3 Dating Secrets for 2018

“Online dating sucks!”

“I can’t meet anyone decent online.”

“There are no good men in my town.” 

Do any of these sound familiar? 

Maybe you’ve heard yourself say these things outloud lately? 

Not to fear – dating in 2018 is really not that hard. 

 

Allow me to break it down with three little secrets that I share with all of my clients.

(I also share how men are like dogs…but in a good way…in that they are easy to please and can be trained….sorry dudes.)

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xo

Emyrald 

 

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How to BE a Feminine Woman

I tell my ladies to BE in their feminine energy in order to attract in a masculine man. 

But what does that mean and how to do you DO it? 

In this video I dig into masculine and feminine energy and how to do this ONE THING so that he feels compelled to be YOUR man and CHASE you and PROTECT you.  If you’re a powerful woman who finds herself taking the chase and as as result chasing after the wrong men, then this video is for you. 

Stop! Don’t sleep with him!

Crap….how did I find myself naked…in a hot tub… with this incredibly cute Australian? 

 

I had JUST made the *promise* to myself to honor my body and no longer sleep around. 

I had had ENOUGH of men using me for sex, thank you kindly…

And I wanted a different man this time around… someone who would…
 
– well, stick around after rolling around in the sheets, for one thing
– but also a man who cared about me, and wanted to learn about my hopes and dreams and become my support system and think I was the cats meow!

So why did that all go out the window?

1. His irresistible Australian accent
2. I was drunk (damnit)


Luckily, this story was the VERY LAST TIME I slipped…

Then I really did hold tight to my promise to stay abstinent until I met the man that would become my future partner.

And with him, we waited six whole months to have sex!

Today in #TruthTuesdays, I want to share with you WHY you should NOT sleep with a man if you want him to fall in love…and ultimately stick around. 


And no, it’s not all emotional. There are actually BIOLOGICAL reasons why you fall in love when you sleep with a man and become attached.

Click below to watch and learn!

 

 

P.S. If you’d like to REALLY learn about the differences between men and women and become MAGNETIC to your SOULMATE… I highly suggest you check out my signature group coaching program – Single to Soulmate! (Doors close soon!) 

 

 

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3 Flirting Techniques any Goddess can Master

Do you want to get the guys to come up to you without you having to chase them? 

And more so, would you like the CUTE GUY YOU ARE INTERESTED in to come up to you from across the room?

Great! I thought you’d never ask. 🙂 ​​​​

 

One of the common reasons women join my facebook group, Manifest Your Soulmate, is because they are looking for the tools in order to become a better woman who believes in her self-worth. And as a result, attract in a freaking fantastic man, if I say so myself! 

What are the tools I teach my clients in order to raise their self-confidence and actually believe they are the prize so that they can attract in the love of their life?

 

Here are my favorite three. 

 

 

1. The Supermodel Walk

Now before you go on hating, listen up first. This actually has nothing to do with what you wear or what you look like. Instead, it’s all about the energy you are giving off. And think about any lady (or man, for that matter) on the cat-walk. They OWN IT. And that’s the energy I want you to exude. The next time you walk into the room (any room) you are going to pretend you are on the catwalk. You are going to embody your inner super model and STRUT IT. 

It really is all about the ENERGY you are giving off and trust me, when you walk into a place like you own it, people will notice! 

No more looking down at the ground or trying to hide in a corner. For just 15 seconds, you are going to pretend like you are the cat’s meow and that everyone’s eyes are on you…and for a good reason, girl! 

 

2. The Smile…and Wink. 

This next one is a bit scary for many people: 

 

You are going to catch the eye of a stranger… smile at him…and wink! 

 

Omg. Did the sky just fall down? Did hell just freeze over? 

 

Nope, you just learned a simple flirting technique that shows self-confidence and humor. And even if you don’t (yet) feel like you have the confidence to pull this off, allow this to be a little exercise in ‘fake it til you make it.’ Trust me, it’s a great way to show that you don’t take yourself too seriously and that you have the cajones to go after what you want. Although in this case, you are simply making the offer of come and get me, boyzz! 

