Three Reasons Manifestation Is Not Working For You ( And What To Do Instead )

Are you trying to Manifest the Love of your Life but

things aren’t working out for you…yet?

Trust me – I’m a queen at manifesting but it took me awhile to get to where I am today! (And by the way, I teach you everything I know about conscious manifesting in my three hour Manifesting Magic Masterclass!)

There are THREE common reasons I’ve noticed why manifesting doesn’t work for some folks and here they are.

1. The Whipped Cream on Garbage Syndrome 

This has to do when underneath the surface your belief system is NOT in alignment with the practices you are doing. Which is why we started the tapping process way back in the first month. So, if your manifestation process is NOT working then you might need to start (or continue) a tapping process in order to remove the energetic connection to an underlying belief system.

And if you don’t know if you have limiting beliefs in your way…well just start tapping on how miserable you feel that you’re alone and that ‘this isn’t working for me’ and I promise you’ll uncover your garbage.

2. Your Thoughts Are Getting in the Way 

Your thoughts create your reality. And the more you think them…the more they become a belief system which in turn affects your actions. Which creates your reality.

Thoughts -> Beliefs -> Actions -> Reality 

If you’re thinking too much every day about how there’s no available men in town within your age range and you’re focusing too much on what there is NOT versus what you WANT, then you will not manifest what you want. It’s like your thoughts are canceling out your manifestation prowess.

So – take stock of how often you are thinking thoughts that are in opposition to your manifesting. It’s time to be the observer of you and put yourself in check if your thoughts are getting in your way.  And then to ‘cancel clear’ yourself and those limiting thoughts and put the thoughts you want in your head instead!

3. You Aren’t Giving It Enough Time

Let’s be honest… how many YEARS have you been you? 30? 40? 50? You’re used to thinking and acting and believing a certain way for a very long time.

And to be honest, I’m giving you new patterns to create and a new way to think… and studies show that it can take up to ONE YEAR for new neural pathways to be created in the brain. Which means you have to try something new for up to ONE YEAR before it becomes a new way of being in your life.

It took me a year to the day to manifest my man.

I’m not trying to discourage you but I’m trying to put this into perspective. It will take some time and consistency in order to create real change in your life.

I’m giving you the process of real and lasting CHANGE. Please be patient with yourself and enjoy the ride, sister!

If you’re interested in learning how to put this all to practice to manifest your man, or anything you desire for that matter, sign up for my Manifesting Magic Masterclass! 

Your Friends Know Why You’re Single (Truth Tuesdays Ep 42)

Here’s a truth bomb for ya: Your friends know why you’re single! 

Let’s be real, they’ve known you forever.   They know all of your stories and your issues and your struggles. They’ve seen you interact with the opposite sex. They’ve heard all of your relationship stories.

And when it comes to your love life, let’s be real, they are definitely MORE OBJECTIVE than you are!    So, if you want to know WHY you’re single and what to change about yourself, ask a friend. 

  If you don’t mind that you’re single and are perfectly happy going to a restaurant and asking for a ‘table for one!’ then stop reading this blog.

But if you’re looking for the real reason you’re single such as:

  • “you’re a bit clingy”
  • “you totally obsess over men and smother them”
  • “You’re absolutely needy, demanding and kinda a bitch to guys.”

Then it’s important that you ask a friend who is going to be honest with you. But perhaps cushion the blow a little bit?


If you’ve been single forever, or your dating game seems to be a bit off, or you always attract a ‘certain type’ or the guys you like never like you back, then perhaps it is time for a serving of cold, hard truth!   A word of caution – the truth can hurt.   So make sure you’re ready to hear it.  

And then swallow your pride, get over yourself, and fix what is getting in your way to having an amazing partnership!


And you might want to sign up for my free masterclass coming up “Single for the Holidays? Manifest Love Now!”  






What GOLF has to do with Manifesting Love (#truthtuesdays ep 40)

Would you believe it if I told you that a golf tournament back in high school changed my view on love and manifestation for the rest of my life?!

Whether you golf or not, watch and learn about my ‘golf failure’ at a tournament and how it helped me shape my outlook on life and increase my powers of manifestation immediately! 

This is something you won’t want to miss if you’re single and looking for love…


Did you LOVE the message in this video? Consider sharing it with your friends or leave a comment below! 







How to Listen to Your Intuition (#TruthTuesdays Ep 26)

Today Sasha was sick. 

