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Hopeless Romantic to Happily Ever After (#TruthTuesday Ep 38)

Are you a hopeless romantic? 

Do you cry during all the 'boy meets girl - boy loses girl - boy trumps over all to win over girl' type of movies or books?

If so - stick with me because I was just (and still am) like you! 

There's nothing wrong with being a Hopeless Romantic...

Except...

When it's getting in your way to your Happily Ever After. 

Which is exactly why I created a 21 day course with the Daily Om called "Hopeless Romantic to Happily Ever After" and you can get it for as little as $10! 

Also - I'm sharing with you three important steps to take TODAY to shift you out of "hopeless romantic" and into "true love."

Watch below and take notes! 

Interested in the course with the Daily Om?

Click the button to gift it to yourself or someone you know that could use it! 

Can you have it all? Both the Career of your Dreams & the Love of Your Life? (#truthtuesdays Ep 37)

Can you realistically have BOTH the business of your dreams AND the love of your life? 

It’s a question that many of my clients have asked me. In fact, I’ve even have some women tell me that they’d rather build their empire first and THEN focus on finding the love of their life!  What?  My man was the only reason I was able to build my cafe years back. Without his support, I would have fizzled out after all those long days, nights and weekends.  So this week, I had a conversation with my colleague and friend, Gaelle Lecourt. She’s a freedom and business coach and she helps women to create financial freedom by showing them the steps and processes to build their dream career allowing them a life of freedom.  

Yes, you can have it all. 

  You can have both love and a successful career that you run on your own terms.  Make sure to watch and stay for the whole thing because we cover: 
  • Many women entrepreneurs are saying they have no time to find Mr Right because they are too busy building their business. Why is it important to find more time in their life as a female entrepreneur, especially at the beginning when you start your business?
  • How to find more time in your life for your business, especially if you’re a start-up and especially if you’re also searching for love!
  • Why it is important to create systems in business and in life if you truly want to have it all!  
  • Have no idea where to start in regards to a business of your own? Here’s how you can create your own mini-system! 
  • Where can you find Gaelle?
  • Check out her website, stalk her on Instagram (she has some GREAT content there), or ask to join her Facebook group (you’ll find me there as well!)
  • Interested in starting a business of your own? Click here for Gaelle’s generous gift which is “How to leave your 9-5 and start your online coaching business with confidence.”  
  • Yes, you CAN have it all!

Yes, you CAN have it all! - Emyrald Sinclaire, Love Coach

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The 5 Obvious Perks of Dating Older Men (and why they drive me insane sometimes, too)

My man is 13 years older than me. 

*GASP* 

But here’s the real deal: I’ve always dated older men. 

In high school, I was a freshman and he was a junior. I was a sophomore and he was a freshman in college. 

In college, he was 28!

After I graduated college, he was in his late 30s. 

In my later 20s, they would be in their early 40s. 

And now at the ripe old age of 31, he is 44. 

For a while, I tried to date men my age. But it never lasted very long and it can be summed up in one word: 

M A T U R I T Y 

And boys my age simply didn’t have it. (Looking to rope your own Cowboy? Check out my programs page to Manifest Love.)

Yes, there are pros and cons to dating men my age or not my age and I’d like to run them by you so you can decide for yourself if dipping into the silver foxes dating pool is something that you’d like to experience. 🙂 

 

5 Reasons Why Dating Older Men is a Great Thing to Do 

1. They have money. And I don’t mean this in a superficial way. But I simply mean that they don’t stress out over having to buy things. Like food or toilet paper. This usually means they are financially responsible and own their own house and a car that doesn’t breakdown every other time they pick you up for a date. 

2. They are gentlemenly. Ok, not all of them. But at least the ones I have dated understand the old-fashioned way of treating a lady like a lady. He opens my door. He offers me his jacket when I’m cold. He gets me a glass of water when I’m thirsty instead of saying ‘go get it yourself.’ You get the idea. It’s nice to be treated like a queen. (Speaking of which. I suggest you check my free how-to guide called Land Prince Charming. It worked for me. It can work for you, too!) 

3. Older men are better lovers. Truly. They last longer and know how to appreciate the female body. They are ‘givers’ more than they are ‘receivers’ and they are ‘experienced’ in the land of the female curves, hills and valleys. 

4. They have purpose and drive. Older men usually are past the ‘play’ phase in life where they are stumbling in and out of bars with zero direction in life. Instead, they have grown up and have figured out what they want to do with their lives and are usually going out there and ‘getting it’ which is extremely sexy. 