 

 

3. Pretend You Just Slept with Brad Pitt 

I know, you might think I’m delusional and asking you to be the same. But go with me here. Imagine what you would be thinking and what you would feel like if you actually did just hop in the sack with Brad Pitt (or your fave Hollywood crush). You’d be flying high, on top of the world, and pretty much knowing that you’re the cat’s meow! 

 

You’d have the confidence to smile and flirt at the cute boy in the bar. You’d most likely chat up the barista at Starbucks. You’d be opening doors for strangers and probably dancing down the street singing to yourself, am I right? 

 

So, if you woke up and played a little game with yourself called “I just slept with Brad Pitt” how would that change how you go about your day? 

 

No, really, think about it right now, how would it change your day? 

 

THAT is the energy I want you to go out into the world with for just 24 hours! High as a kite. And just watch… how magically the men are attracted to you! 

 

And that’s a wrap for today, lovely. 

 

 

7 Reasons Women Don’t Have Sex with Men

Now before you start thinking that this is a pro-lesbian piece…

It actually has nothing to do with lesbians. (I’m pro-lesbian, pro-choice, pro-gays, pro-whatever-you-wanna-be.) 

Instead, allow me to inform the heterosexual male species why sex isn’t always so enjoyable for us females and why sometimes we don’t want to have sex with you. 

“I have a headache.”

Ever heard that one before? 

There are various reasons why a woman simply ‘wont’ be in the mood’ and guess what, buster? It has a LOT to do with YOU or past men that have left her unfulfilled and wanting more.

I’m ordering the reasons in order of importance, with the most important reason up on top.

1. You're the Only One Getting Off

This is the most important reason a woman doesn’t want to sleep with you. I don’t care if it’s the first time you’re sleeping together or the 1,000th time. If you ain’t pleasing her to orgasm, she most likely will NOT be pleased and will not want to sleep with you again.

Sex is a two way street where both partners are enjoying themselves. And don’t get me wrong and think it has to be tit-for-tat. There’s been plenty of sexual romps with my man where only one of us got off. We’ve had sexual experiences where one of us focused ENTIRELY on the other person’s pleasure. It’s all part of the adult teeter-totter game. 

Instead, I’m talking about the men who just have sex for their pleasure and don’t put any focus on the woman. 

This type of sexual relations seemed to be HUGE (at least for me) in my 20s. Men just wanted one thing and they didn’t care about if the woman got off. Or they didn’t know any better and thought that ‘penetration’ was enough to stimulate an orgasm. Or they were too immature to talk about sex and feelings and emotions. 

Simple questions like: 

“Does it feel good when I touch you like this?” 

“Right here?”

“Harder, softer?”

Make a world of a difference in regards to pleasuring your partner (and it goes both ways, you know!) 

Men, if you’re the only one consistently getting off (and trust me, you SHOULD know if she orgasmed without a doubt), it’s time to learn how to please your lady or else she ain’t going to be sticking around much longer. 

Here’s some fun facts: 

•62 percent of women always orgasm during masturbation

•34 percent of women always orgasm during oral sex

•27 percent of women always orgasm during intercourse where the penis enters the vagina

•26 percent of women always orgasm during genital touching

​It's time to step up your game! 


2. You're Not Very Good At Sex... Or Sex Becomes Predictable

This is the most important reason a woman doesn’t want to sleep with you. I don’t care if it’s the first time you’re sleeping together or the 1,000th time. If you ain’t pleasing her to orgasm, she most likely will NOT be pleased and will not want to sleep with you again. 


Sex is a two way street where both partners are enjoying themselves. And don’t get me wrong and think it has to be tit-for-tat. There’s been plenty of sexual romps with my man where only one of us got off. We’ve had sexual experiences where one of us focused ENTIRELY on the other person’s pleasure. It’s all part of the adult teeter-totter game. 


