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I’ve never been cheated upon.
Thank god.
But my partner, unfortunately, has experienced the gut-wrenching pain of a significant other NOT being faithful.
According to “Infidelity Statistics”
“It is estimated that roughly 30% to 60% of all married individuals (in the United States) will engage in infidelity at some point during their marriage… And these numbers are probably on the conservative side, if you consider that close to half of all marriages end in divorce (people are more likely to stray as relationships fall apart”
Yuck.
That means at least half of you who are reading this have engaged in infidelity or have been cheated on!
So – if that is you, how do you tell your partner that you have trust issues?
And more importantly, how do you GET OVER your insecurities already!?
Find out by watching!
And make sure you do the following exercises I talk about in the video:
1. Write your Painful Love Story and then shift it to become the HERO in your life, not the VICTIM
2. Write your Letters of Forgiveness and BURN them, baby!
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Do you find it hard to forgive your ex?
Do you still harbor resentment towards a past (or current) lover who has betrayed your trust?
I hate to be the one to tell you so bluntly but you HAVE to let that go if you are going to actually be in a healthy and happy long-term relationship with the love of your life!!
Stick with me here, in the short video below I show you EXACTLY how to forgive someone who has betrayed your trust so that you can create space for a truly fulfilling relationship that gives you everything your heart craves for!
Such as: safety, security, trust, happiness, love, desire, and fulfillment!
How to Forgive Someone Who Has Betrayed You
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Having sex with your ex is like watching “The Notebook” for the first time.
It feels good while you’re doing it….
You’re completely captivated and and slightly sweaty and at the edge of your seat…
But for some reason at the end, you’re left crying and in tears and kinda feeling empty inside.
PRO – You know what you’re going to get. No creeps. No ‘you wanna put what, where?!’
CON – You know what you’re in for. Afterwards you remember, oh yea, I got so tired of him doing that trick. Booooring.
PRO – They’ve seen you at your worse and they still think you’re good enough to hook up with.
CON – They’ve seen you at your worst! Remember all the fights and yelling and horrible things you’ve said to one another!? Do you really want to be intimate with this person? Remember when they said horrible things to you!?
PRO – They know what you like.
CON – You have the possibility of getting addicted to them again. Because the sex was/is so good. But ultimately that’s all it is. Good sex.
PRO – Cuddling. Ahh, feel so good.
CON – Cuddling leads to warm and fuzzy feelings for someone you broke up with for a reason. Or that broke up with you for a reason.
PRO – You don’t have to sneak up real early to do your make-up and brush your teeth before he wakes up. Because, ‘yes, I totally look like this when I wake up.’
CON – Most likely he’s going to leave right after (or even before) you fall asleep. Kinda making you feel like a whore.
PRO – You have a fuck buddy.
CON – You get comfortable and don’t go out on dates and meet new people. And um, hello, how are you going to meet the love of your life is you’re still screwing your ex?
PRO – They’ve totally changed! He’s matured! He’s grown up! Holy crap, THIS is the relationship you’ve been waiting for since you broke up!
CON – Oh, wait. Nope. Now I see why we broke up in the first place.
PRO – You won’t get murdered by some stranger that you met on tinder or match.com
CON – You could get murdered because your ex is secretly harboring deep seeded feelings of hate towards you. (OMG, I’m just kidding! You’re not going to get murdered.)
PRO – They want to get back together! Yea!!
CON – They want to get back together. Oh crap….
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Is there a certain number of ‘dates’ to wait for until you should have sex with a man?
Do you wait until ‘I love you’?
Is it better to get it over with and make sure you are sexually compatible before moving forward?
Can you wait ‘too long’ and ruin the relationship and your chances?
What happens if you’re dating multiple guys and don’t want to sleep with any of them?
Girl, these are all great questions.
So – take a seat. Slow your roll. And watch….
Leave them below as I always answer them….
I’ll come right out and say it:
I like oral sex.
Both giving and receiving.
But not all women are like me. Or at least not willing to type it on a webpage for the entire world (hi, mom!) to read.
And some women DON’T enjoy giving oral.
But let’s break down WHY men love oral sex so much and how it can contribute to:
Men and women don’t always understand each other. Because guess what? We are different!!
Men don’t understand these emotional creatures that they also love so dearly.
And women, well, let’s be real. Men aren’t really that hard to figure out. BUT you have to make the effort to actually learn about what makes them tick. And then put those things to practice!
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In fact, if you want a man to totally and completely commit to you, then this type of sexual intimacy is going to increase the likelihood of that happening to you. (In a relationship and looking to deepen the connection between you and your partner? Sign up for the Relationship Reconnection! Yes, it’s free!)
Sound good?
And men….would I ever love to hear what you have to say on the subject down below…. 🙂 (in the comments section, silly!)
And as a side note, I don’t think most men would be able to tell you exactly WHY they love oral sex. They’d probably just say ‘because it feels good.’ Um, yeah. We know that.
But let’s dig a little deeper into the subconscious and energetic reasons why BJ’s get a man to commit to you truly and deeply.