5. They are mature. Wait, did I say that already? It bears repeating. Older men are actually grown up. And they know what they want out of life. They understand how to treat women (especially their lovers and mothers). They don’t play games (usually). Oh and get this, it takes men a whole lot longer to mature than us women, wouldn’t you agree? 

 

5 Reasons Why Dating Older Men Can Be Really F***ing Challenging 

1. Sometimes they can get all ‘I’m older than you so I have more life experience and I’ve been through this already‘ type of shit and it drives you insane! I get it. You’re older. But it does not equate with wiser. And guess what? Sometimes we need to go through our own shit in order to ‘figure it out.’ 

2. Many older men have been married or have kids and aren’t interested in doing that again. Make sure you get clear on what YOU want and ask him what HE wants before diving in. 

3. A lot of them would rather stay at home and work on the house or play with their cars (like my guy) instead of going out to meet friends, have drinks and explore. #getsOld

4. You get annoyed with  all his friends saying things like “What? You’re only _____? I could be your mother!” or “Robbing the cradle, huh man? Good for you!” Or even worse, when he mother says “She’s too young for you. She’s got too much energy. She’ll end up leaving you.” #hurtful #SheReallySaidThat

5. His daughter/son is only a couple years younger than you and/or his parents are your grandparents age! That’s hard on the ego. But if you can look past it, it’s not really a big deal. Humans are humans and I promise you, there are weirder situations out there. For example, my last boyfriend was a year older than my step-mother! It’s not that he was THAT much older. It was that he was older and my stepmom is a decade younger than my father. Weird. But, whatever. 

A long time ago, I decided that men took about 10 additional years to mature to ‘adult age’ than us women did. So as long as I was dating a decade older, I’d be dating my equal. 

Call me egotistical but it’s true. And sadly, sometimes the men in their 40s that I dated still didn’t have their shit together. 

Turns out, age isn’t everything. 

 

What do YOU think? Have any thoughts/feelings/experience on the subject? Comment below and make sure to share the love on Facebook!

Connect with the Divine & Your Intuition (Truth Tuesdays Ep 36)

 

Do you ever find yourself wondering…

 

  • How do I listen to my intuition? 
  • What is the best path for me? 
  • How do I connect with the Divine? 
  • What is the best decision for the highest good of all involved? 

 

These are BIG questions and important ones to be asking yourself on a daily basis. 

 

And if you’re on the path of spiritual development and growth, like I am, I also understand that it can be very challenging to know what is your INNER TRUTH speaking…and what is simply your monkey mind or ego talking. 

 

This exercise I share with you today is a very simple exercise meant to help you connect to the Divine and to hear your Inner Truth. 

 

 

Feel free to leave your comments below and let me know how it goes for you!

(Explicit) #truthtuesdays ep 35 interview with Gillian Sky Walker – Love & Relationship Coach

You know the one thing I LOVE most about having my own business? 

It’s that I get to run the show and do whatever the hell (or heavens, for that matter) I want to do! Meaning, I get to swear when I want to. And in this week’s edition of #TruthTuesdays, Gillian Sky Walker and I swear. A lot. 

  • So, if you’re offended by words that start with F and end with K…
  • If you really don’t care to hear synonyms for crap, poo or poopy…
  • And if you think multiple marriages is something that cannot be forgiven…

Then do NOT watch this week’s episode of #TruthTuesdays. 

Because Gillian and I are real and raw and we drop the F-Bomb. Multiple times. Gillian also confesses intimate details about the failure of her first…and second…marriages. 

 

We have a lot of TRUTH to share with you this week if you’re looking to score life-long love and intimacy and it can be nicely emphasized by cursing a bunch and shaking you out of your stupor! 

You hear me? 

 

May I present to you Gillian Sky Walker

– Life Coach. Yoga Teacher. Stripper. Shaman. Love is the answer. And I can help you find it.  –

Taken directly from her Facebook profile page. (Which if you haven’t Facebook stalked her yet, do it now.)

You can also get some help (if you’re single) with your online dating profile by cruising over to her website – Profile Pimpers. Yup. How cool is she? 

Gillian is a Love and Relationship Coach and I LOVE having her as a friend and presenting her decades of knowledge onto you now, dear reader and watcher. 

 

Just so you know what you're getting yourself into when you click play above, let me give you a little bit of what you're going to catch on the video. 

