How to Forgive your Ex and Why this Helps you ATTRACT Love (truth tuesdays ep 28)

Do you find it hard to forgive your ex? 

Do you still harbor resentment towards a past (or current) lover who has betrayed your trust? 

I hate to be the one to tell you so bluntly but you HAVE to let that go if you are going to actually be in a healthy and happy long-term relationship with the love of your life!!

Stick with me here, in the short video below I show you EXACTLY how to forgive someone who has betrayed your trust so that you can create space for a truly fulfilling relationship that gives you everything your heart craves for! 

Such as: safety, security, trust, happiness, love, desire, and fulfillment!


How to Forgive Someone Who Has Betrayed You


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5 Ways a Love Coach helps Y-O-U to find love

Are you looking for the ‘secret’ to a life filled with love, happiness and romance?! 

And yet, are you even a little bit apprehensive that true love exists, given the current divorce rates? 

Do you believe in the power of a positive example that can guide you and lead by example? 

Stick with me…. and allow me to answer your concerns, my dear.


I’ve had numerous people ask me what a love coach is. 

And it’s quite possible that before you ‘met’ me, you’d never heard of a love coach before!

In fact, I even had one older gentleman laugh out loud when I told him what I did! (upon further questioning, he said he laughed because he’d never heard of that as a profession before)

Quite simply, a love coach helps you to find love. 


But most women have it backwards. I’ll admit it, I had backwards for years, too!


They think that once they get the guy, THEN they’ll feel loved and adored and cherished. 


Am I right?! 

But here’s what I teach and this is why it works.





This is the exact opposite of what most women do. And honestly, why do you think over 50% of marriages end in divorce?
It’s because people are looking outside of themselves for love and validation. They are looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right to complete them, to save them, to fix them.
And that is the fasted way to D-I-V-O-R-C-E if I’ve ever heard one!

So, looking to know why a Love Coach could be exactly what you’re looking for in order to have a life filled with love and admiration and cherishing?! 

Of course you do!


One. Point out the blocks right in front of your eyes 


Have you ever misplaced something and spent hours looking for it? You turned all the drawers inside out, you checked your car at least 10 times and you went through all the pockets of your jeans? And then a friend/boyfriend/boss/mother walks into the room and immediately sees what you’ve been searching for?!


Of course you have!


We’ve all been there.


Have you heard the expression: “Not being able to see the forrest for the trees”?


It means that when you’re in the thick of it, it can be very hard to see the bigger picture.


Because a love coach has worked with tens, hundreds, and sometimes even thousands of clients, she has a pretty good idea of common blocks and limiting beliefs.


In fact, usually after the first consultation with a new client, I can tell them exactly what their biggest block to love is. 


Similar to how an athletic coach is going to be able to point out something wrong in your stance or your swing, a love coach is going to see quite clearly (from an outsiders point of view) what it is that you’re doing wrong.


Get it?


Trust your love coach.


She knows what she’s talking about. She’s unbiased and simply sees things that you cannot because you’ve lived with yourself and your quirks your entire life.


Two. You just hired your own personal cheerleader….go, team go! 


A love coach is your own personal cheerleader cheering you on to success! Where else in your life do you have someone who is 150% committed to your success and to finding an ideal partner?

Girlfriends are great, but let’s be honest here. Sometimes girlfriends don’t have all the time in the world to listen to your sob story.

Or – sometimes girlfriends don’t give the greatest advice: “You should totally sleep with him. He’s hot!”

And even though your mother loves you, she’s not qualified to give unbiased love advice. Most mothers don’t want their children to experience pain or hurt. So her advice is going to be based on how to protect you.

When you hire a love coach, you get someone that is going to boost up your self-esteem always. You get someone who is there to help you through thick and thin. A person who will NOT let you wallow in your sadness. A person who will NOT let you make excuses as to why you’re alone and allow you to live with them.

Oh no.

A love coach KNOWS that you are 100% meant for legendary love. And she is going to remind you of your awesomeness and your dreams of a love story to remember….




Sound good?!


Three. She leads by example


There’s an old saying that says “you’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.” 


So who are you hanging out with? 


  • Other single women who are also struggling to find romance?
  • Married couples who fight all the time?
  • A single mom who struggles to make ends meet?

These are extreme examples but the point I’m trying to make is this:


I’m going to show up 150% as the highest vibe person I can be. Not only for myself but for YOU, my dear client. 


Every single thing I teach, I’ve done.


Every single exercise, worksheet, meditation, writing exercise I have done 100s of times. No exaggeration.


I teach the practices that have worked for me.


So trust that I understand what you’re going through. And that I also have the exact tools necessary to get you to where you want to be.


Four. Mess to Success… I’ve been there! 


