Where to Meet NEW Amazing High Caliber Men (part 1 of 3)
I know that you’re busy. I also know you’d like to meet an amazing partner. I also know you’re most likely not into online dating. And you don’t have the time to go out every single night to a new location in order to meet men.
So what do you do? Where do you go? And how do you maximize your time so that you ARE meeting available, high-quality men IN REAL LIFE!!!?? (And once you do meet them, how do you get them to pursue you?)
In real life, you know immediately if you have chemistry.
(Whereas in online dating you have to go out and meet first to find out if you have chemistry and you like him.)
So where do you go when you decide you want to meet someone new?
If you’re like most women, you go to:
- bars
- wine bars
- restaurants
- coffee shops
- your typical lunch spot
- the gym
- parties
Where you NEED to go to meet men:
>>> You need to get more creative and expand your horizons.
I want you to make a list of 100 places you could go to POTENTIALLY meet men.
100?
Yes! I’m not saying you HAVE to go to all of these place over the next month, but it expands your mindset that you COULD potentially meet your future partner at:
- a museum
- a library
- an art opening
- the amusement park
- a dog park
- the farmers market
- inside an elevator
- at a jazz club
- a scotch tasting { trust me, more men will be here than at a wine tasting 😉 }
- volunteering for a cause you believe in
- lunch break at a new restaurant
It’s actually much more relaxed and easier to meet men when you’re not at the typical places … such as the bar.
At the farmers market or a baseball game (standing in line for a hot dog or beer) for example…. you already know you have something in common and you can connect at that level. Whereas if you meet a guy at a bar, you only know he values alcohol or socializing.
I actually once met an ex-partner while standing in line to enter an Abraham Hicks conference. (How amazing to have that level of spiritual connection in common?)
Now, a new locations is not enough… you have to MAKE THE MOST of these new locations.
Are you present and OFF your phone? Are you actually TALKING to NEW people?
- Ask a guy for support on a machine when you’re at the gym.
- Ask a cutie for his opinion on a piece of art at the opening.
- Ask the guy behind you for his recommendation of what to eat at the bistro you visited for lunch.
I want you to look at the next month in your schedule and ask yourself two things:
1 – Is there a way to maximize what I’m already doing?
Could I talk to or meet new people at the same locations I’m always going to? (Such as going to a new class at the gym that is male dominated or NOT wearing your ear buds while working out and saying ‘hi’ to someone new.)
or
2 – Can I go to new locations as a way to get out of my routine and meet new people as a result?
Doing something you wouldn’t normally do brings you into a new circle of people! And they can turn into new friends. And one of those friends could become your person or be friends with your person! Truly, when you expand your social circle, then you are connected to THEIR social circle. So the more people you know, the more potential you have to meeting your exceptional partner!
(I’ll get more into this with part 2!)
Now that you are making a plan to get out there and meet new men… how do you become Irresistible to them?
Join me December 7th for my newest live masterclass: The Irresistible Woman!