  • www.ProfilePimpers.com - optimize your online profile to land dates with high quality individuals (minute 1) 
  • Gillian first marriage and her run-in (and out) with a certain religious organization (minute 3)
  • Gillian second marriage, red flags, horrific dating experiences and Peter Pans, "washed up goods" at 31 years old and why you should 'trust your fucking intuition' (minute 4) 
  • Soul searching, 'WTF am I doing?' moments, plus the other F word (FEAR) keeping her (and you!) in relationships that aren't meant to be (minute 5) 
  • The Peru Decision aka Ayahuasca aka 'the Mind Fuck' and leading to a lot of throwing up, leaving her second marriage and finding her true 'soulmate' (minute 6) 
  • Over-giving, the 'shell of a person' = needs not getting met (minute 8) 
  • How to find your power again (minute 11) 
  • Make decisions from a place of __________ (*hint - has to do with self-love) (minute 13) 
  • The "F-You Power" and "F-Yeah Vibration" (minute 14)
  • How to find your way back to yourself (minute 16)
  • THIS is the best way to start your day to set yourself up for success (minute 17)
  • Challenges and perks of a long distance relationship (minute 19)
  • How incredibly important __________ is to the success of a soulmate relationship (minute 20) 
  • What to look for in a life partner (minute 22) 
  • Advice for all couples to keep the magic alive (minute 26) 
  • Advice for all single women looking to land Prince Charming (minute 27) 

 

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6 Q’s to Ask on a 1st Date to Find a High-Quality Partner

Finding a high-quality partner can be hard.

Where do they all hide? 

 

If you’ve been focusing on the superficial things such as the money in his bank account, his height or his looks, girl, you are focusing upon the wrong thing! 

 

There are SIX essential questions one must ask on a first date if you want to find out if the person sitting across from you is HIGH-QUALITY SOULMATE material! 

 

Watch below and take notes. 

 

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six questions to ask on a first date

Ask Your Partner *this* if you want to stop fighting about the little things

Jerry and Pamela were in a horrible spot in their relationship. 

Jerry had anger issues. 

And he would BLOW UP over the smallest things. 

Why? 

He wouldn’t talk about the little things that bothered him until enough had piled up to bother him and then – bam! The smallest thing would set him off. 

It got to the point where his wife didn’t want to bring up anything with her husband for fear of how he would react. (Can you relate at all?)

This is very common.

 

Ron and I even experience this sometimes. 

 

He allows a bunch of smaller annoyances to pile up but he keeps it all inside…like little pebbles piling up on a scale. It’s fine for a while, but one day, the scale is going to tip over. 

And it usually leaves one partner thinking “wtf just happened here?” 

 

So what can you do if you’re in this situation?

 

Here’s an exercise I’ve given to a LOT of my couples and it’s one that Ron and I have added to our daily routine in order to connect on a deeper level, learn more about what the other person enjoys, plus it helps us to avoid what pisses the other person off. 

 

Find out these two small questions to ask your partner below and how to incorporate them into your daily routine in order to experience feeling safety of being yourself and expressing your feelings in your relationship! 

Also – if you’re looking to reconnect with your partner (if the sparks seem to have faded away), I suggest the Relationship Reconnection! It’s a free 3 part video series designed to help bring love and intimacy back to the forefront of your relationship again! 

Sneak Peak from my New Book! An exercise to INCREASE your self love

I’m super duper excited to share with you an excerpt from my book! 

I’m snuggled away in Costa Rica enjoying the mountains and the clouds and the ocean and the sand…all the while drawing inspiration from all the beauty around me to write a book on how to manifest (and keep) soulmate level love! 

If that topic is something that interests you, then you’re going to love the exercise I share in this snippet from my book! 

Want to learn even MORE about how to Manifest Love? Click the link below to get on the waiting list for Destination:Soulmate! 

>>> Destination: Soulmate 

How to GET OVER your trust issues so you can have Happily Ever After (Truth Tuesdays)

I’ve never been cheated upon. 

 

Thank god.

 

But my partner, unfortunately, has experienced the gut-wrenching pain of a significant other NOT being faithful. 

According to “Infidelity Statistics”

“It is estimated that roughly 30% to 60% of all married individuals (in the United States) will engage in infidelity at some point during their marriage… And these numbers are probably on the conservative side, if you consider that close to half of all marriages end in divorce (people are more likely to stray as relationships fall apart”

Yuck.

That means at least half of you who are reading this have engaged in infidelity or have been cheated on! 

So – if that is you, how do you tell your partner that you have trust issues? 

And more importantly, how do you GET OVER your insecurities already!? 

Find out by watching!

And make sure you do the following exercises I talk about in the video: 

1. Write your Painful Love Story and then shift it to become the HERO in your life, not the VICTIM

2. Write your Letters of Forgiveness and BURN them, baby! 

 

For those of you who are looking for clear, open, honest and conflict-free communication with your significant other, check out my Conflict to Conscious Communication course!! 