Similar to the point above….girl. I’ve been through it all in regards to love. I can look at my younger self and lovingly say: “what an idiot!” 


But I also know it was for a reason.

The more challenging our struggle is….

The harder the journey is…

The more people I can connect with and the greater the triumph will be!


Every good love story has some type of challenge, a battle, a journey to true love. 

I have one, too.


And as a result, I’ve accumulated a life-time of skills and tools that have worked for me and countless others!


It’s inspiring to know that your coach once had her own limiting beliefs and thought she wasn’t ‘good enough for love’ and despite those thoughts, she fought through it all until coming out on top!

If I can do it, so can you!


Five. Accountability Partner


This one is truly the most important way a love coach can help you find love.

It’s one thing to read books.


It’s another thing to write down goals.


But if you don’t actually TAKE ACTION on your dreams and desires, nothing will happen! 


You can fantasize and dream all day in your PJs on the couch…


But if you don’t actually leave the house, how do you expect to meet Prince Charming?! 


A love coach helps you to set achievable and realistic goals and then holds your little buns to the fire to ensure you accomplish what you set out to do.
And if ‘true love’ is the goal, allow me to give you a loving smack on the ass to ensure you accomplish that goal! 


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Knowing when it’s time to say “good-bye” to your partner (Truth Tuesdays Ep 27)

How do you know when it’s the time to lovingly say goodbye to the person you are with…..

Versus continuing to work at it? 

This is NOT an easy question to ask yourself and it’s even harder to say good bye to the man (or woman) that you love. 

But sometimes it’s not in the highest good for either of you to continue to stay together. 


Watch and find out if you should stay….or if you should go….!

I give you 3 tools to discern if it’s time to let go or if it’s time to roll up your sleeves and continue to put effort into your relationship. 

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When to Let Go of Your Partner- Truth Tuesdays with Love Coach Emyrald Sinclaire

Envision, Manifest, Create the Love of your life with these 3 questions (#TruthTuesdays Ep 25)

Would you like to learn how to ENVISION the love life of your wildest dreams!? 


Would you like to know without a doubt what is standing in your way to having the love you crave? 


Would you also like to know what you have to do and who you have to be in order to realize the love of your life!? 


There is a process called Envisioning that will give you the CLEAR answers to the questions above.


If you’re looking to consciously create the love life of your dreams, then Envisioning is the process meant for you! 


And if you’re familiar with visualization, this is an entirely different process! So watch and learn, my dear!


What would you GIVE UP for love? (#TruthTuesdays Ep 24)

I recently led a weekend workshop and asked the women to tell me their heart’s desire! 

This was easy for them and answers ranged from ‘Meeting an amazing man and getting married.’ to ‘living happily ever after with the love of my life!’ 

But then I asked a harder question: What would you be willing to GIVE UP for love? 

This stumped them. 


Would you be willing to give up your stubborn idea of what ‘the one’ looks like? Would you be willing to let go of your anger towards your mother? Would you be willing to give up your control issues? Would you be willing to let down your guard? 


ALL OF MY CLIENTS have blocks in their way to experiencing the love life they crave. 

That’s why it hasn’t happened for them yet. And it’s also why the come to me for help. 

Today, I’m sharing with you a powerful process to release the blocks you have that are getting in your way. 

It’s a simple process that will take you 15 minutes. Carve out some time to watch the video and follow the steps I outline for you! 

When the process is complete, you will be 100% more available and ready to attract the one to you! 


Truth Tuesdays with Love Coach Emyrald Sinclaire


The Eff-Yea! Vibration (truth tuesdays Ep 21)

This video got some HUGE traction when I went live in Facebook a couple weeks back. 

The fact is – keeping the ‘EFF-YEA!’ vibration is also really important if you want to create the life of your dreams and the love of your life. 

Which is why so many men and women who resonated with my message shared the video and it practically went viral.

And I’m sharing it with you now. Because, guess what? 

FUCK YEA is going to be your new favorite catch-phrase. 

Watch and find out WHY it’s so important. 

(I’m pretty sure it goes without saying, but I drop the F-bomb quite a few times in this video.)


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46 Questions That Will Help You Fall In Love With Your Partner Again

What would you think if I told you that in only 46 questions, you could fall in love with a stranger? 
Or re-fall in love with your significant other!? 
It’s EXACTLY how Ron and I fell in love…. 

I found this list online talking about certain questions that couples asked each other…and they fell in love!

