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An OLD but TRIED and TESTED way to manifest love

We are human magnets in any given moment attracting

to us whatever our dominant energy or vibration happens

to be over the course of our lives.

 

Understanding, or discovering, the Law of Attraction really should be a cause for celebration in your life because you have the power to affect every single thing in your life!

 

If you desire it, and take action towards having it, ultimately the Law of Attraction decrees that it shall be yours!

 

So, let’s dig into how you can properly use the Law of Attraction in your life to manifest the man, the dream job, the money in your bank account and so much more!

 

In a nutshell, all you need to do is imagine what you want to manifest in your life and visualize it coming to pass.

 

And on the flip side, the more you ponder how impossible something is, the less likely it is that it shall come to pass. So the more you think about what you don’t want, the more you attract that in!

 

Whereas, if you focus on what you DO want, you DO attract that in, instead!

 

Sound good?

 

Understood?

 

Good, let’s move on.

 

IMPORTANT THING TO NOTE WHEN MANIFESTING AND USING THE LAW OF ATTRACTION: YOU HAVE TO FEEL LIKE YOU ALREADY HAVE IT

 

If you WANT something, it puts the energy/vibration of LACK out into the Universe. And as like attracts like, you’ll simply get more lack. Or in this case, a LACK of a soulmate.

 

So, I WANT MY SOULMATE translates to the Universe NOT giving you your soulmate because you’re vibrating at the frequency of “I want it because I don’t have it. Which means I don’t have it.”

 

 

Whereas, I’M GRATEFUL FOR MY SOULMATE and feeling like you already HAVE HIM by your side allows the Universe to give you more of that energy. Which equals soulmate eventually by your side.

 

NEEDINESS = LACK = LESS LIKELY TO GET WHAT YOU WANT

 

whereas

 

GRATITUDE = HAVING = MORE LIKELY TO GET WHAT YOU WANT

 

So the important question is this:

 

HOW DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ALREADY HAVE WHATEVER IT IS THAT YOU WANT? (Especially if you’ve never had it before and don’t really know what it feels like?)

 

Let’s dig into this, shall we?

 

Step 1: Define what you want.

 

Easy. You want your soulmate.

 

 

 

Step 2: Attract what you want.

 

Not so easy. Because you have to FEEL like you already have what you want…even though you haven’t had it yet.

 

There are THREE ways that I know that are the best ways to work on FEELING what you want even if you’ve never had it. And by now they shouldn’t come as any big surprise to you. 🙂

1. Visualization – See yourself having whatever it is that you want. The end result has come to pass. How do you FEEL in this moment? We’ve talked about this a lot. Why? Because it works and it’s typically the easiest way for someone to imagine what it would feel like by putting themselves into the picture of having what they want. Or in your case, having your soulmate by your side. His arms around you. He’s walking you down the aisle. Close your eyes. C’mon. You could imagine how that must feel, couldn’t you? 🙂 It’s really important to SEE IT AS IF IT’S HAPPENING NOW. Because, once again, if you WANT something, it implies lack. Whereas if you are FEELING as if you HAVE it already, you’re putting out the energy of attracting what you want.  

 

*Science Side Note: The subconscious mind pretty much runs your life through habits and patterns. And it doesn’t know the difference between real experiences and what you make up in your mind to be true. So if you change your subconscious mind to believe that you already have whatever it is that you want, you’ve pretty much done most of the work.

 

 

2) Affirmations – You write out what you want in as much detail, passion, feeling and emotion as you can. It’s important to write them down AS IF you already have it in this present moment. Such as: I am a millionaire. I am married to the man of my dreams. I am so happy and grateful now that I have my soulmate by my side.

 

*Note: Affirmations will not work if you don’t put emotion into them and say them with the feeling as if they have already come to pass. If you’re just reading words on a page, it’s not much more helpful than reading a fictional novel.

 

It’s important to repeat your affirmations every day and several times a day.  

 

 

3) Vision Board – Make a collage of the things you truly desire and put it somewhere where you can see it every day.

