#TRUTHTUESDAYS EP. 11 How to attract a man with the “3 S’s” so he stops his search with other women

How do you get a man to STOP shopping the market and commit to you? 

You use the THREE S’s of course! 

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One – Sex

Don’t you dare be scared to be sexy. Show off the best sides of you. The sides that make you feel sexy and like you are the prize. But DON’T get stuck on ONLY the sex part. Remember that you also have two more wonderful categories that you are going to share. Men are attracted to beautiful looking things. And women are beautiful creatures. Show your sexy side…..

But that’s not all…

 

Two – Smarts

Show your man your smarts! Sure, you can impress him with what you’ve done for your career. The non-profit you started all on your own. Whatever it is, absolutely show him your intelligence and your strength. That you are capable of having an intelligent conversation and that there is something going on behind the scenes of the pretty face.

But of course don’t get caught up only in your brain or the man will be intimidated and see you as competition.

You have to add in one more thing….

 

Three – Sharing

Open up your heart, girl. Be vulnerable. Share. Be open. Express the beautiful heart that you have. Allow yourself to be in your feminine and share your emotions. Just don’t get stuck there or you risk becoming too emotional and a type of woman that all men run from.

 

It’s the combination of all three s’s that make a man want to drop everything and pursue you full time.

It’s the SEX, THE SMARTS, AND THE SHARING that show a man just how valuable you are, like YOU are the prize, and he’ll come running!

 

Promise.

 

Action Step:

MAKE YOUR LIST

Take a sheet of paper and write at the top: Sex, Smarts, Sharing.

Fill it out! What do you have to offer in each of the 3 categories?

On the next date, make sure all three of those areas shine and are shown.

You are irresistible to high quality men by BEING a high quality woman balanced in her heart, her body and her mind. 

#TRUTHTUESDAYS EP. 10 Why it’s so easy to get trapped in blame…and the unexpected way to get out of the cycle!

Have you ever blamed another or passed judgment? 

IF YOU’RE HUMAN YOU CAN EASILY ANSWER ‘YES’ TO THIS QUESTION.

Truth Tuesdays Episode 10 with Emyrald Sinclaire Love Coach

Our ego is responsible for a lot of our problems in relationships  – no matter if you’re currently single or with the love of your  life.

So how does the ego get in the way? And cause problems and anger and pain in relationships?

What do you do to move beyond the hold of the ego? And have a happy and peaceful and loving time with your partner?

Watch this week’s episode of Truth Tuesdays to find out! 

If you are looking to manifest a relationship that is based on spiritual growth so that you can both experience a deep and lasting love beyond anything else you’ve ever experienced before…. 

Let’s chat! 

That’s exactly what my 6 weeks to love coaching program is all about!

You’ll learn the exact ways to love yourself and move through your blocks…

Which leads to a happy and healthy and fulfilling relationship.

A relationship where you both feel loved and adored and cherished and respected! 

And I know that is what you want and it’s most certainly what you deserve!

What if you couldn’t remember yesterday…?

How do you choose to feel today?

What if you could forget your past?

What if every single day you woke up and you were fresh and clean as the day you were born?

What type of reality would you create?

What would make you excited and fill your heart with joy and bring a smile to your face?

What would you consciously choose to do today if you had no memory of yesterday?

If you just woke up, got out of bed, looked at your body and felt into your heart? What would you feel like doing today?

What would you feel.... like doing today?

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And imagine...

How different your life would be if that's how you gaged each day's activities simply by how you feel and what feels good to you?

And if you could simply follow your heart's desire on a daily basis...?

How much joy that would bring to the planet!

And the end of war because who wakes up and thinks 'I feel like killing a man today'?

If you had no memory of yesterday and instead said to yourself 'what do I feel like doing today' ? 

Did you feel like being happy?

Like jumping for joy? Like skateboarding? Having sex? Making food?

What is your heart saying to you in this instant?

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Too often...

We are so busy running around doing each and every day.

And we get too caught up in our thoughts.

And instead we run our days by what we think we should do.

We run our days, even worse, by the voices of our parents and grandparents and media and society and what they think we should do. 

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But instead...

I encourage you to think a whole lot less and to feel a whole lot more.