I have long since forgotten the website and which study it was related to but the premise was that as two strangers go deeper and deeper into getting to know one another, they create a bond of intimacy. 
And in this particular study, going through the questions actually caused two strangers to fall in love and some to even get married! 
But maybe not.
Maybe we don’t actually spend enough time deepening our connection to our love; getting to know who they are and what makes them tick. 
When you feel heard and seen, a bond is formed. 
And get this, my partner and I did go through all the questions that were on that test over the course of a month or two (we were dating long-distance).
We finished the questions the same weekend we took  a trip together and told each other ‘I love you.’
The proof is in the pudding (yes, calling myself pudding, I guess). 
Try it for yourself and see what happens! 
The Rules of the Game
  1. One or two word answers are NOT allowed
  2. “You already know that” is not a valid answer
  3. Skipping the question is not allowed. 
  1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
  2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
  3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
  4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
  5. Would you ever serenade someone with a song? 
  6. Would you like to live to the age of 120? Why or why not?
  7. Name three things we have in common
  8. Name three things you like about me.
  9. Name three things you like about yourself. 
  10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be? 
  11. Would you rather have grown up with JUST your mom or JUST your dad? 
  12. If you could wake up tomorrow and be different in ONE way, what would it be? 
  13. If I had a crystal ball and could tell you one thing about your future, what would you like to know? 
  14. What is your favorite thing about the opposite sex? 
  15. What makes your heart melt and go gooey? 
  16. What is something you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it? 
  17. What’s your biggest regret in life? How can you remedy it? 
  18. If you could write a book on our life together, what would you title it? 
  19. If you lost one of your senses tomorrow, which one would you choose to lose and why? Which one would be the worst to lose and why? 
  20. What is your most treasured memory? 
  21. What is your most hurtful memory? 
  22. What are the traits of some of your best friends? 
  23. If you knew you were going to die in a year, what would you change about your life? 
  24. Make three ‘we’ statements that I would agree to as well. 
  25. In what ways has being in love made a positive impact on your life? 
  26. In what ways have you allowed fear to get in the way of the life of your dreams? 
  27. If we were best friends, instead of partners, what is one thing you’d tell me this week that you wouldn’t tell your spouse? 
  28. When was the last time you cried? Why? 
  29. Tell me something that inspires you! 
  30. When was the last time you got in a fight with someone? What happened? 
  31. What, if anything, is too serious to joke about? 
  32. Tell your partner your life story in 5 minutes. Tell it in a way that is different from what they might know. 
  33. Tell your partner your biggest heart-break story. Re-frame the story into how the pain brought you to where you are today and why you are grateful for it. 
  34. What is your favorite thing about me? 
  35. What is your favorite thing about yourself? 
  36. Are you close with your mom? What annoys you about your mom? What do you love about your mom? 
  37. Same questions as above about your father. 
  38. If you were to die tonight and couldn’t communicate to anyone, what would you want someone to know that you haven’t said yet? Why haven’t you said it? 
  39. If your house was on fire and you had time to grab 3 things, what would they be? 
  40. Of all the people in your family, who do you look up to the most? 
  41. Of all the people in your family, who do you wish you had a deeper connection with? 
  42. Of all the people in your family, whose death would bother you the most? 
  43. Share a personal problem with me and ask for my advice. 
  44. Share a personal problem with me and I’ll just listen and won’t offer a reply. 
  45. If I were to die unexpectedly, what would you like me to know that you have never said to me? 
  46. What would you like your legacy to be after you are dead and gone? 
For the finale- set a timer for 4 minutes and simply stare into your partner’s eyes without speaking. 

Trust me. This works. I can tell you from experience! 

Comment below how it goes for you. 
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What Women REALLY Want

Men – don’t you want to know what women want?!


Wouldn’t you just LOVE it if you could peak into their minds and finally figure out how to please us? 


Would it make your life easier if you had a guide as to how to act and what to say and what to do?! 


Of course it would!!


After interviewing hundreds of women and working privately with dozens I’ve found that there are certain aspects about men that women really crave in a partnership.


Let’s be real – every woman is different and is attracted to different things but there are some qualities that stay constant. Qualities like compassion, respect, sense of humor and morality.


Don’t believe me? Have a look at what real women are saying when asked about what qualities in a man attracts them:


I also personally interview about 30 women of various ages and backgrounds. Here are some of the highlights of what they had to say: 

“I want a man who adores and cherishes me. He’s strong and reliable and enriches my life. We have a good time together and simply enjoy each other’s company. He’s open in his body, mind and spirit. Mainly I just feel like I can be myself when I’m around him. I’m accepted and free and my best side comes out!” – S.

“I simply want a partner. Someone who I can work though anything with. We are best friends and love each other deeply.” – N.

” I want a strong and committed man. I want to feel supported emotionally and financially. I want to make money but I don’t want to HAVE to make money. I’d honestly like him to be the primary breadwinner.” – J.