Instead, I’m talking about the men who just have sex for their pleasure and don’t put any focus on the woman. 


This type of sexual relations seemed to be HUGE (at least for me) in my 20s. Men just wanted one thing and they didn’t care about if the woman got off. Or they didn’t know any better and thought that ‘penetration’ was enough to stimulate an orgasm. Or they were too immature to talk about sex and feelings and emotions. 


Simple questions like: 

“Does it feel good when I touch you like this?” 

“Right here?”

“Harder, softer?” 


Make a world of a difference in regards to pleasuring your partner (and it goes both ways, you know!) 


Men, if you’re the only one consistently getting off (and trust me, you SHOULD know if she orgasmed without a doubt), it’s time to learn how to please your lady or else she ain’t going to be sticking around much longer. 


Here’s some fun facts: 

62 percent of women always orgasm during masturbation

34 percent of women always orgasm during oral sex

27 percent of women always orgasm during intercourse where the penis enters the vagina

26 percent of women always orgasm during genital touching


  1. You’re The Only One Getting Off

Now before you start thinking that this is a pro-lesbian piece…


It actually has nothing to do with lesbians. (I’m pro-lesbian, pro-choice, pro-gays, pro-whatever-you-wanna-be.) 


Instead, allow me to inform the heterosexual male species why sex isn’t always so enjoyable for us females and why sometimes we don’t want to have sex with you. 


“I have a headache.” 


Ever heard that one before? 


There are various reasons why a woman simply ‘wont’ be in the mood’ and guess what, buster? It has a LOT to do with YOU or past men that have left her unfulfilled and wanting more. 


I’m ordering the reasons in order of importance, with the most important reason up on top.

This is a hard pill to swallow, I’m sure because most men (when asked) will claim to be a stallion in the sack! 

Unfortunately it’s not the case. 

According to a recent survey, not only are 80 percent of women putting their health last—after their children, spouses and even pets—but 62 percent of women admitted to not being satisfied with their sex lives.

Umm…that’s a lot of unhappy sex lives. 

And if sex is starting to become predictable, your honey is most likely going to say “Not tonight, sweetie, I’m tired.” 

So, what can you do to spice things up in the bedroom? Try having sex outside of the bedroom. There’s a lot of other rooms in your house. Or outside of your house, for that matter! Surprise her with flowers, sexy music, or a new sexual position. Buy a book on Kama Sutra and randomly open to a page and exclaim “We are trying this tonight, baby!”

Sex is the spice of life, so make sure it’s extra spicy! 

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That’s a quote, right? 🙂 

Now, what happens if you fear you might not be very good at sex?

There is where communication comes into the equation. Start asking your sexual partner(s) what she likes. Listen to her breath when you’re touching her. Do a bit of research on how to get her off. Treat sex like anything else you’ve mastered in your life. To be great at it, you’ve got to dedicate some time to study! 

Trust me, I’ve never met a woman who claimed that her man was too good in the sack.

This is a hard pill to swallow, I’m sure because most men (when asked) will claim to be a stallion in the sack! 


Unfortunately it’s not the case. 


According to a recent survey, not only are 80 percent of women putting their health last—after their children, spouses and even pets—but 62 percent of women admitted to not being satisfied with their sex lives.


Umm…that’s a lot of unhappy sex lives. 


And if sex is starting to become predictable, your honey is most likely going to say “Not tonight, sweetie, I’m tired.” 


So, what can you do to spice things up in the bedroom? Try having sex outside of the bedroom. There’s a lot of other rooms in your house. Or outside of your house, for that matter! Surprise her with flowers, sexy music, or a new sexual position. Buy a book on Kama Sutra and randomly open to a page and exclaim “We are trying this tonight, baby!”


Sex is the spice of life, so make sure it’s extra spicy! 


That’s a quote, right? 🙂 


Now, what happens if you fear you might not be very good at sex? 