Into you.

And into your beauty.

Into your internal compass.

The desires you have are uniquely you.

No one else has been put on this planet with the exact same combination of desires and passions that will light you up with joy.

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So what if? 

What if today was the first day of the rest of your life?

What do you feel like doing?

What are the thoughts you want to have in your head?

Do you choose to see the light in everyone?

Do you choose to pray for the best?

Do you actually believe that there is good in us all?

If you had no memory of war or famine or hurt or pain, how could you have any other option but to believe in the inherent goodness of man? And to look around you with your mouth hung open in awe at the beauty of the world that we live in. At the stunning diversity and abundance of nature and all her colors and sights and sounds and smells

How could you not fall to your knees and weep at this amazing planet we've been given!?

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One more time...

I ask you...

If yesterday didn't exist, how would you choose to feel today?

How would you act on those feelings to allow your heart's deepest desires and passions to shine forth?

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Or perhaps even more importantly.... 

If tomorrow didn't exist, how would you choose to feel today?

WHAT IF? BY EMYRALD SINCLAIRE

#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 9 – Fear Versus Love, Baby. It’s always your choice!

This is my favorite Truth Tuesdays to date!

THIS IS THE JUICY OF THE JUICE TO MANIFEST THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE.

At any given moment you have two choices: 

 

Fear

Love

I gave, what I thought, was a wonderful example of the road trip of life (in the video). You have where you’ve been (pain, hurt, misery, loneliness) and you have where you’re going (love, happiness, bliss, joy). 

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But do you turn around half way during the road trip because you’re not there yet? 

NO!

You have faith that you’ll get there.

That your GPS will continue to work and guide you in the direction of the life of your dreams.

Never give up.

Your faith MUST be strong than your fear.

Your DESIRE of where you want to be MUST be strong than the PAIN of where you’ve been. 

Do you understand me? 

Happiness is a choice. Get there. Stay there. And the life of your dreams will be naturally attracted to you!

WANT SOME MOTIVATION TO ‘GET HAPPY’? WATCH THIS VIDEO BELOW! 

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Being alone is actually a wonderful thing if you want to partner up

Be alone…

If you’re looking for love.

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What? How does that make sense?

Stick with me, I’m going to share exactly why being alone and giving yourself space from the dating game can actually be your greatest blessing if you’re looking for love!

WHY BEING ALONE LEADS TO SOULMATE LEVEL LOVE:

1. You learn about you.

Too many women get caught up in a relationship. It’s all about HIM. It’s HIS likes and HIS life and HIS dreams. You get too caught up in the dating game and trying to PLEASE other men. To look desirable. To say certain things. To appear to be witty and clever and independent and NOT clingy. But what of that is really YOU? I’ve actually suggested to MANY of my clients who are ready to experience a deep and profound love that they take a break from dating. They take a break from looking. They STOP thinking about love and a partnership. But doesn’t that go against so many things that I teach in regards to manifestation and the law of attraction? Yes and no. To be completely honest, most women don’t know what they want. And so they are going out there blindly trying to attract in all types of men, ANY men, in order to fulfill that desire to love and be loved. But here’s what I suggest instead…. take alone time to learn about you. To figure out what you enjoy and what makes you happy. Then when you go back out into the dating world it’s from a place of ‘I am me. Hear me roar! Oh yeah, and this is what I want in a man.” You go out there with such clarity with what you want because you know first what makes you tick. And what lights your heart up with joy! I guarantee, then you’ll meet a high quality man who is super aligned with you and your desires! 

2. You recharge your batteries!

Having time and space for you and your interests and your desires fills your heart up with joy! Instead of duty dating because you’re inspired and ready to meet the one….stay at home and do what you enjoy: watch a movie, read a book, write poetry, walk the dog, go to a yoga class, schedule a massage. Yes, you do have to put yourself out there in order to actually meet men, BUT, at the same time the happier you are, the more ‘FULL’ you are…you’ll be able to come from a space of actually being able to GIVE in the relationship!