The very act of getting down on your knees is one of submission. It’s one of service. You are giving to your man. You have to be vulnerable to him. You have to submit to him. And for a strong masculine man, it shows that you trust him. It helps him feel more like a masculine man.
If you’re actually down on your knees, you are literally making yourself submissive to him. You’re giving him the power to dominate.
Let’s be real here. I wouldn’t give a blow job to anyone other than my significant other.
Back in the day when I was dating… I remember having conversations with girlfriends about intimacy and sex. And one girl in particular said that she wouldn’t go ‘all the way’ with a man but that they’d fool around and have oral. I remember being flabbergasted! There is NO WAY IN HELL I would put just ANY random-ass penis in my mouth. Sorry to be vulgar but oral sex is all about vulnerability and trust.
You have to be open to your man. You have to trust him. You have to feel comfortable enough to communicate and ask certain questions like ‘Does this feel good?’ or ‘like this?’ or ‘Faster or slower?’
The masculine energy needs to feel trusted by his woman. That is HUGE for the masculine energy man. When you go down on your guy, you are saying that you trust him because you are comfortable being completely vulnerable with him.
Most men love their penises. In fact, I haven’t yet met one who doesn’t!
When you take in your mouth what most men are ‘in love’ with, the root of their manhood, you are showing your man that you admire him.
You love the part of him that ultimately makes him a man.
And on the flip side, if you’re rejecting your man’s penis via oral sex, you are essentially saying that you ‘reject him’ or that you don’t love him.
Amazing how much connection happens from just one little act.
There are plenty of ways we give and receive love: hugging, kissing, buying presents, going out to dinner at a nice restaurant, touching, saying “I love you” and more.
And while there are many ways to express love, men have a certain association with sex and love that is different from women.
Have you ever thought to yourself: “Why is it all always about sex?”
Or at least heard a girlfriend ask it?
NEWSFLASH: Men LOVE sex.
Did you hear that?
They LOVE it. It’s part of how they perceive love.
You’ve got to simply understand that sentence above and trust that it’s true.
To a man, if a woman wants to have sex with him regularly, it means she loves him and is attracted to him. The masculine energy perceives importance and significance in a woman being sexually attracted to him. So when this beautiful creature that he’s super sexually attracted to is also super sexually attracted to him…. he gets it. It’s his language.
Oh and get this, ladies. When you have sex with your man, oxytocin is released. It’s the feel-good chemical that attaches you to a man and makes you think you’re in love. So this happens to us, too. Which is also why you should be super conscientious of who you sleep with as you chemically bond to them for up to 8 weeks!
Most men don’t open up and communicate their thoughts and feelings as much as women. (Speaking of which, if you want to know the one question to ask your man on a daily basis, click here!)
Sex is one form of connection for them as they don’t necessarily go out and chat with their guy friends the way we women communicate with our girlfriends.
Think about sex and orgasm for a moment.
Men reach orgasm and ‘let go.’ Usually it means they fall asleep. They are letting go of all the stress and worries of the day. They have fulfilled their mission, their goal.
For women, we reach orgasm and we want to ‘hold on.’ We want to snuggle. We want to talk. We want to deepen the connection. The holding on shows how much more emotional we are than men. We are very emotional creatures and don’t NEED sex in order to feel the connection to our partner.
Whereas, men do NEED the sex to feel the connection to us.
I’ve talked a bunch about the masculine and feminine energies today. And that’s because it’s important to understand in regards to a happy and healthy relationship.
Opposites attract. Compliments repel.
You need one Fred and one Ginger, if you’re dancing.
And you still need one Fred and one Ginger if you’re dancing between the sheets.
Once the feminine energy learns to understand the masculine energy and his need for connection through sex, many struggles drop away.
The feminine energy is fulfilling her desire to connect emotionally with her man.
The masculine energy feels respected and trusted.
And when the feminine energy feels her feelings cherished (which she wants at her core above all else) and the masculine energy has his thoughts respected (which he wants at his core above all else) the relationship blossoms into something you’ve never experienced before!
Men love to feast with their eyes. And it looks sexy when you have his member in your mouth. Men love to watch when you’re going down on them (have you noticed?). So make a show out of it. Wear sexy underwear. Position yourself in front of a mirror. Look up at him occasionally. He’ll eat that shit up! I promise.
So am I saying that you have to give your man a blow-job every single day in order to experience long-lasting happiness in your relationship?
Well, maybe I am saying exactly that.
But if not, at least once a week!
I hope by now you have come to the realization that it’s more than simply oral sex: it’s respecting your man, it’s being vulnerable, it’s deepening your connection, it’s trusting him, it’s opening up into your pure feminine essence.
Take these 7 reasons to heart and perhaps make a commitment to reignite the spark in your relationship by seeing what happens when you decide to open up and commit to your man via oral sex on a regular basis.
And then tell me below in the comments how it goes for you! 😉
And of course share this article on your favorite social media platform. Trust me, the guys will thank you!
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