There is where communication comes into the equation. Start asking your sexual partner(s) what she likes. Listen to her breath when you’re touching her. Do a bit of research on how to get her off. Treat sex like anything else you’ve mastered in your life. To be great at it, you’ve got to dedicate some time to study! 


Trust me, I’ve never met a woman who claimed that her man was too good in the sack.

3. She's Sexually Frustrated... and it's because of You! 

Number 3 really is just an extension of the last two points. If you’re not good at sex and if she isn’t really enjoying it how she’d prefer, she’s going to be become extremely sexually frustrated and not want to ‘do it’ with you.

She’ll probably also spend more time fantasizing about others and this is when you can start down a slippery slope. (And not in a good slippery way!) 

If she’s sexually frustrated, you two have got to get GREAT at communicating. She’s only frustrated because you’re not pleasuring her how SHE likes. 

You need to ask her what she wants. But she also needs to speak up and tell you how she likes it. 

Number 3 really is just an extension of the last two points. If you’re not good at sex and if she isn’t really enjoying it how she’d prefer, she’s going to be become extremely sexually frustrated and not want to ‘do it’ with you. 


She’ll probably also spend more time fantasizing about others and this is when you can start down a slippery slope. (And not in a good slippery way!) 


If she’s sexually frustrated, you two have got to get GREAT at communicating. She’s only frustrated because you’re not pleasuring her how SHE likes. 


You need to ask her what she wants. But she also needs to speak up and tell you how she likes it. 


Great sex is a two-way street of communication.

Great sex is a two-way street of communication.

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In general, most women want more foreplay, more intimacy, more touching and more kissing. If she feels like a piece of meat, a mounting block, or simply a hole to get off in, well she’s not going to want to continue to sleep with you.

For women, sex is all about the emotional connection. And I know you men most likely don’t want to hear this next bit but you’ve got to talk about it. And not when you’re horizontal. Instead, have an open and honest conversation about sex over dinner. 

Honey, I’ve been thinking about sex lately. And I want to learn how to please you even more. Please, tell me what you like in bed. 

Any woman will LOVE a man that puts her pleasure as a priority.


In general, most women want more foreplay, more intimacy, more touching and more kissing. If she feels like a piece of meat, a mounting block, or simply a hole to get off in, well she’s not going to want to continue to sleep with you. 


For women, sex is all about the emotional connection. And I know you men most likely don’t want to hear this next bit but you’ve got to talk about it. And not when you’re horizontal. Instead, have an open and honest conversation about sex over dinner. 


Honey, I’ve been thinking about sex lately. And I want to learn how to please you even more. Please, tell me what you like in bed. 


Any woman will LOVE a man that puts her pleasure as a priority.

4. Poor Communication

No matter how long you’ve been dating or if this is a one-night stand, if two two of you cannot communicate, the sex most likely will not be great and she’s not going to want to sleep with you again.

(Looking to improve your communication with your signifiant other. Check out my Communication Course!)

The quality of the relationship with a partner can seriously impact the quality of a woman's sexual experiences. When a woman is not feeling loved, cherished and appreciated by her partner, the last thing she wants to do is have sex with him.

Having sex is directly attached to a woman’s emotions. Yup, I’ve said it again. If she is upset, angry or resentful towards her mate, sex is probably not going to happen. If it does happen, it will most likely be out of obligation with little or no satisfaction for her. Which then brings us back to point number 1. If she’s not getting off or not enjoying it, she’s not going to want to continue to sleep with you. 

Here’s what I suggest: talk to your lady.

And not about trivial shit. Things that matter to her. 

At least once a day ask her how she feels about something directly related to her emotional state.

  • Honey, how do you feel about our relationship? 
  • Babe, how do you feel about our sex life? 
  • Darling, how would you feel about trying a new sexual position tonight? 
  • Love, how are you feeling today about us and our life together?

Taking the time to ask your partner about her feelings and listen whole-heartedly works wonders to improve communication and also increase emotional intimacy between the two of you leading to….

