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46 Questions That Will Help You Fall In Love With Your Partner Again

What would you think if I told you that in only 46 questions, you could fall in love with a stranger?

Or re-fall in love with your significant other!?

It’s EXACTLY how Ron and I fell in love….

I found this list online talking about certain questions that couples asked each other…and they fell in love!

I have long since forgotten the website and which study it was related to but the premise was that as two strangers go deeper and deeper into getting to know one another, they create a bond of intimacy.

And in this particular study, going through the questions actually caused two strangers to fall in love and some to even get married!

Cray-cray!?

Maybe.

But maybe not.

Maybe we don’t actually spend enough time deepening our connection to our love; getting to know who they are and what makes them tick.

When you feel heard and seen, a bond is formed.

And get this, my partner and I did go through all the questions that were on that test over the course of a month or two (we were dating long-distance).

We finished the questions the same weekend we took a trip together and told each other ‘I love you.’

The proof is in the pudding (yes, calling myself pudding, I guess).

Try it for yourself and see what happens!

The Rules of the Game

One or two word answers are NOT allowed
“You already know that” is not a valid answer
Skipping the question is not allowed.

Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
Would you like to be famous? In what way?
Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
Would you ever serenade someone with a song?
Would you like to live to the age of 120? Why or why not?
Name three things we have in common
Name three things you like about me.
Name three things you like about yourself.
If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
Would you rather have grown up with JUST your mom or JUST your dad?
If you could wake up tomorrow and be different in ONE way, what would it be?
If I had a crystal ball and could tell you one thing about your future, what would you like to know?
What is your favorite thing about the opposite sex?
What makes your heart melt and go gooey?
What is something you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
What’s your biggest regret in life? How can you remedy it?
If you could write a book on our life together, what would you title it?
If you lost one of your senses tomorrow, which one would you choose to lose and why? Which one would be the worst to lose and why?
What is your most treasured memory?
What is your most hurtful memory?
What are the traits of some of your best friends?
If you knew you were going to die in a year, what would you change about your life?
Make three ‘we’ statements that I would agree to as well.
In what ways has being in love made a positive impact on your life?
In what ways have you allowed fear to get in the way of the life of your dreams?
If we were best friends, instead of partners, what is one thing you’d tell me this week that you wouldn’t tell your spouse?
When was the last time you cried? Why?
Tell me something that inspires you!
When was the last time you got in a fight with someone? What happened?
What, if anything, is too serious to joke about?
Tell your partner your life story in 5 minutes. Tell it in a way that is different from what they might know.
Tell your partner your biggest heart-break story. Re-frame the story into how the pain brought you to where you are today and why you are grateful for it.
What is your favorite thing about me?
What is your favorite thing about yourself?
Are you close with your mom? What annoys you about your mom? What do you love about your mom?
Same questions as above about your father.
If you were to die tonight and couldn’t communicate to anyone, what would you want someone to know that you haven’t said yet? Why haven’t you said it?
If your house was on fire and you had time to grab 3 things, what would they be?
Of all the people in your family, who do you look up to the most?
Of all the people in your family, who do you wish you had a deeper connection with?
Of all the people in your family, whose death would bother you the most?
Share a personal problem with me and ask for my advice.
Share a personal problem with me and I’ll just listen and won’t offer a reply.
If I were to die unexpectedly, what would you like me to know that you have never said to me?
What would you like your legacy to be after you are dead and gone?

For the finale- set a timer for 4 minutes and simply stare into your partner’s eyes without speaking.

Trust me. This works. I can tell you from experience!

Comment below how it goes for you.

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#TruthTuesdays Ep 19

Looking for a good man who worships the ground you walk on and treats you like a queen?

Would you be THRILLED to be with a man who actually cares about hearing your feelings and emotions and not only that, he wants you to FEEL GOOD as much as possible?

Do you want a strong man who can handle your instability at times, your crazy emotions and all the wildness that makes a woman a woman?!

You do!?

Great!

You are in the right place if you want to learn how to attract to you a man who treats you like a Queen!

Do you have any experience with a man who treats you like a queen and how did you attract him in?

Or do you have any questions on the topic? Leave them below!!

3 Ways to Win a Guy Over on the First date – #truthtuesdays ep 17

Have your dates been flat-lining lately?

Are you scared that maybe it’s ‘you’ and that you’re doing or saying the wrong thing?

Are you scared that perhaps there are simply no good guys left out there and that all the good ones are taken?

FEAR NO MORE!

