money course by clicking here. When the doors open and the spots go quickly! 

    Land Prince Charming in 21 Days

    3 tips to land Prince Charming in 30 days!

    This is the must-read guide for any lady who hopes for her own Personal Prince Charming in the next 30 days with only 10 minutes of effort a day!

    After completing this guide you’ll:

    ? Have the confidence of a queen and land the date with the guy of your dreams!

    ? Actually BELIEVE that you are the prize and DESERVE your own Happily Ever After.

    Boost your personal self-love and self-worth levels so that you know how to confidently attract men to you with minimal effort!