How to GET OVER your trust issues so you can have Happily Ever After (Truth Tuesdays)

I’ve never been cheated upon. 

 

Thank god.

 

But my partner, unfortunately, has experienced the gut-wrenching pain of a significant other NOT being faithful. 

According to “Infidelity Statistics”

“It is estimated that roughly 30% to 60% of all married individuals (in the United States) will engage in infidelity at some point during their marriage… And these numbers are probably on the conservative side, if you consider that close to half of all marriages end in divorce (people are more likely to stray as relationships fall apart”

Yuck.

That means at least half of you who are reading this have engaged in infidelity or have been cheated on! 

So – if that is you, how do you tell your partner that you have trust issues? 

And more importantly, how do you GET OVER your insecurities already!? 

Find out by watching!

And make sure you do the following exercises I talk about in the video: 

1. Write your Painful Love Story and then shift it to become the HERO in your life, not the VICTIM

2. Write your Letters of Forgiveness and BURN them, baby! 

 

For those of you who are looking for clear, open, honest and conflict-free communication with your significant other, check out my Conflict to Conscious Communication course!! 

It’s a MUST for anyone looking to remove arguing, drama and fights from there relationship for good!

How to Forgive your Ex and Why this Helps you ATTRACT Love (truth tuesdays ep 28)

Do you find it hard to forgive your ex? 

Do you still harbor resentment towards a past (or current) lover who has betrayed your trust? 

I hate to be the one to tell you so bluntly but you HAVE to let that go if you are going to actually be in a healthy and happy long-term relationship with the love of your life!!

Stick with me here, in the short video below I show you EXACTLY how to forgive someone who has betrayed your trust so that you can create space for a truly fulfilling relationship that gives you everything your heart craves for! 

Such as: safety, security, trust, happiness, love, desire, and fulfillment!

 

How to Forgive Someone Who Has Betrayed You

 

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What if you couldn’t remember yesterday…?

How do you choose to feel today?

What if you could forget your past?

What if every single day you woke up and you were fresh and clean as the day you were born?

What type of reality would you create?

What would make you excited and fill your heart with joy and bring a smile to your face?

What would you consciously choose to do today if you had no memory of yesterday?

If you just woke up, got out of bed, looked at your body and felt into your heart? What would you feel like doing today?

What would you feel.... like doing today?

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And imagine...

How different your life would be if that's how you gaged each day's activities simply by how you feel and what feels good to you?

And if you could simply follow your heart's desire on a daily basis...?

How much joy that would bring to the planet!

And the end of war because who wakes up and thinks 'I feel like killing a man today'?

If you had no memory of yesterday and instead said to yourself 'what do I feel like doing today' ? 

Did you feel like being happy?

Like jumping for joy? Like skateboarding? Having sex? Making food?

What is your heart saying to you in this instant?

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Too often...

We are so busy running around doing each and every day.

And we get too caught up in our thoughts.

And instead we run our days by what we think we should do.

We run our days, even worse, by the voices of our parents and grandparents and media and society and what they think we should do. 

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But instead...

I encourage you to think a whole lot less and to feel a whole lot more.

Into you.

And into your beauty.

Into your internal compass.

The desires you have are uniquely you.

No one else has been put on this planet with the exact same combination of desires and passions that will light you up with joy.

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So what if? 

What if today was the first day of the rest of your life?

What do you feel like doing?

What are the thoughts you want to have in your head?

Do you choose to see the light in everyone?

Do you choose to pray for the best?

Do you actually believe that there is good in us all?

If you had no memory of war or famine or hurt or pain, how could you have any other option but to believe in the inherent goodness of man? And to look around you with your mouth hung open in awe at the beauty of the world that we live in. At the stunning diversity and abundance of nature and all her colors and sights and sounds and smells

How could you not fall to your knees and weep at this amazing planet we've been given!?

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One more time...

I ask you...

If yesterday didn't exist, how would you choose to feel today?

How would you act on those feelings to allow your heart's deepest desires and passions to shine forth?

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Or perhaps even more importantly.... 

If tomorrow didn't exist, how would you choose to feel today?

WHAT IF? BY EMYRALD SINCLAIRE