MORE SEX!

And better sex, too. 

No matter how long you’ve been dating or if this is a one-night stand, if two two of you cannot communicate, the sex most likely will not be great and she’s not going to want to sleep with you again. 


(Looking to improve your communication with your signifiant other. Check out my Communication Course!) 


The quality of the relationship with a partner can seriously impact the quality of a woman's sexual experiences. When a woman is not feeling loved, cherished and appreciated by her partner, the last thing she wants to do is have sex with him.


Having sex is directly attached to a woman’s emotions. Yup, I’ve said it again. If she is upset, angry or resentful towards her mate, sex is probably not going to happen. If it does happen, it will most likely be out of obligation with little or no satisfaction for her. Which then brings us back to point number 1. If she’s not getting off or not enjoying it, she’s not going to want to continue to sleep with you. 


Here’s what I suggest: talk to your lady. 


And not about trivial shit. Things that matter to her. 


At least once a day ask her how she feels about something directly related to her emotional state. 


Honey, how do you feel about our relationship? 

Babe, how do you feel about our sex life? 

Darling, how would you feel about trying a new sexual position tonight? 

Love, how are you feeling today about us and our life together? 


Taking the time to ask your partner about her feelings and listen whole-heartedly works wonders to improve communication and also increase emotional intimacy between the two of you leading to….


MORE SEX! 


And better sex, too. 


5. Busy Schedules & Exhausted Bodies 

If her schedule is insane and she’s physically, emotionally, and mentally exhausted, it will leave little room for sex. 

Yeah - this one isn’t your fault! 

However, it’s something the two of you can work on so that you are both getting enough sex in your life which will improve the mood, reduce the stress and increase overall body health. 

Here’s what you can do:

1. Talk about it.  (Honey, in an ideal world, how much sex would you like to be having? In a perfect world, would someone else be dropping the kids off at all their extra curricular activities? Would you like to hire a part-time nanny or housecleaner?) 

Taking some items off her to-do list can make a HUGE difference. So many women think they have to do it all. Which is simply untrue. 

Help your lady out, when possible. 

2. Prioritize Sex

I highly encourage a ‘date-night’ at least once a week where the two of you are alone and hanging out. You’ve planned a romantic dinner. Kids are somewhere else and the two of you can simply focus on your relationship again. 

While all the items on your to-do list may seem really important, truly nothing is as important as a healthy and sexually fulfilling love life with the person you love.

If her schedule is insane and she’s physically, emotionally, and mentally exhausted, it will leave little room for sex. 


Yeah - this one isn’t your fault! 


However, it’s something the two of you can work on so that you are both getting enough sex in your life which will improve the mood, reduce the stress and increase overall body health. 


Here’s what you can do: 


1. Talk about it.  (Honey, in an ideal world, how much sex would you like to be having? In a perfect world, would someone else be dropping the kids off at all their extra curricular activities? Would you like to hire a part-time nanny or housecleaner?) 


Taking some items off her to-do list can make a HUGE difference. SO many women think they have to do it all. Which is simply untrue. 


Help your lady out, when possible. 


2. Prioritize Sex 

I highly encourage a ‘date-night’ at least once a week where the two of you are alone and hanging out. You’ve planned a romantic dinner. Kids are somewhere else and the two of you can simply focus on your relationship again. 


While all the items on your to-do list may seem really important, truly nothing is as important as a healthy and sexually fulfilling love life with the person you love.

6. She Doesn't Feel Sexy

If a woman doesn’t feel sexy, she’s not going to feel like having sex. (What a concept, right?)

In the US, we are a bit obsessed with looks and there’s an unrealistic expectation that a woman looks a certain way. There was a study published in The Journal of Sex Research that found that the emphasis in American culture on being young and thin is more influential than menopause when it comes to sexual satisfaction.

No matter her looks or her size, there are so many things you can do to help your partner feel sexy and as a result, feel like having sex with you!