You are not the problem. Maybe you just have some ‘tweaking’ to do in the dating department.

Learn the 3 Ways to Win a Guy over on the First Date

Let’s recap shall we?

1. Smile

When you smile you are naturally more beautiful! You are sending out the message that you are available. That he even has chance. So smile big and smile often. It works!

2. Eye contact and/or playing up your best attribute

Don’t be scared to look your date in the eye. I don’t care how shy you just may be. Eye contact is always an energy exchange. You can GIVE your date energy by looking him in the eye. (And think about when you’re pissed at someone! You DON’T look them in the eye!) So send the right message if you’re interested and make eye contact.

Also – what do you LOVE about yourself? Your long, beautiful hair? Your toned arms? Your slender waist? Whatever it is, also play up what you love about yourself so that you’ll FEEL confident when you look your date in the eye and SMILE.

3. Graciousness (aka being Grateful)

There’s nothing sexier than saying Thank You. You may disagree, however, being grateful is extremely attractive. It means you’re not taking him for granted. It means you never expect anything. Instead you are open to the gifts that he/she has to share with you openly. And don’t ever be rude and assume that someone HAS to be open and sharing with you.

Instead, say Thank You for all that he/she does for you – opens the door, hails you a cab, pays for your meal, you get the idea!

Put all these three tips into play and you’ll easily have a first date turn into a next date which turns into the next and the next and the next…

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55 Winter Dates Ideas

Winter is in full swing in Colorado!

And while I can think of a million and one different things to do in winter and enjoying the snow, some people get a bit snuck.

They want to hide from the snow and they hate being cold.

And or many, it can be challenging to come up with creative date ideas.

I’ve got your back.

Here are enough date ideas to get you through the cold winter months to help you LOVE this time of the year!

55 Winter Date Ideas

Go to a bunch of chocolate shops and sample the hot chocolate. Compare it at every location.
Make a snowman in the park. Bring hot chocolate in a thermos to drink.
Go ice skating. Hold hands.
Donate your time together at the food kitchen.
Drink a bottle of wine in front of the fire
Go to the sled hill and have a competition! Who can sled the furthest? Then snuggle up on the same sled and see if you can go further!
Walk around the neighborhood and look at Christmas lights.
Sneak a flask into the movie theater and watch a holiday movie.
Go skiing or snowboarding together. If you’d never been, take a lesson together.
Decorate gingerbread houses together.
Dress up. Go out to eat at a fancy restaurant and then go to the symphony or watch the Nutcracker Ballet.
Plan a snowball fight with your neighbors.
Go out to breakfast in your pajamas.
Make homemade soup and bread together.
Go on a horse-drawn carriage ride together.
Get your picture taken together with Santa.
Shovel snow together. Shovel a neighbors driveway.
Rub each other’s feet.
Surprise your significant other at work with a coffee or hot chocolate.
Get up early. Stay in your PJs. Grab a thermos of hot chocolate or coffee and go watch the sunrise.
Go to a library or book store and take turns reading to each other out of the same book.
Go snowshoeing.
Have a bowling competition. Give each other prizes for worst bowler, best form and most creative bowl.
Have a Christmas movie marathon.
Make snow angels. Then drink hot cider.
Be a kid again. Go to the store and buy your favorite board game as a child and spend all night playing.
Rent a cabin for the night and have a little get-away.
Shop for new PJs together.
Make cinnamon rolls.
Have an indoor picnic on the floor. Bonus points – light a candle and turn down the lights.
Take dance lessons together.
Make blessing bags for the homeless and hand them out together.
Make cookies. Decorate them. Eat some. Give the rest away.
Volunteer at an assisted-living center and play card games and talk to those that live there.
Create a vision board together.
Build a snow fort!
Snuggle together in bed or on the couch and read a book together.
Put together a puzzle.
Go to a town you’ve never been to and look at Christmas lights.
Rent snowmobiles and have an adventure together.
Have a popcorn and pajama party. Watch a romantic comedy.
Make ornaments for holiday presents.
Make paper snowflakes together and hang them around the house.
Take a cooking class together.
Learn how to knit, sow, pinpoint, etc and do it together on the couch.
Take a bubble bath together.
Make a winter wreath.
Go to an art museum. Have a glass of wine first at a fancy restaurant you’ve never been to.
Take kissing selfies in the snow.
Go caroling
Listen to Michael Buble and dance in the living room.
Go for a drive through the snow and take pictures
Go winter camping
Make a bonfire and roast marshmallows.
The next time it snows, put on all your gear and go for a walk in the snow holding hands.