It’s a MUST for anyone looking to remove arguing, drama and fights from there relationship for good!

What the Original “Badass” could teach YOU about Love

Ahh! Amazing story of how I, Emyrald Sinclaire, manifested meeting one of my BIGGEST mentors! 

We all have our heroes – and Jen Sincero is one of MY personal heroes. She is self help guru combined with your sarcastic best friend rocking out to Led Zeppelin. 

And I manifested meeting her! 

 Love Coach Emyrald Sinclaire

How did I do it?

It’s the same damn amazing powerful process that I teach you every single week! 

One: Desire it
Two: Have unwavering faith that ‘it’ is going to happen
Three: Take inspired action towards your goal on a daily basis

 

I’d been looking forward to Jen’s book signing for a couple of months now, since her book tour was released. My desire became strong to meet her and share with her what an influence she has been on my life and my coaching career. And there was NO DOUBT in my mind that I was going to meet her at the book signing. 

 Love Coach Emyrald Sinclaire

However….an amazing miracle happened that I could NOT have planned (which is what I’m always telling you when you’re manifesting the love of your life. Don’t worry about the HOW! Just focus upon what you want and the FEELINGS of getting it). 

 

Yesterday, I woke up and my personal mantra was:
“I’m going to meet Jen Sincero today! I’m going to meet Jen Sincero today! I’m going to meet Jen Sincero today!”

 

I was pumped.

I was more excited than a kid in a candy store who’s grandma had just told him he can have whatever he wants! 

Now, here is the lesson that deserves to be hit home. 

 

I cannot stress enough how IMPORTANT it is that you go about your daily life and do your damnest to feel happy every single day! 

 

So yesterday I’m going about my day as planned: clients, an interview, lunch with my man, personal care session with an amazing healer, another client, dinner with a girlfriend and THEN the book signing…aka meeting my hero, Jen. 

And guess what happens somewhere in the MIDDLE of me going about my day and following my heart?! 

BAM! 

I meet Jen. She’s getting a session at the exact same place I’m getting a session at. 

 

YOU. CAN’T. PLAN. THIS. SHIT. 

 

Which is what I tell you every day about meeting the love of your life. Don’t worry about the HOW. That’s the role of the Universe. You just go about being so fricken happy and overjoyed with your life that you can barely contain from peeing yourself. 

And when I met Jen, oh man, I almost pee’d myself. 

Although, I think I did a great job at composing myself and settled instead for a hug, a couple of compliments, and a request for a photo. 

 

Wanna hear some wisdom from the original Badass herself, Jen Sincero? 

 Love Coach Emyrald Sinclaire

 

Here’s what she had to share yesterday and I write it down here today to share with you all because it’s so damn important and it’s also really fricken simple AND not only that, her advice is going to help you manifest the love you desire. 

 

  • Never give up. Persistence is the key to manifesting your heart’s desires. 
  • Follow your fears (More on that later)
  • To change your life… you have to be willing to be uncomfortable over and over again (meaning, it might not be easy to go out on ‘dates’ by yourself….but it’s practically impossible to meet someone when you’re out with 6 of your drunk girlfriends)
  • To be rich, you have to want it more than anything else in your life (meaning if you want the LOVE of your life…. you have to WANT IT more than you want anything else in your life…more than your comfort zone, more than you desire to be comfy in your jammies watching a movie on a Saturday night, you hear me?)
  • Hire a coach. If you’re been broke for 40 years (or in your case, single for longer than you can remember and dating losers that make you want to become a nun), your ‘plan’ obviously isn’t working. 
  • Your fears are your compass – if it scares you, do it! (I always say that your desires are your compass towards your greatest life ever! But she brings up a good point. In order to grow you have to stretch yourself beyond your present comfort zone. Only THEN will you experience something that is radically different than what you are living right now)
  • Don’t ‘shrink yourself’ to appease someone else. Never stop growing into who you’re meant to be. 
  • You have to have a healthy relationship with money for it to stick around. (Or in the case of love, you HAVE to have a healthy relationship of LOVING yourself before you can ever expect someone else to love you and stick around and treat ya good!)
  • Own your worth. aka Love yo’self. 

 

Looking to learn how to LOVE YO’SELF so you attract in the LOVE of your life?! It’s exactly what I teach in my ManifestHim program.

And if you haven’t read it yet – Manifest your Love in 21 Days – is my super popular guide that has been PROVEN to get serious marriage proposal in as little as days?! Sound too good to be true? Try it for yourself and find out!