And for those of you who have ever been on a call with me, you know she goes crazy barking whenever you chime into our coaching call. Today, nothing. Lethargic. Won’t eat. Doesn’t even want to go for a walk. Breaking my heart….



And while my little one was sick, I reflected upon the importance of self-care and listening to your body. 

Animals take a break when they need to. There is no to-do list. No obligations to other people. Instead, #selfcare becomes the primary goal. 

So many of my clients (myself included!) put themselves last on the list. 

Instead it’s all about pleasing the boss, pleasing the boyfriend, pleasing the parents, pleasing EVERYONE except for herself. Instead of listening to her own body and intuition. 

And speaking of intuition, many many more of my clients don’t know how to listen to their intuitions! 


“What’s the difference between my intuition and my monkey mind,” asked Kendra.

Great question! And it’s one I’ve gotten more than once over the past week. I was asked by FOUR different clients this exact same question! Which means you probably have the question, too!


Which is why I’m sharing with you this amazing, spot-on practice to teach you how to discern between the whisper of your intuition and the distraction of your thoughts and monkey-mind! 


Truth Tuesdays with Love Coach Emyrald Sinclaire

What would you GIVE UP for love? (#TruthTuesdays Ep 24)

I recently led a weekend workshop and asked the women to tell me their heart’s desire! 

This was easy for them and answers ranged from ‘Meeting an amazing man and getting married.’ to ‘living happily ever after with the love of my life!’ 

But then I asked a harder question: What would you be willing to GIVE UP for love? 

This stumped them. 


Would you be willing to give up your stubborn idea of what ‘the one’ looks like? Would you be willing to let go of your anger towards your mother? Would you be willing to give up your control issues? Would you be willing to let down your guard? 


ALL OF MY CLIENTS have blocks in their way to experiencing the love life they crave. 

That’s why it hasn’t happened for them yet. And it’s also why the come to me for help. 

Today, I’m sharing with you a powerful process to release the blocks you have that are getting in your way. 

It’s a simple process that will take you 15 minutes. Carve out some time to watch the video and follow the steps I outline for you! 

When the process is complete, you will be 100% more available and ready to attract the one to you! 


Truth Tuesdays with Love Coach Emyrald Sinclaire


What if you couldn’t remember yesterday…?

How do you choose to feel today?

What if you could forget your past?

What if every single day you woke up and you were fresh and clean as the day you were born?

What type of reality would you create?

What would make you excited and fill your heart with joy and bring a smile to your face?

What would you consciously choose to do today if you had no memory of yesterday?

If you just woke up, got out of bed, looked at your body and felt into your heart? What would you feel like doing today?

What would you feel.... like doing today?

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And imagine...

How different your life would be if that's how you gaged each day's activities simply by how you feel and what feels good to you?

And if you could simply follow your heart's desire on a daily basis...?

How much joy that would bring to the planet!

And the end of war because who wakes up and thinks 'I feel like killing a man today'?

If you had no memory of yesterday and instead said to yourself 'what do I feel like doing today' ? 

Did you feel like being happy?

Like jumping for joy? Like skateboarding? Having sex? Making food?

What is your heart saying to you in this instant?

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Too often...

We are so busy running around doing each and every day.

And we get too caught up in our thoughts.

And instead we run our days by what we think we should do.

We run our days, even worse, by the voices of our parents and grandparents and media and society and what they think we should do. 

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But instead...

I encourage you to think a whole lot less and to feel a whole lot more.

Into you.

And into your beauty.

Into your internal compass.

The desires you have are uniquely you.

No one else has been put on this planet with the exact same combination of desires and passions that will light you up with joy.

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So what if? 

What if today was the first day of the rest of your life?

What do you feel like doing?

What are the thoughts you want to have in your head?

Do you choose to see the light in everyone?

Do you choose to pray for the best?

Do you actually believe that there is good in us all?

If you had no memory of war or famine or hurt or pain, how could you have any other option but to believe in the inherent goodness of man? And to look around you with your mouth hung open in awe at the beauty of the world that we live in. At the stunning diversity and abundance of nature and all her colors and sights and sounds and smells

How could you not fall to your knees and weep at this amazing planet we've been given!?

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One more time...

I ask you...

If yesterday didn't exist, how would you choose to feel today?

How would you act on those feelings to allow your heart's deepest desires and passions to shine forth?

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Or perhaps even more importantly.... 

If tomorrow didn't exist, how would you choose to feel today?