 

Why?

 

There’s a part of your brain called the Reticular Activating System (RAS) which chooses what to focus upon in your reality. If your attention is on the ‘bad,’ you’ll notice the bad…such as ‘no good men in my town.’

 

Whereas if you focus on the good, you’ll notice/attract more good in your life and find endless opportunity wherever you go!

 

Watch this video about Vision Boarding, por favor. In only 7 minutes I tell your beautiful bum why the vision board is oh-so-important!

 

 

What type of FEELINGS does it give to you when you look at the images? That’s the point! Make sure your vision board gives EMOTION to you!

 

So, go out there and make your vision board!

 

Want more? Snag a copy of my wildly popular guide to Manifest Your Soulmate in 21 days! 

Three Reasons Manifestation Is Not Working For You ( And What To Do Instead )

Are you trying to Manifest the Love of your Life but

things aren’t working out for you…yet?

Trust me – I’m a queen at manifesting but it took me awhile to get to where I am today! (And by the way, I teach you everything I know about conscious manifesting in my three hour Manifesting Magic Masterclass!)

There are THREE common reasons I’ve noticed why manifesting doesn’t work for some folks and here they are.

1. The Whipped Cream on Garbage Syndrome 

This has to do when underneath the surface your belief system is NOT in alignment with the practices you are doing. Which is why we started the tapping process way back in the first month. So, if your manifestation process is NOT working then you might need to start (or continue) a tapping process in order to remove the energetic connection to an underlying belief system.

And if you don’t know if you have limiting beliefs in your way…well just start tapping on how miserable you feel that you’re alone and that ‘this isn’t working for me’ and I promise you’ll uncover your garbage.

2. Your Thoughts Are Getting in the Way 

Your thoughts create your reality. And the more you think them…the more they become a belief system which in turn affects your actions. Which creates your reality.

Thoughts -> Beliefs -> Actions -> Reality 

If you’re thinking too much every day about how there’s no available men in town within your age range and you’re focusing too much on what there is NOT versus what you WANT, then you will not manifest what you want. It’s like your thoughts are canceling out your manifestation prowess.

So – take stock of how often you are thinking thoughts that are in opposition to your manifesting. It’s time to be the observer of you and put yourself in check if your thoughts are getting in your way.  And then to ‘cancel clear’ yourself and those limiting thoughts and put the thoughts you want in your head instead!

3. You Aren’t Giving It Enough Time

Let’s be honest… how many YEARS have you been you? 30? 40? 50? You’re used to thinking and acting and believing a certain way for a very long time.

And to be honest, I’m giving you new patterns to create and a new way to think… and studies show that it can take up to ONE YEAR for new neural pathways to be created in the brain. Which means you have to try something new for up to ONE YEAR before it becomes a new way of being in your life.

It took me a year to the day to manifest my man.

I’m not trying to discourage you but I’m trying to put this into perspective. It will take some time and consistency in order to create real change in your life.

I’m giving you the process of real and lasting CHANGE. Please be patient with yourself and enjoy the ride, sister!

If you’re interested in learning how to put this all to practice to manifest your man, or anything you desire for that matter, sign up for my Manifesting Magic Masterclass! 

3 Dating Secrets for 2018

“Online dating sucks!”

“I can’t meet anyone decent online.”

“There are no good men in my town.” 

Do any of these sound familiar? 

Maybe you’ve heard yourself say these things outloud lately? 

Not to fear – dating in 2018 is really not that hard. 

 

Allow me to break it down with three little secrets that I share with all of my clients.

(I also share how men are like dogs…but in a good way…in that they are easy to please and can be trained….sorry dudes.)

Looking to Find a GREAT man yourself? Snag a copy of my wildly popular e-book “Manifest Your Soulmate in 21 Days” and start down the path towards Happily Ever After!

xo

Emyrald 

 

P.S. Be sure to like and share if you enjoyed the content. You know your single girlfriends want to learn this information as well! 

How to BE a Feminine Woman

I tell my ladies to BE in their feminine energy in order to attract in a masculine man. 