Tell her on a daily basis everything you love about her. Make sure to cover all the bases, not just the physical attributes. Tell her how much you appreciate her and that she takes care of the kids, she cleans the house, she makes dinner, she makes 6 figures, whatever it is, think of various reasons you love the heck out of her and tell her these things daily. 

Many relationships fail because partners start to take each other for granted and forget to focus on the positive attributes of their partners.

Here’s another idea: figure out your partner’s Love Language and make sure to speak to it on a daily basis. This will go a long way in getting you more high-quality sex, my friends! 

(Once again, for all you couples out there, check out my course on Communication. We address the Love Languages first thing!)

If a woman doesn’t feel sexy, she’s not going to feel like having sex. (What a concept, right?) 


In the US, we are a bit obsessed with looks and there’s an unrealistic expectation that a woman looks a certain way. There was a study published in The Journal of Sex Research that found that the emphasis in American culture on being young and thin is more influential than menopause when it comes to sexual satisfaction.


No matter her looks or her size, there are so many things you can do to help your partner feel sexy and as a result, feel like having sex with you! 


Tell her on a daily basis everything you love about her. Make sure to cover all the bases, not just the physical attributes. Tell her how much you appreciate her and that she takes care of the kids, she cleans the house, she makes dinner, she makes 6 figures, whatever it is, think of various reasons you love the heck out of her and tell her these things daily. 


Many relationships fail because partners start to take each other for granted and forget to focus on the positive attributes of their partners. 


Here’s another idea: figure out your partner’s Love Language and make sure to speak to it on a daily basis. This will go a long way in getting you more high-quality sex, my friends! 


(Once again, for all you couples out there, check out my course on Communication. We address the Love Languages first thing!)

7. Your Penis Size

Okay, you feared this was going to come up on the list, didn’t you? And I almost didn’t put it on here. But to be honest, yes it does play a role in sex. But, it’s not super important. Ask any woman and many will agree that it’s ‘not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean’ that makes up for great sex.

It’s ‘not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean’ that makes up great sex.

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Your penis is just ONE PART of sex. And if you two have great communication, and you are actively engaged in her pleasure, and you’re mixing things up, and you’re taking stress off her plate, then I’d say you two are having great sex regardless of the size, color, location of your member. 

But if you suck at everything else AND you’re lacking in the girth department, then you’re out of luck my friend. 

You can’t change your penis size, but you can read points 1 through 6 again and step up your game!

Ladies... comment below. Anything else I missed that you'd like men to know. 

Men... tell us your thoughts. We're all grown-ups here! 

(And of course make sure to share on your favorite social media platform because there are some clueless boys out there!) 


Okay, you feared this was going to come up on the list, didn’t you? And I almost didn’t put it on here. But to be honest, yes it does play a role in sex. It’s not super important. Ask any woman and many will agree that it’s ‘not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean’ that makes up for great sex. 


Your penis is just ONE PART of sex. And if you two have great communication, and you are actively engaged in her pleasure, and you’re mixing things up, and you’re taking stress off her plate, then I’d say you two are having great sex regardless of the size, color, location of your member. 


But if you suck at everything else AND you’re lacking in the girth department, then you’re out of luck my friend. 


You can’t change your penis size, but you can read points 1 through 6 again and step up your game!

The Pros and Cons of Sleeping with Your Ex…

Having sex with your ex is like watching “The Notebook” for the first time.

It feels good while you’re doing it….

You’re completely captivated and and slightly sweaty and at the edge of your seat…

But for some reason at the end, you’re left crying and in tears and kinda feeling empty inside.

 

So, why not consider the real pros and cons of sleeping with your ex?

 

PRO – You know what you’re going to get. No creeps. No ‘you wanna put what, where?!’

CON – You know what you’re in for. Afterwards you remember, oh yea, I got so tired of him doing that trick. Booooring.

 

PRO – They’ve seen you at your worse and they still think you’re good enough to hook up with.