3. You get what you give.

When you learn to nourish yourself….and put yourself first…and cherish your feelings first…. you’ll attract in a man, friends, a partner, a boss, a kitten, etc to do the same! You have to BE the energy you want to attract. And if you don’t love yourself FIRST before a man, you are NOT going to meet a man who puts you first. This is really important so let me say it again:  You have to put your feelings first in order to attract in a high quality man who will do the same.

4. You shift your focus.

When you go out to the world with a focus of: “I want. I need. I desire. I’m ready. Hello, universe, WHERE IS MY MAN?????!,” IT DOESN’T HAPPEN. Why? Quite simply because you’re putting the energy out there of lack. The energy that you don’t yet have it because you still desire it! Instead, when you sit back and shift your focus on loving yourself, you’re putting the energy out of being completely content with where you are. And not only that, you’re putting out extreme confidence that what you desire is on it’s way to you. By shifting your focus away from the desire and neediness and clinginess of a relationship towards YOURSELF and loving yourself and feeling completely content and happy with where you are and what you are doing NOW, you are sending the very important message to the universe that you already have everything that you need. And that is when the love of your life will appear. When you’re completely content with your life as it is. When you are completely in love with the awesomeness that you are.

5. You can’t give what you don’t have.

This point pulls them all together. And when you’re alone here is what you get:

  • an appreciation for who you are, and the ability to respond to your own BS thoughts and limiting beliefs and unravel where they came from and how they are getting in the way. And by appreciating your uniqueness, you are able to lovingly appreciate the partner that you are with.
  • a life filled with activities that you enjoy doing! And a partner who either enjoys similar activities or understands the beauty and health behind filled his life with what he enjoys, regardless of if they match his partner or not! And when you are filling your life with activities that give you joy and so is your partner…guess what? You’re both happy!
  • a deep love for your own feelings. And when you love yourself for who you are and all the diverse and deep feelings that you have, you’ll absolutely attract in a strong man who can appreciate and understand and handle your strong feelings. And as women, we have feelings that run deep. And shallow men cannot handle that. They want us to change/control our feelings to make them feel better. Instead, cherish your feelings. Honor your feelings. Love and respect your feelings and I guarantee you’ll attract in a man who revels in the beauty of your deep current of emotion.
  • confidence. When you can not only handle being alone but love and appreciate being by yourself, your own levels of confidence will soar! And there is nothing sexier than a confident woman who doesn’t NEED a man, and who is sure of herself and her wants. When you talk to men from a place of self-love and self-confidence, you’ll start to attract in some super high-quality men who also love themselves and are condiment in their purpose and place in life. And isn’t that the type of man you really want?? 

Girl, being alone is not a bad thing.

BEING ALONE IS A WONDERFUL THING!

Take a break from the dating game and learn to love and appreciate yourself first.

#DATEYOURSELF first and then you’ll attract in such a high quality man that is aligned with who you are that you’ll wonder why you ever settled for anything less!

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 8 – How to attract in Prince Charming in 2 Minutes

How to Attract Prince Charming to YOU 

IN ONLY 2 MINUTES A DAY!

In this video, I share the ONE TOOL that I use every single day.

STILL.

I used it every day for 4 weeks to attract in THE ONE.

And now I use it to attract to me wealth, abundance, happiness, my job, my house, everything!

THIS TOOL IS OBVIOUSLY A BIG DEAL.

And it’s a big deal because it works!

As mentioned in the video….

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 7 – Top 3 Tips to get the guy to ask YOU out (plus one bonus tip)

How would you like the exact guy who has caught your eye to come up to you and start the conversation?

And then to ask you out? 

In this weekends episode of Truth Tuesdays, I give you the exact tools to do just that!

For a guy who has feelings (which, um, hello, is pretty much every man), it is HARD to go up to an attractive woman and ask her out.

So, ladies, you HAVE to help them out, here!

If you’re interested in a man, you have to SHOW him that you’ve interested and give him the PERMISSION to come up to you and chat you up!

If you don’t…..

Well you are missing out on a lot of opportunities to start conversations with decent men.

In the video, I give you the top 3 ways to show a guy that you’re interested….so that he’ll come up to you, chat you up and ask you out!

One. Smile

Everyone looks so much more beautiful when they smile! And when you smile at a guy, you boost his confidence.