BONUS IDEAS!

I posted this question in my Facebook group and got a bunch of ideas that I hadn’t even thought of! Join us there and get some more love tips of your own!

56. Going to the hot springs.

57. Decorating the house and putting up xmas lights.

58. Picking out a xmas tree together and setting it up.

59. Strolling arm in arm and visiting xmas shops.

60. Hot chocolate, sleigh ride, and a romantic dinner in front of the fire place with martinis

61. Silly hat contest

62. Who can purchase the most useless pair of mittens

63. Surprise snowball attack on someone and drinking Irish Coffees together.

64. Watching/playing basketball and hockey games

65. Ice Fishing. Nothing says romance like sitting over a hole in the ice together waiting of the fish to bite.

66. Pinball. What?! I don’t know. But why not?

67. Walking through the forest and admiring how the snow clings to the trees.

68. Giving each other massages. Sensually.

69. Dog sledding!

Do you have any of your own favorite holiday dates?

Comment below!

#TRUTHTUESDAYS EP 13 When should I have sex with a man?

Is there a certain number of ‘dates’ to wait for until you should have sex with a man?

Do you wait until ‘I love you’?

Is it better to get it over with and make sure you are sexually compatible before moving forward?

Can you wait ‘too long’ and ruin the relationship and your chances?

What happens if you’re dating multiple guys and don’t want to sleep with any of them?

Girl, these are all great questions.

So – take a seat. Slow your roll. And watch….

Any questions?

Leave them below as I always answer them….

35 of the Best Ice Breaking Questions for the 1st Date

Are you one of the 124.6 million U.S. adults who are single?

And if so, have you ever been on a first date?

Have you ever been stuck in the awkward silence where neither of you can figure out how to fill the gap of words…

Except for something really lame like:

So, what do you do for fun?

Let’s be real.

Being captivating on the first date is super important.

In fact, most men form their opinions about a women within 10 minutes of the date. Women give it 60 minutes.

So that means you don’t have too much time to make a great impression.

Don’t waste it with typical questions like:

What do you do for work?

What do you like to do in your free time?

These questions are boring and honestly won’t give you too much insight into who this person is and if their ‘waters run deep’ so to speak.

Why not, instead, be the date he can’t forget!?

Why not leave your date wanting more!?

Why not be smart and white and clever while also getting to know the person sitting across the table from you!?

Without further ado, here are my top 35 ice breaking questions for the 1st (or 40th!) date!

1. Which three words describe you best?

2. What’s the best thing that’s happened to you this week?

3. What did you want to be when you grew up?

4. What is the longest word you know?

5. What is the best praise or advice you’ve received?

6. What was your favorite birthday or Christmas present?

7. Where would you like to be in five years time?

8. If money was not a concern what would you do every day if you didn’t work?

9. What is the best/worst/cheesiest pickup up line you’ve heard or said or had been said to you?

10. What do you think about chick flicks and which was the last one you saw?

11. Who’s the person in your own life you admire most?

12. What do you hate most about meeting someone on a first date?

13. What is the most expensive thing you have ever bought?

14. Were you closer to your mom or your dad when you were younger?

15. What would your closest friends tell me about you?

16. If you had your own talk show, who would your first three guests be?

17. It’s Saturday morning. What’s the first thing you do when you wake up?

18. If you could have been told one thing that you weren’t told when you were a teenager, what would you like to have heard?

19. What do you keep in the trunk of your car?

20. What’s the most romantic place you’ve ever visited?

21. Who is the most famous person you’ve had a face to face encounter with?

22. If you knew you could not fail, what would you do?

23. If you could be invisible for a day, what would you do?

24. What’s your biggest pet peeve?

25. Can you comfortably eat in a restaurant by yourself? Go to a movie?

26. If you could snap your fingers and appear somewhere else, where would you be?

Would you rather….

27. Find true love or win 10 million dollars?

28. Be rich and ugly or poor and beautiful?

29. Date someone who is 10 years younger than you or someone who is 10 years older?

30. Marry someone who your parents choose for you or spend the rest of your life single?

31. Be the funniest person in the room or the most intelligent?

32. Win $50,000 or let your best friend win $500,000?

33. Have a baby at 10 or a baby at 60?

34. Live in space or under the sea?

35. Lose your sense of touch or your sense of smell?

Now obviously it goes without saying, don’t simply pull out the piece of paper and read off the questions to your date.

