Author: emyralds21

3 Dating Secrets for 2018

“Online dating sucks!”

“I can’t meet anyone decent online.”

“There are no good men in my town.” 

Do any of these sound familiar? 

Maybe you’ve heard yourself say these things outloud lately? 

Not to fear – dating in 2018 is really not that hard. 

 

Allow me to break it down with three little secrets that I share with all of my clients.

(I also share how men are like dogs…but in a good way…in that they are easy to please and can be trained….sorry dudes.)

Looking to Find a GREAT man yourself? Snag a copy of my wildly popular e-book “Manifest Your Soulmate in 21 Days” and start down the path towards Happily Ever After!

xo

Emyrald 

 

P.S. Be sure to like and share if you enjoyed the content. You know your single girlfriends want to learn this information as well! 

How to BE a Feminine Woman

I tell my ladies to BE in their feminine energy in order to attract in a masculine man. 

But what does that mean and how to do you DO it? 

In this video I dig into masculine and feminine energy and how to do this ONE THING so that he feels compelled to be YOUR man and CHASE you and PROTECT you.  If you’re a powerful woman who finds herself taking the chase and as as result chasing after the wrong men, then this video is for you. 

Stop! Don’t sleep with him!

Crap….how did I find myself naked…in a hot tub… with this incredibly cute Australian? 

 

I had JUST made the *promise* to myself to honor my body and no longer sleep around. 

I had had ENOUGH of men using me for sex, thank you kindly…

And I wanted a different man this time around… someone who would…
 
– well, stick around after rolling around in the sheets, for one thing
– but also a man who cared about me, and wanted to learn about my hopes and dreams and become my support system and think I was the cats meow!

So why did that all go out the window?

1. His irresistible Australian accent
2. I was drunk (damnit)

Luckily, this story was the VERY LAST TIME I slipped…

Then I really did hold tight to my promise to stay abstinent until I met the man that would become my future partner.

And with him, we waited six whole months to have sex!

Today in #TruthTuesdays, I want to share with you WHY you should NOT sleep with a man if you want him to fall in love…and ultimately stick around. 


And no, it’s not all emotional. There are actually BIOLOGICAL reasons why you fall in love when you sleep with a man and become attached.

Click below to watch and learn!

 

 

P.S. If you’d like to REALLY learn about the differences between men and women and become MAGNETIC to your SOULMATE… I highly suggest you check out my signature group coaching program – Single to Soulmate! (Doors close soon!) 

 

 

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The #1 thing men look for in a woman (that most women lack)

When polled, did you know that there was ONE BIG THING that most men find attractive in a woman? 

And this ONE BIG THING is the thing that many women are struggling with. 

Watch the video to learn my top 3 ways to become this woman naturally. 

 

Join us for Flirt Like a Goddess Training! Starts March 28th, 2018! 

 

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3 Flirting Techniques any Goddess can Master

Do you want to get the guys to come up to you without you having to chase them? 

And more so, would you like the CUTE GUY YOU ARE INTERESTED in to come up to you from across the room?

Great! I thought you’d never ask. 🙂 ​​​​

 

One of the common reasons women join my facebook group, Manifest Your Soulmate, is because they are looking for the tools in order to become a better woman who believes in her self-worth. And as a result, attract in a freaking fantastic man, if I say so myself! 

What are the tools I teach my clients in order to raise their self-confidence and actually believe they are the prize so that they can attract in the love of their life?

 

Here are my favorite three. 

 

 

1. The Supermodel Walk

Now before you go on hating, listen up first. This actually has nothing to do with what you wear or what you look like. Instead, it’s all about the energy you are giving off. And think about any lady (or man, for that matter) on the cat-walk. They OWN IT. And that’s the energy I want you to exude. The next time you walk into the room (any room) you are going to pretend you are on the catwalk. You are going to embody your inner super model and STRUT IT. 

It really is all about the ENERGY you are giving off and trust me, when you walk into a place like you own it, people will notice! 