CON – They’ve seen you at your worst! Remember all the fights and yelling and horrible things you’ve said to one another!? Do you really want to be intimate with this person? Remember when they said horrible things to you!?

 

PRO – They know what you like.

CON – You have the possibility of getting addicted to them again. Because the sex was/is so good. But ultimately that’s all it is. Good sex.

 

PRO – Cuddling. Ahh, feel so good.

CON – Cuddling leads to warm and fuzzy feelings for someone you broke up with for a reason. Or that broke up with you for a reason.

 

PRO – You don’t have to sneak up real early to do your make-up and brush your teeth before he wakes up. Because, ‘yes, I totally look like this when I wake up.’

CON – Most likely he’s going to leave right after (or even before) you fall asleep. Kinda making you feel like a whore.

 

PRO – You have a fuck buddy.

CON – You get comfortable and don’t go out on dates and meet new people. And um, hello, how are you going to meet the love of your life is you’re still screwing your ex?

 

PRO – They’ve totally changed! He’s matured! He’s grown up! Holy crap, THIS is the relationship you’ve been waiting for since you broke up!

CON – Oh, wait. Nope. Now I see why we broke up in the first place.

 

PRO – You won’t get murdered by some stranger that you met on tinder or match.com

CON – You could get murdered because your ex is secretly harboring deep seeded feelings of hate towards you. (OMG, I’m just kidding! You’re not going to get murdered.)

 

PRO – They want to get back together! Yea!!

CON – They want to get back together. Oh crap….

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How about this instead?

Join me for a FREE class and learn how to LOVE being single for the holidays.

Which….

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is actually the best way to attract in an amazing partner to you!

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS EP 13 When should I have sex with a man?

Is there a certain number of ‘dates’ to wait for until you should have sex with a man? 

Do you wait until ‘I love you’?

Is it better to get it over with and make sure you are sexually compatible before moving forward? 

Can you wait ‘too long’ and ruin the relationship and your chances?

What happens if you’re dating multiple guys and don’t want to sleep with any of them?

 

Girl, these are all great questions.

So – take a seat. Slow your roll. And watch….

Any questions?

Leave them below as I always answer them….

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS EP. 11 How to attract a man with the “3 S’s” so he stops his search with other women

How do you get a man to STOP shopping the market and commit to you? 

You use the THREE S’s of course! 

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One – Sex

Don’t you dare be scared to be sexy. Show off the best sides of you. The sides that make you feel sexy and like you are the prize. But DON’T get stuck on ONLY the sex part. Remember that you also have two more wonderful categories that you are going to share. Men are attracted to beautiful looking things. And women are beautiful creatures. Show your sexy side…..

But that’s not all…

 

Two – Smarts

Show your man your smarts! Sure, you can impress him with what you’ve done for your career. The non-profit you started all on your own. Whatever it is, absolutely show him your intelligence and your strength. That you are capable of having an intelligent conversation and that there is something going on behind the scenes of the pretty face.

But of course don’t get caught up only in your brain or the man will be intimidated and see you as competition.

You have to add in one more thing….

 

Three – Sharing

Open up your heart, girl. Be vulnerable. Share. Be open. Express the beautiful heart that you have. Allow yourself to be in your feminine and share your emotions. Just don’t get stuck there or you risk becoming too emotional and a type of woman that all men run from.

 

It’s the combination of all three s’s that make a man want to drop everything and pursue you full time.

It’s the SEX, THE SMARTS, AND THE SHARING that show a man just how valuable you are, like YOU are the prize, and he’ll come running!

 

Promise.

 

Action Step:

MAKE YOUR LIST

Take a sheet of paper and write at the top: Sex, Smarts, Sharing.

Fill it out! What do you have to offer in each of the 3 categories?

On the next date, make sure all three of those areas shine and are shown.

You are irresistible to high quality men by BEING a high quality woman balanced in her heart, her body and her mind.