Many of my clients HATE online dating…
Because they haven’t had any success with it.
Can you relate?
And so they want to meet their person in real life.
If YOU also don’t want to use online dating as a powerful tool to meet more men, have more dates and get even clearer in what you want…
Then that means you need to get good at meeting men/people IRL!
How do you do that?
First of all, I need you to answer a question:
Who are you BEING when you go out into the world?
Do you go to new locations often?
Do you fill your free time with activities that you enjoy doing?
Do you maximize the locations you currently go to and look to meet new people?
Are you open, receptive and available to meet new friends?
(Or do you go to the same places with the same people and have your head down on your phone the entire time?)
>>> Too often women approach dating and potential new candidates as either:
1 – You’re my soulmate
or
2 – You’re nobody. Get out of my life.
BUT….
If you look to meet new people everywhere you go…
You open yourself up to THEIR social circles!
That kind barista with a great personality might not be the one… but his best friend sure could be!
The toned yogini from your Saturday class isn’t your person… but her brother sure could be!
You have to shift from the lack mentality to the abundant mentality …
Expand your social circle…
And change your frame of mind beyond:
> Men are either husband material or no one.
> Women are either competition, best friends or no one.
Trust me. There are incredible human beings in every corner of every city… but are your eyes (and expectations) open to see them?
Now with that being said….
7 Steps to Meet More Men IRL 👇👇
1- Get dressed up in something that helps you to feel your best
Notice I said something that helps you to FEEL your best. It really doesn’t matter what you wear or what your hair or makeup looks like … confidence is attractive + magnetic. Period. So wear something you feel super confident in!
2- Take yourself out to a nicer restaurant and sit at the bar (or a restaurant that reflects the type of woman you are and the type of men you would like to meet)
I personally like nice food, nice views, nice drinks + a nice ambiance. These are the types of places I take myself + expect a man to take me as well.
(Which isn’t to say I don’t go to dive bars or burger joints! But for this discussion pick somewhere nice with a bar so you have the ability to meet people with ease.)
3- Order a drink (and/or dinner)
This one is pretty obvious.
4- Make sure your energy is open and approachable
After you order your drink/food, do NOT go on your phone. Do NOT read a book. Do NOT distract yourself. Be open + available to meet people.
5- Smile and make eye contact with those around you
6- Make convo with the people at the bar (even a simple HELLO can work wonders to get conversation flowing)
7 – Continue being open & friendly & approachable
It’s that simple. It’s how I meet men EVERY TIME I go out alone … when I WANT to meet men.
And you can apply this to ANY location + ANY situation!
The gym. The park. The grocery store. The yoga studio.
These are ALL places my clients have met men IRL and gotten asked out! All because they allowed their energy to be open and flirtatious!
Attraction is not a numbers game. Attraction is not a strategy game.
It’s an ENERGY game. 🔥
You can “flip on the switch” & become magnetic.
Would YOU like to learn how to become MAGNETIC to the types of men who are ready and willing to commit that YOU are excited to meet and date?
>> Click here to become the Magnetic Femme!