No more looking down at the ground or trying to hide in a corner. For just 15 seconds, you are going to pretend like you are the cat’s meow and that everyone’s eyes are on you…and for a good reason, girl! 

 

2. The Smile…and Wink. 

This next one is a bit scary for many people: 

 

You are going to catch the eye of a stranger… smile at him…and wink! 

 

Omg. Did the sky just fall down? Did hell just freeze over? 

 

Nope, you just learned a simple flirting technique that shows self-confidence and humor. And even if you don’t (yet) feel like you have the confidence to pull this off, allow this to be a little exercise in ‘fake it til you make it.’ Trust me, it’s a great way to show that you don’t take yourself too seriously and that you have the cajones to go after what you want. Although in this case, you are simply making the offer of come and get me, boyzz! 

 

 

3. Pretend You Just Slept with Brad Pitt 

I know, you might think I’m delusional and asking you to be the same. But go with me here. Imagine what you would be thinking and what you would feel like if you actually did just hop in the sack with Brad Pitt (or your fave Hollywood crush). You’d be flying high, on top of the world, and pretty much knowing that you’re the cat’s meow! 

 

You’d have the confidence to smile and flirt at the cute boy in the bar. You’d most likely chat up the barista at Starbucks. You’d be opening doors for strangers and probably dancing down the street singing to yourself, am I right? 

 

So, if you woke up and played a little game with yourself called “I just slept with Brad Pitt” how would that change how you go about your day? 

 

No, really, think about it right now, how would it change your day? 

 

THAT is the energy I want you to go out into the world with for just 24 hours! High as a kite. And just watch… how magically the men are attracted to you! 

 

And that’s a wrap for today, lovely. 

 

 

Why Law of Attraction is NOT helping you manifest your Love (Truth Tuesdays)

What do you do when Law of Attraction isn’t working to manifest your love and you’re starting to get a bit impatient and worried that he’ll never show up? 

 

Watch below! 

13 Men (and 1 bi woman) Tell All: What’s REALLY beautiful about a woman

What do men REALLY want in a woman? 

What makes a woman’s beauty noticeable to a man? 

I bet it’s not what you think…

 

Let’s be real here, there are some crazy scary statistics out there focused around body images.  Crazy shit like: 

 

  • Approximately 91% of women are unhappy with their bodies and resort to dieting to achieve their ‘ideal body shape.’ Why? Because only 5% of women naturally possess the body type often portrayed by models, superstars and actresses in the media. 5%!!! And I would wager that some of those 5% live in underdeveloped countries and actually suffer from malnutrition! 
  • 53% of 13 year-old American girls are unhappy with their bodies! (Um, WTF?) This number grows to 78% by the time girls reach 17. But here’s the real shocker: 95% of people with eating disorders are between the ages of 12 and 25.
  • 80% of 10-year-old girls have dieted. 90% of high school junior and senior women diet regularly. And finally, young girls are more afraid of becoming fat than they are of nuclear war, cancer, or losing their parents!

 

Woah? Did anybody else just stand up and exclaim, “What the fuck media portrayal of beauty,” or is that just me? 

 

Regardless, as a self love activist, I have made it my personal mission to help women see their REAL beauty no matter their shape or size. 

 

And I’ve polled 13 men and 1 bi-woman to bring you the following results of what is REAL BEAUTY in a woman. 

(Also, if you haven’t read it…find out what women first notice in a man by clicking here…)

 

David: Her ability to effortlessly intuit and fulfill all of my needs.

James: Her heart. PERIOD. 