But what does that mean and how to do you DO it? 

In this video I dig into masculine and feminine energy and how to do this ONE THING so that he feels compelled to be YOUR man and CHASE you and PROTECT you.  If you’re a powerful woman who finds herself taking the chase and as as result chasing after the wrong men, then this video is for you. 

Stop! Don’t sleep with him!

Crap….how did I find myself naked…in a hot tub… with this incredibly cute Australian? 

 

I had JUST made the *promise* to myself to honor my body and no longer sleep around. 

I had had ENOUGH of men using me for sex, thank you kindly…

And I wanted a different man this time around… someone who would…
 
– well, stick around after rolling around in the sheets, for one thing
– but also a man who cared about me, and wanted to learn about my hopes and dreams and become my support system and think I was the cats meow!

So why did that all go out the window?

1. His irresistible Australian accent
2. I was drunk (damnit)


Luckily, this story was the VERY LAST TIME I slipped…

Then I really did hold tight to my promise to stay abstinent until I met the man that would become my future partner.

And with him, we waited six whole months to have sex!

Today in #TruthTuesdays, I want to share with you WHY you should NOT sleep with a man if you want him to fall in love…and ultimately stick around. 


And no, it’s not all emotional. There are actually BIOLOGICAL reasons why you fall in love when you sleep with a man and become attached.

Click below to watch and learn!

 

 

P.S. If you’d like to REALLY learn about the differences between men and women and become MAGNETIC to your SOULMATE… I highly suggest you check out my signature group coaching program – Single to Soulmate! (Doors close soon!) 

 

 

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The #1 thing men look for in a woman (that most women lack)

When polled, did you know that there was ONE BIG THING that most men find attractive in a woman? 

And this ONE BIG THING is the thing that many women are struggling with. 

Watch the video to learn my top 3 ways to become this woman naturally. 

 

Join us for Flirt Like a Goddess Training! Starts March 28th, 2018! 

 

>>>>  C L I C K  H E R E   T O  S I G N  U P  <<<<<

3 Flirting Techniques any Goddess can Master

Do you want to get the guys to come up to you without you having to chase them? 

And more so, would you like the CUTE GUY YOU ARE INTERESTED in to come up to you from across the room?

Great! I thought you’d never ask. 🙂 ​​​​

 

One of the common reasons women join my facebook group, Manifest Your Soulmate, is because they are looking for the tools in order to become a better woman who believes in her self-worth. And as a result, attract in a freaking fantastic man, if I say so myself! 

What are the tools I teach my clients in order to raise their self-confidence and actually believe they are the prize so that they can attract in the love of their life?

 

Here are my favorite three. 

 

 

1. The Supermodel Walk

Now before you go on hating, listen up first. This actually has nothing to do with what you wear or what you look like. Instead, it’s all about the energy you are giving off. And think about any lady (or man, for that matter) on the cat-walk. They OWN IT. And that’s the energy I want you to exude. The next time you walk into the room (any room) you are going to pretend you are on the catwalk. You are going to embody your inner super model and STRUT IT. 

It really is all about the ENERGY you are giving off and trust me, when you walk into a place like you own it, people will notice! 

No more looking down at the ground or trying to hide in a corner. For just 15 seconds, you are going to pretend like you are the cat’s meow and that everyone’s eyes are on you…and for a good reason, girl! 

 

2. The Smile…and Wink. 

This next one is a bit scary for many people: 

 

You are going to catch the eye of a stranger… smile at him…and wink! 

 

Omg. Did the sky just fall down? Did hell just freeze over? 

 

Nope, you just learned a simple flirting technique that shows self-confidence and humor. And even if you don’t (yet) feel like you have the confidence to pull this off, allow this to be a little exercise in ‘fake it til you make it.’ Trust me, it’s a great way to show that you don’t take yourself too seriously and that you have the cajones to go after what you want. Although in this case, you are simply making the offer of come and get me, boyzz! 