“I want to get married. I want a man who is supportive and nice and will be by my side no matter what. I want a man who is confident and knows what he wants…and mostly ME!. I want to feel like I’m ‘good enough’ when I’m with him. Like I’m the center of his Universe. I’ve been hurt so many times by men. I just want love.” – K. 

“I want to get married and have babies with an amazing and supportive husband! I want to be able to pursue my dreams and passions and have him support me while I’m doing that. We are wonderful friends and I feel so amazing and excited when I’m with him. We travel and explore together and he’s financially secure on his own. He’ll love me and take care of me. I’m his Queen. He’s my king.” J.

As you can see, there are things that many women want in their man. The feeling of being supported and understood and simply accepted for who she is. And yes, the financial bit is important. Many woman don’t want to FEEL like they HAVE to make money. They’d rather the man takes care of them. 

Is it old fashioned? Yes and no. 

It goes back to masculine and feminine energy. And many women are in their feminine energy which means they want to FEEL GOOD and FEEL supported on all level. 

Many men in their masculine energy want to provide and take care of. So it really is a perfect combination when both partners are healthy and living true to their desires. 

Ladies – have anything you’d like to add? Comment below or even better, SHARE this article on social media so that MORE MEN can understand how to be a high-quality man to their lady!

Fellas –  women don’t really want much – just be your kind, compassionate, awesome self and she’ll notice you!

If you’re having some trouble attracting in the woman of your dreams, you’re not alone!


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30 Questions for Date Night besides “How was your day” – #truthtuesdays Ep 20

  • Is the romance fading after all these years?
  • Are you scared of slipping into the ‘friends zone’ with your lover?
  • Are you looking for something different to ask your lover than ‘how was your day’?


Don’t worry! I’ve been there.


Relationships take work to maintain where you’re at and also to grow individually and as a couple. 


Learn how some simple questions to your significant other on date night or at the end of the day can dramatically change your relationship! 

And if you’re single and dating, THESE questions will certainly allow you to STAND-OUT from the others that he/she may be dating!

You’ll be interesting and intriguing and leaving your date practically begging for a second date!​​​​


Ready for More?!

Here are some MORE questions to keep the romance alive and to keep you interested in one another and ALWAYS learning about each other and growing! 

30 questions to ask your date on date night

30 questions for date night to keep things interesting with your long term love

  1. What was one of the best gifts you’ve ever received and why? 
  2. If you could design your dream career, what would it look like? 
  3. If you could travel to one location that you haven’t been to yet, where would you go? 
  4. If you could spend the perfect afternoon ALONE, what would it look like? 
  5. If you could spend the perfect afternoon WITH ME, what would it look like? 
  6. What was the best vacation you ever had as a kid? 
  7. What would you like to DO more of in life but haven’t been? 
  8. Tell me about a New Years resolution that you were successful in keeping. 
  9. Tell me about a time you overcame a fear and how you did it. 
  10. Tell me about one of the happiest moments of your life! 
  11. What is something you used to believe that you don’t believe anymore? What do you believe instead? 
  12. What are three ways I could be a more loving and supportive partner for you? 
  13. How do you think I would answer the same question above? 
  14. What would you like MORE OF in our relationship? 
  15. If you could quit your job for a year and you had $100,000 in savings, what would you do? 
  16. If you have to giveaway $100,000 in the next 24 hours, how would you do so? 
  17. What are three things that really inspire you? 
  18. What makes you cry? 
  19. What are two big goals you still want to accomplish in your life and why? 
  20. In what area of life do you feel like you struggle to find a healthy balance? 
  21. In what area of your life do you feel like you excel and could be a mentor to others? 
  22. What do you think are your three greatest strengths? 
  23. Who is another couple that we know that inspires you and why? 
  24. What would you like us to strengthen together as a couple? 
  25. If you could change one thing about your day, what would it be? 
  26. If I could magically change one thing about your day, what would you like it to be and why? 
  27. What is one of your regrets in life? What would you have done differently? 
  28. Did you ever say to yourself “I’ll never be like so and so” and then find out that you’re just like them? In what ways and how? 
  29. What’s ONE THING you’d like to work on for self improvement for yourself? 
  30. How can I support you in being happier this week? 


#TruthTuesdays Ep 19

Looking for a good man who worships the ground you walk on and treats you like a queen?

Would you be THRILLED to be with a man who actually cares about hearing your feelings and emotions and not only that, he wants you to FEEL GOOD as much as possible? 

Do you want a strong man who can handle your instability at times, your crazy emotions and all the wildness that makes a woman a woman?! 

You do!? 


You are in the right place if you want to learn how to attract to you a man who treats you like a Queen!

Do you have any experience with a man who treats you like a queen and how did you attract him in? 

Or do you have any questions on the topic? Leave them below!!