Hans: Outside and Inner Beauty  

Derek:Their taming qualities us filthy animals require to be better individuals, lol

Karlos: Passion for living and sense of adventure for me

Shane: Sanity. Aactually, just enough sanity.
Jay: Her desire and ability to take complete responsibility for her emotions and actions…(this also tends to contribute to the beautiful smile upon her face)
Tyler: Face.
Jeff: Commitment. I say this because i feel if you are truly commited to something, husband, wife, life partner, career, or positive energy you are the girl for me
Tex: Her intelligence. But, sadly, that won’t overcome an unfortunate body or face. We guys aren’t wired that way
Matthew: Intuitive wisdom 
Shivaya: the curves around the belly
Sophia: I’m going to answer this bc I’m bi. Women who aren’t afraid of being themselves. Also, women who have a sense of humor and communication skills. 
Phillip: Confidence 

 

As you can see, there are so many attributes that men (and women) find beautiful about you ladies. And it doesn’t have to do with your physical looks. Instead, it’s the energy you are putting off. It’s your passion. It’s your wisdom. It’s your confidence.

 

So the next time you aren’t feeling good enough or sexy enough, read the words above and remember that it’s so much more that makes a real woman beautiful! 

 

And finally, if you haven’t watched this video before, it’s time: 

 

 

“No wonder our perception of Beauty is distorted.” 

 

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Men: Here’s what women REALLY notice about you…

Men: Let’s be real. I bet at one time or another you wished you looked like this because then ALL the pretty ladies would be into you, right? 

Turns out, when polled, most ladies don't actually notice the 'looks of a man' when he walks up to her. 

 

Instead, these are the things that women notice first thing when a man walks up to her (to ask her for her number because she's just so darn cute.) 

(And find out what men think makes a woman REALLY BEAUTIFUL by clicking here to read!) 

 

Danelle: His facial expression and his height 

Anna: Height, does he have kind eyes and is he smiling?

Michele: His eyes and then his voice.

Nicole: height, eyes, smile (or lack of)

Kimberly: If he has a weapon or not.

Maggie: Probably how tall he is

Betty: His energy

Clair: The way he walks. And his energy

Kari: Eyes and smile.

Kelly: His face 

Bethany: His walk and how he carries himself (is he looking at the ground, phone, people around him) then I notice height of course and chest/shoulders ?

Stacey: Eyes

Donna: Scent, expression on face

Debra: Way he walks..and yes, Looks!!

Joia: His posture

Molly: His eyes and his smile 

Megan: Where his eyes are looking and the curvature/expression on his lips. 

Sara: Eyes, smile

Rena: How close he gets. 

Dorothy: What he's wearing, height, the way his face is put together. 

Megan: How he carries himself

Jenny: If he's aware of himself. If he's paying attention to his surroundings.

Ashley: posture 

Melissa: All depends. Posture, dress or "style" he has, smile, movements, eye contact. Over all "vibe" he carries, it isn't about the brand of clothes for example.. instead it is the whole energy, presence then once he has arrived- it is the quality of the conversation, how his mind works, his humor etc 

Wahkeena: vibes

Kathleen: His eyes and energy vibration

Peggy:His eyes 

Beth: Confidence, eye contact, sense of warmth or not, presence or not 

Lacey: His confidence (or lack there of) then probably height/smile

Alyssa: How he carries himself. Its in the walk and his eyes that get me. If he gives me that look and I’m into him...damn watch out. 

Beth: his heart 

 

Gentlemen, as you can see, the grand majority of women do not even notice your physique when you're walking up to her. Instead, it's your eye contact, it's the smile on your face, and it's the overall energy and presence that you present that a woman is going to notice. 

 

Here's my suggestion for walking up to a woman and catching her attention and (hopefully) landing her number: 

  1. Make eye contact 
  2. Smile 
  3. Stand tall and act confident 
  4. Be open and honest. Women can notice a man's vibes from a mile away so be genuine with her. If you noticed her amazing gorgeous hair, tell her that. If you can't help but notice that she has a beautiful smile, let her know. We women are crafty creatures and we will notice if you are not really present, if you are marking shit up and using 'a line' or low in the self confidence department. 

 

And at the end of the day, if she's not interested, at least you got the courage to talk to a pretty woman that caught your eye and you most likely made her day by being genuine and offering a real compliment! 

 

Ladies: anything else to add? Please comment below! 

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