Have these questions in the back of your mind and use them to get the conversation flowing and to find out more about this stranger in front of you.

Otherwise, the date can get real awkward real fast.

And your date will NOT look back on the date as memorable and be licking his/her chops to see you again!

Instead, date with confidence. Be a little silly and sassy and allow your true personality to shine through!

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#TRUTHTUESDAYS EP 12 – Ask a man this…to win him over!

Hey Ladies…

Are you struggling in the dating world?

Are you struggling in your relationship?

Do you want to learn the ONE THING you should ask your man every single day (or while dating) to keep his love and respect for you?

OF COURSE YOU DO!

Watch and learn!

Ladies…

I’d love to know your thoughts here! Are you familiar with the masculine and feminine? Does this make sense? Do you need more clarity? Post your questions below!

Men…

Do you agree? Disagree? What are other things you wish women would do/not do in your relationship!? Comment below!

#TRUTHTUESDAYS EP. 11 How to attract a man with the “3 S’s” so he stops his search with other women

How do you get a man to STOP shopping the market and commit to you?

You use the THREE S’s of course!

One – Sex

Don’t you dare be scared to be sexy. Show off the best sides of you. The sides that make you feel sexy and like you are the prize. But DON’T get stuck on ONLY the sex part. Remember that you also have two more wonderful categories that you are going to share. Men are attracted to beautiful looking things. And women are beautiful creatures. Show your sexy side…..

But that’s not all…

Two – Smarts

Show your man your smarts! Sure, you can impress him with what you’ve done for your career. The non-profit you started all on your own. Whatever it is, absolutely show him your intelligence and your strength. That you are capable of having an intelligent conversation and that there is something going on behind the scenes of the pretty face.

But of course don’t get caught up only in your brain or the man will be intimidated and see you as competition.

You have to add in one more thing….

Three – Sharing

Open up your heart, girl. Be vulnerable. Share. Be open. Express the beautiful heart that you have. Allow yourself to be in your feminine and share your emotions. Just don’t get stuck there or you risk becoming too emotional and a type of woman that all men run from.

It’s the combination of all three s’s that make a man want to drop everything and pursue you full time.

It’s the SEX, THE SMARTS, AND THE SHARING that show a man just how valuable you are, like YOU are the prize, and he’ll come running!

Promise.

Action Step:

MAKE YOUR LIST

Take a sheet of paper and write at the top: Sex, Smarts, Sharing.

Fill it out! What do you have to offer in each of the 3 categories?

On the next date, make sure all three of those areas shine and are shown.

You are irresistible to high quality men by BEING a high quality woman balanced in her heart, her body and her mind.

#TRUTHTUESDAYS Ep. 7 – Top 3 Tips to get the guy to ask YOU out (plus one bonus tip)

How would you like the exact guy who has caught your eye to come up to you and start the conversation?

And then to ask you out?

In this weekends episode of Truth Tuesdays, I give you the exact tools to do just that!

For a guy who has feelings (which, um, hello, is pretty much every man), it is HARD to go up to an attractive woman and ask her out.

So, ladies, you HAVE to help them out, here!

If you’re interested in a man, you have to SHOW him that you’ve interested and give him the PERMISSION to come up to you and chat you up!

If you don’t…..

Well you are missing out on a lot of opportunities to start conversations with decent men.

In the video, I give you the top 3 ways to show a guy that you’re interested….so that he’ll come up to you, chat you up and ask you out!

One. Smile

Everyone looks so much more beautiful when they smile! And when you smile at a guy, you boost his confidence.

He thinks “hey, she’s cute. And waaaaaiiiiiit, she’s smiling at ME!”

Two. Make extended eye contact

This one is HUGE. And scary.

Make eye contact with a guy you’re interested in for at least 5 seconds.

And smile!

That gives him the green-light to come up to you and start a conversation….even if it’s “Do I know you?”

Three. Ask for help

Every man likes to feel needed.

So allow him to help you in some type of way!

“Do you know the fastest way to get to….?”

“Do you know what is good here?”

“What do you suggest I order?”

“Can you reach that for me?”

You get the idea.

Allow him to feel like he is needed and necessary and he’ll instantly be much more attracted to a woman that “needs” him than an independent woman who does not.

Four. Create a little mystery

Don’t give it all up!

Don’t tell him all about you and your entire life’s story in your 5 minute meeting.

Instead, create an air of mystery and allow him to want more….to ask for more….and ultimately…

To ask you for a date!

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