 

 

3. Pretend You Just Slept with Brad Pitt 

I know, you might think I’m delusional and asking you to be the same. But go with me here. Imagine what you would be thinking and what you would feel like if you actually did just hop in the sack with Brad Pitt (or your fave Hollywood crush). You’d be flying high, on top of the world, and pretty much knowing that you’re the cat’s meow! 

 

You’d have the confidence to smile and flirt at the cute boy in the bar. You’d most likely chat up the barista at Starbucks. You’d be opening doors for strangers and probably dancing down the street singing to yourself, am I right? 

 

So, if you woke up and played a little game with yourself called “I just slept with Brad Pitt” how would that change how you go about your day? 

 

No, really, think about it right now, how would it change your day? 

 

THAT is the energy I want you to go out into the world with for just 24 hours! High as a kite. And just watch… how magically the men are attracted to you! 

 

And that’s a wrap for today, lovely. 

 

 

Why Law of Attraction is NOT helping you manifest your Love (Truth Tuesdays)

What do you do when Law of Attraction isn’t working to manifest your love and you’re starting to get a bit impatient and worried that he’ll never show up? 

 

Watch below! 

13 Men (and 1 bi woman) Tell All: What’s REALLY beautiful about a woman

What do men REALLY want in a woman? 

What makes a woman’s beauty noticeable to a man? 

I bet it’s not what you think…

 

Let’s be real here, there are some crazy scary statistics out there focused around body images.  Crazy shit like: 

 

  • Approximately 91% of women are unhappy with their bodies and resort to dieting to achieve their ‘ideal body shape.’ Why? Because only 5% of women naturally possess the body type often portrayed by models, superstars and actresses in the media. 5%!!! And I would wager that some of those 5% live in underdeveloped countries and actually suffer from malnutrition! 
  • 53% of 13 year-old American girls are unhappy with their bodies! (Um, WTF?) This number grows to 78% by the time girls reach 17. But here’s the real shocker: 95% of people with eating disorders are between the ages of 12 and 25.
  • 80% of 10-year-old girls have dieted. 90% of high school junior and senior women diet regularly. And finally, young girls are more afraid of becoming fat than they are of nuclear war, cancer, or losing their parents!

 

Woah? Did anybody else just stand up and exclaim, “What the fuck media portrayal of beauty,” or is that just me? 

 

Regardless, as a self love activist, I have made it my personal mission to help women see their REAL beauty no matter their shape or size. 

 

And I’ve polled 13 men and 1 bi-woman to bring you the following results of what is REAL BEAUTY in a woman. 

(Also, if you haven’t read it…find out what women first notice in a man by clicking here…)

 

David: Her ability to effortlessly intuit and fulfill all of my needs.

James: Her heart. PERIOD. 

Hans: Outside and Inner Beauty  

Derek:Their taming qualities us filthy animals require to be better individuals, lol

Karlos: Passion for living and sense of adventure for me

Shane: Sanity. Aactually, just enough sanity.
Jay: Her desire and ability to take complete responsibility for her emotions and actions…(this also tends to contribute to the beautiful smile upon her face)
Tyler: Face.
Jeff: Commitment. I say this because i feel if you are truly commited to something, husband, wife, life partner, career, or positive energy you are the girl for me
Tex: Her intelligence. But, sadly, that won’t overcome an unfortunate body or face. We guys aren’t wired that way
Matthew: Intuitive wisdom 
Shivaya: the curves around the belly
Sophia: I’m going to answer this bc I’m bi. Women who aren’t afraid of being themselves. Also, women who have a sense of humor and communication skills. 
Phillip: Confidence 

 

As you can see, there are so many attributes that men (and women) find beautiful about you ladies. And it doesn’t have to do with your physical looks. Instead, it’s the energy you are putting off. It’s your passion. It’s your wisdom. It’s your confidence.

 

So the next time you aren’t feeling good enough or sexy enough, read the words above and remember that it’s so much more that makes a real woman beautiful! 

 

And finally, if you haven’t watched this video before, it’s time: 

 

 

“No wonder our perception of Beauty is distorted.” 

 

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