He thinks “hey, she’s cute. And waaaaaiiiiiit, she’s smiling at ME!”

 

Two. Make extended eye contact

This one is HUGE. And scary.

Make eye contact with a guy you’re interested in for at least 5 seconds. 

And smile!

That gives him the green-light to come up to you and start a conversation….even if it’s “Do I know you?”

 

Three. Ask for help

Every man likes to feel needed.

So allow him to help you in some type of way!

“Do you know the fastest way to get to….?”

“Do you know what is good here?”

“What do you suggest I order?”

“Can you reach that for me?”

You get the idea.

Allow him to feel like he is needed and necessary and he’ll instantly be much more attracted to a woman that “needs” him than  an independent woman who does not. 

 

Four. Create a little mystery

Don’t give it all up!

Don’t tell him all about you and your entire life’s story in your 5 minute meeting.

Instead, create an air of mystery and allow him to want more….to ask for more….and ultimately…

To ask you for a date!

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 6 – Your parents are the reason you’re still single

Yes, it’s your parents fault that you’re single. 

Don’t you just love some blunt truth?

Here’s why it’s your parents fault if you’re single (most likely)

We form our beliefs about the world when we are children.

We are looking around us and taking it all in.

We’re like little sponges.

And so….depending how daddy treated mommy and what mommy said to daddy, we believe it to be normal.

WE ASSUME THAT ‘THIS’ IS HOW A MAN TREATS A WOMAN AND ‘THIS’ IS WHAT ‘I’ BELIEVE ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND LOVE.

So, yes, it is your parents fault if you’re single if, for example, your Mom was telling you:

  • there are no good men out there
  • good men are hard to find
  • he’ll always leave you in the end
  • don’t ever get married; it’s so difficult

And on and on and on….

You see where I’m going here?

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IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT HOW YOU WERE RAISED OR WHAT YOUR PARENTS SAID OR THE CORRESPONDING BELIEF SYSTEMS YOU FORMED AS A RESULT. 

It IS your responsibility, however, now that you are aware of your amazing power of your belief systems, to create the life that you DO want.

OUR BELIEF SYSTEMS ARE STRONG. 

So strong in fact that we have created an entire reality based around our beliefs.

Our beliefs as to whether we are:

  • good enough
  • lovable 
  • worthy of a good man
  • worthy of a good job
  • worthy of happiness

You get the idea.

HERE’S WHAT YOU’VE GOT TO DO: 

  1. Take out a sheet of paper
  2. Write down everything you can remember in regards to how your parents treated each other. What they said. How they acted. Body language.
  3. Then write down everything you can remember in regards to other pertinent relationships – aunts, uncles, friends’ parents, grandparents, etc
  4. Now take out a second sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle.
  5. On the left side, write down all your limiting beliefs about relationships (for example: Men are hard to find. I’m not good enough for a good man. Strong women always stay single.)
  6. On the right side, now write a NEW belief that is going to empower you and get you one step closer to the love of your life (for example: Great men are all around me! I’m so amazing and lovely and the prize! It’s easy for a strong woman to find a strong man)
  7. And then, whenever any of the old beliefs try to make their way into your field of consciousness….PUSH THEM ASIDE.

Now it’s up to you to do the work.

YOU HAVE TO BE STRONGER THAN THE LIMITING BELIEFS OF YESTERDAY.

You can choose to have the love life of your dreams! You just have to want is MORE than the pain and hurt you’ve already experienced!

#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 5 – The #1 tool to manifest the love of your life

Are you a single lady who is tired and frustrated with being alone?

Are you ready to learn the #1 tool that I used on a daily basis in order to attract in my own personal prince charming? 

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It can be confusing with all the dating books out there filled with:

  • how-to land the guy of your dreams
  • what not-to-d0 on the first date
  • how to get any guy to ask you out!

You know, stuff like that.

Instead, allow me to show you the stuff that actually works.

The exact tool I used every single day for four weeks…

Until I attracted in the one!

Now, I’m using the SAME tool for my business, career and finances.

And so far…..so great!

[Don’t worry, you’ll be the first one to know when I make my first million 🙂 ]

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 4 – How to get a guy to COMMIT

How to Get a Guy To Commit!

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